Love help: If I have a boyfriend in Vermont who doesn’t call me what does that mean? - Help.com

It could be he’s just no good with telephones.

It depends how long he hasn’t called you. If it has been a long time forget him - he’s not worth it. You don’t want someone who doesn’t want you. If you have his number try calling him.
Sevenfold^^^ nice ans lol :)
Hope it helps

Call him, I suppose. Or try email. Works for me. If he shrugs you off because you’re far away, you shrug him off right back.

A week or two signals that he’s forgotten you usually. He might have just ‘lost your phone number’. You’ve given him time and he should reply otherwise he’s not worth it. Try e-mail or call him. This will tell you if he’s forgotten you.
Im sure you can do much better anyway especially if he hasn’t even sent you a text or anything.

he’s only on vacation? Leave him alone! He’s probably having a great time and he’s too busy to call!! When will he be back?

Depends how long he’s on vacation for. I suppose he should call you/ e-mail you but he may not have that though I doubt it. Call him and get to the bottom of it. Seriously get through to him he might be too busy…but get through to him instead of waiting if you’re so anxious. Otherwise wait till he gets back and have a go at him

from your other post I deduced that you haven’t been going out that long..i just think it would be in your best interest to have him miss you while he’s there..absence makes the heart grow fonder and all that..instead of creating a big fuss and making him feel bad while he’s on holiday

SOrry if I made it worse/didn’t help!
Good Luck :)

Cool lol just making sure. Anyway,
Hope it ends well!
x

ok sofiopl..I didn’t mean to offend but this time last week I was in your exact position, my boyfriend of two years hadn’t called in a week..I made a big deal of it and now we’re broken up..I’m just trying to offer you some advice..I don’t think i’m being mean but I’m sorry if you’re offended by my advice

he could juz be really busy and haven’t had time to call you or he could juz not wanna talk to anybody rite now. why don’t u call him and ask him for your self?

If he doesnt call you
He is probably with someone in his own town
I hate it when guys think they are
Saving your feelings by lying
I wish they would just tell the truth
Get the cd kelly clackston and listen to
“just walk away”
I like it because she says “if you dont have the answer
Just walk away.

I find that sometimes when I’m away for a I find it hard to find the time to call my other half of 8 1/2 years it’s not that I don’t love him or I don’t care it’s just that I’m out all day then go for a meal with only a short time to jump in and out of the shower and then I’m not back until it’s far to late to be ringing.

I would say try to relax and not let it bother you - he’s just got too much on. He’s probably missing you just as much as you are missing him and feels guilty about not being able to contact you.

How long will he be away?

Perhaps if he’s only away for a couple of weeks you could try chatting to him when he gets back. Tell him how you feel and discuss it with him. If he will be away for a long time try to broach the subject on the phone - ask him why you haven’t heard from him much - is he too busy, does he just not have any time where he feels he can just put time aside to call you.

You could set up phone dates where you ring him or he rings you!

i’m sorry this sounds really mean, but you gotta let him have some space seriously.

i’m just saying your gonna drive him away

and also why don’t you shut up cuz u don’t know the first thing about my sn
fyi love is my last name

also y don’t u stop being a b**ch for awhile and listen cuz i was really trying to help.

WTF?? u know if u ask for help u should atleast try to see what there talkin bout instead of juz shruggin em off i have alot of freinds who drove their Bfs away by bein 2 controlling or clingy

sofiopl,

what do you think you are looking for as an answer?

In your heart do you feel this is unfair and you feel like you have lost him?

Are you wanting someone to tell you you are right to feel hurt so you feel justified in the way you are feeling?

Do you feel that in your heart if he can leave it this long with out contacting you that you don’t feel he is right for you and want to feel that it is OK to leave him?

There are a lot of people here that are trying to comfort you and tell you that it doesn’t mean he doesn’t care and those are the people you seem to react most badly to.

I feel you need to think about the way you are feeling and try to work out what is truly bothering you about the situation. Only then can you get the answers you are seeking.

Sofia,

I cannot give you the answers I do not know how you feel.

What is it that you want?

I gave you a few examples of where to look - did any of them ring true.

I belive that now is not the time to confront him.

Wait untill he gets back - it will give you time to get your thoughts in order.

Write down how you feel, what is hurting you, what you feel is wrong.

When he gets back sit down somewhere peacefull - a garden, a park, a quiet coffee shop and discuss what you have written and understood about how you feel. Listen to both him and your heart.

If it is meant to be you will work things out between you - if not he is not the right one for you and your match is still out there waiting for you.

How long have you been together? Has he ever been away before while you have been together?