I think that I’m in transition from bisexual to lesbian.
I say this because for the past 6 months or more, I’ve been repeatedly disappointed by men which comes as no surprise, and I’m wondering if I should just shut them out for life. What do you think?
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i think you should follow your heart. if you believe that you no longer can love men then be a lesbian
I’m bisexual, and somewhat know how you feel. Anger towards men will easily push you into what you’re going through. Perhaps getting better man friends would do the trick?
my opinion is that no matter what your gender is you are always capable of loving. We face disappointments everyday. Even lesbian relationships have their own problems and mysteries the same as any boy-girl relationships.
so good luck and god bless in your life’s choices. :o)
It doesn’t help..I’ve tried to find better men. But hey, in the country I live in, they’re hopeless. They’re people like Oracle who ask for a blow before I turn lesbian.. ts ts ts…. Anyway, I’d expect that from a man.
My only comfort is that I’ll be leaving this dump soon to go study in the UK. But I feel these last few months are gonna be so heavy..
Thanks lilies and daisies, the same to you :)
This is true, I have been hurt by women plenty of times, but for me, men hurt me the most.
Perhaps you’re hurt by men the most because you want them but aren’t getting any luck with them? You feel rejected by men, so you hate them? If you hate men, then why care how they act, they are simple minded fools right? I think you care about them more then you want to admit.
Oracle, go listen to the wind blow through your head as I’m sure its barren. You and I obviously both know greek very well, and we both know what you meant to say. Go and be yourself, somewhere else. Don’t bother me with your crap.
Maybe I do care, and that’s my mistake. U are right, they are simple minded fools, even if you meant to joke about it. I have been hurt by them, disappointed, and bitter, but I have never been rejected by any. That isn’t the problem. It’s meeting a decent one that is the problem… But when I’m with women they seem to understand things men couldn’t possibly imagine.
Yes Oracle, thanks for proving my point about men. You are obviously an epitomy of a simple minded foolish one. To say the least. But proving that is all I’ll thank you for.
Thanks Heather Marie, I’ll give that one some thought. :)
Be with women for now. You create your identity and you can call yourself what you will, but the most important thing is that you love who you love and feel good and enriched by those experiences.
I was bi for ten years and then gave up men completely. I took time to hear and learn what my heart truly wanted. Either path is fine, only be gentle with yourself and don’t rush yourself. May your path be filled with delights.
Be who you want to be.Whatever makes you happy go with that.xo
are you still sexually attracted to them or are you turned off completely now?
It doesn’t matter who you are attracted to just be attract to them
So if you are half bi half lesbian, then that doesnt matter
Thanks everyone :) Seems I’m still bisexual but happy to be single for the moment. Things have been good.
Thanks again :) xoxo
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