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ill ask for my first crush and an iPod with my chemical romance on it.

I guess I’d always imagined the death bed scene where you talk to the people you love. I know I want to die knowing the people I care about will be alright without me. My ex-wife’s mother was delusional her last days, but she had brain cancer and might have been schizophrenic.

I don’t think I’d want to go like that.

I try not to wonder about those things.

Oh, some of us live our entire lives acting like babies ;-)

The only thing I’ve wondered about that Heather, is what it would be like to be a napkin. :O

I think our species is special to regress, becauseI have not run across any other species that seemed to

A rock? well, they are pretty hardcore ;) haha I am so funny

I will in about 12 hours haha I must leave now or I will be late

It would, I think they just get wiser and we lose it haha

well i think its pointless to wonder bout what you’ll say when you die when you could be out doing something that would help someone out… by the way i have always wondered how it would feel to be a napkin

On the morning of Janury 30, 2007,I wrote in my journal; “Can you say stressed?! I can…” That evening I suffered a heart attack while listening to a guest speaker drone on about Baby Boomers, in my “Adulthood” psych class. Later, when the nurse came into the emergency room and confirmed that indeed I was having a real live heart attack (and not some kick a$$ heartburn or anxiety attack) the first thing I did was pull the cigerettes out of my pocket, and told the nurse to do with them what she willed… I didn’t need them any longer. I’ve not touched one since. Next it was a swarm of medical personell buzzing around me. It was almost surreal. People poking and proding me… putting pills in my mouth… it was a 10 ring circus. It was difficult to think of anything. There was only one pervasive thought… my children. What will my girls do… they are 9, 10 and 17. I’m not done teaching them! So, no… I did not see my past… I saw my future, and the darkness of leaving behind so much of a value! So much LIGHT. This is why it tears my soul out to hear the hopelessness of the young people here. There is SO MUCH JOY… so much light… SOOOOO MUCH TO LIVE FOR. I’ve been given a second chance… and this time not a rebirth … but a second chance in this mortal coil, be it what it is… THAT IS HOT.
Bright blessings ~ Rich

I know I’ll be praying. But I guess I would think about what I had done in
my life and wonder if I had accomplished everything I was put here for.

As R. Bach wrote; “do you wonder if your mission on life is complete? If you’re still alive it’s not!”

I know I’ll die in some sort of accident I can feel it. I won’t get old.

I’m not afraid, I think I’ll be relatively young. I get feeling about what will happen it and they often do. One of the things that scared me when I was a kid was joining the military but I knew I would somehow. Same with loosing a tooth (knocked out) and getting a Brazilian girlfriend. (Single now)

I get that with dreams, the same place with the same things happening since I was a kid, only I make different choices each time. Sometimes if i get chased I run and manage to escape the dream through some sort of portal. I end up in a long room with many many doors. Each door leads to a different dream I have. I’m so weird I know.

I don’t know what i’d ask for whilst dying. Perhaps i’d ask for my mother, or my father. But i know that if i did ask for them i’d be let down once agian, and probalbly for the last time.

My grandmother treated my dad as if he was still at school, and didn’t recongnize me (of course, according to her timeline I didn’t exist yet!) I don’t like to think too much about my own death, but I guess I want what most people want - to be surrounded by loved ones and to tell them all how much they’ve meant to me. And to sow discord by telling a random member of my family that he stands to inherit everything!

When I was standing across the street from the world trade center as the first plane hit the tower the only thing that was in my mind was “RUN!!!!” After being a little less then a mile away and watching the second plane hit (realizing that this was no accedent), all I thought about was my children (same as Rich said). I wasn’t ready to leave them. My daughters were 9 and 1 1/2. And I never realized how afraid I was of dieing until that moment. Not because of where we go when we die but because I don’t want to leave my children without a mother. My children are my world. When the time does come for me to leave this physical life I will most likely be thinking of my children.

Thanks Heather. Me too.
I just wish the people that weren’t so lucky could have gotten out safe also.
The friends that I have talked to that were in the building when it happened mostly told me the same thing. The ones that have children - that’s all they thought about. The ones that didn’t thought of their parents.
And the friends that didn’t make it, their family told me that the last message or conversation they had with them was to tell their kids and/or parents that they love them always.

when i die, i will be trying desperatly to pull the throttle back and adjust the thrusters on my spaceship to direct it into a survivable landing. i assume i will also be crying for my momma, but this is not for-seen at this time.

Spend your time living instead of dying if you have a choice I mean
If there is a big actual physical problem that cannot be healed that is different
but most people are going around deliberately killing time all of us only have a finite amount and none of us know what our alloted share is
So I say live while you are alive be with people that you share life with
try to always find the ray of sun, the best apple, the warmest part of the sand at the beach, or the coldest, depending on your mood, look at the horizon
write or paint or listen or talk or sculpt or read Steinbeck or Shaekespeare or Browning or Yates or Yeats or Mad Magazine, go fishing or whatever the hell moves you and

and above all be with people who are resonating to the same frequncy as yours
if you see life that way
if you are careful and lucky and a lot of other things which don’t exactly follow a certain simple plan
you will meet your soul mate
and even better spend some time, you two, together feeling life

death will come to all of us
it’s not a pretty thing,I don’t think
not a happy thing or experience horrible in most cases
but before death before the end there is all the rest of life
don’t make up all kinds of stuff about dying
look for life feel life love life

Wow! not so much what I will be thinking of, more of if I will suffer or be in pain. I have seen exactly what you have said about your aunt it is my belief that the older a person gets that they will go back into their past I have seen that in both of my grandmothers before they past and again when when my grandpa past( I love that man so) we shared the same birthday! they all had seen so much in their life time, so many stories they shared, so many life lessons they gave, they had lives with so much purpose….. they make me think so much about the state this world is in. Thanx for good topic

When death comes to clame my soul I’m gonna twist his nipples off and hit him over the head with my baton! I’m going out of this world the same way I came I came in, kicking and screaming!

I want to be shot in the face by the age of 55. So I doubt I’ll have a ‘death bed’

-seraph-

Death is accepted in my life. But I put no focus on it. It is what it is…..

Death is pure nothingness, a deprivation of all senses and thought. In my humble opinion.

Thats a very appropriate answer given your name….. :-)

what I would do when dying, i would feel afraid, i would not know what is awaiting me in the next life, but I would be calm because I know it is a natural cycle of life, I have to remember good memories and say good bye if I can to all my loved ones and hope they will be strong and continue with life full of hope after my funeral. My biggest fear is to die suddenly without warning and without saying goodbye, I guess that is normal, but this is a deep question :)

I hope I don’t have a dying bed, more like a futon. i also hope I say something that has a positive impact on someone around me.

I have no idea what I’ll be like when I am dying… Never really thought about it, but now I will lol thanks! xoxo

Why do you have to die? I’m not. I have accepted the gift of everlasting life. You can too. And it is a pure gift. There is no amount of money or good deeds that you could do to earn this gift. But all you have to do is ask for it and it shall be given to you. No questions asked.

I choose to live a full life. Ask me how….

when i got shot in the chest i wanted a girl that i used to work with but nobody knew where to find her. then she cane to see me after i got out and told me that she loved me we had the most passionate love any two humans could have.

hummmm lol i don’t no what i would talk about on my death bed maybe about all my exs lol

I have never wondered what I would ask for or think about, but it will probably be a cigarette (my worst habit). Just recently lost my sister (two weeks ago) she was 58, but regressed back to when we were in high school, it was kind of scary to watch. I know we all have to die sometime, but I don’t spend a lot of time thinking or talking about it (too depressing)

I’m sorry about your sister bar2btl.

Me too.

No one has to breath in and out.

i dont know but i would want my going to have a positive affect on somebody

i think the best anyone can hope for is that they go peacefully without too much pain, slow, and that the people they leave behind are stronger and more in touch with there own lives because of it.

im worried i will want something i cant have then but could hvae right now and i just cant see. i worry too much

Like what? Pizza?

oh yes i wonder……i wa wa wa wa wander…..

i never really thought about it. i’ll get back to you.

well I’ll give you this: Thoughts of death is gruesome, so I don’t reflect on it much- That said., I’m a Christian so I know that when I do die., I’ll be with Christ forever- nothing better than that. So…getting back to your question. If I’m lying on my death bed (and kinda hopin’ there’s no hospital death bed involved- it would be nice to live a full, long life and go when my time is up, preferably before I get ancient and lose my memory and drive my loved ones crazy (in my sleep would be nice at a nice ripe old age), but not before my time), those last few moments that I’m breathing my last., I think, I like many Christians who were at death’s door, will probably close my eyes and see a bright light and a figure beckoning me….home….