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I feel so down right now, I miss my ex boyfriend so much.

He broke up with me 3 weeks ago and asked me not to look for him anymore. I have done my best not to do so, but it is soooo hard. Last week I saw him in a club and did noot say hi, and today I called him twice cause I felt the need to talk to him, I wanted to tell him things that had happened to me that we share common interests but he did not answer. I do not know why he is acting like this since we broke up and stayed in good terms. I never expected this atittude from him. He was so nice with me and seemed so caring. I would like him back, but since he does not want to I woild like to at least stay in touch we have so many things in common. I feel so lost right now…

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Aqua offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
US | 2 years, 6 months ago (3 hours, 15 minutes after post)

It’s the fact that he told you you shouldn’t that makes you want to. Just face the facts, hun. It’s over. In times like these you might want to spend more time with friends and family. Give yourself time to let your wounds heal. It WILL be all right, if you let it be alright instead of seeking drama. Think about it.

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Jerome, ID, US | 2 years, 6 months ago (1 day, 19 hours after post)

Hey, it happens to EVERYONE!! it happened to me last week but you WILL find another guy!!!! just do something to keep your mind off him and you’ll be fine!!

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Toronto, ON, CA | 2 years, 1 month ago (4 months, 3 weeks after post)

give him space…maybe with some more time you will be able to remain friends…in the meant time hang out with your friends and do the things that you enjoy :)

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US | 1 year, 9 months ago (8 months, 3 weeks after post)

same thing happened to me my girl and i broke up 2 months ago we went out for 3 years and lived together for more than a year then 1 day she tells me she just wana be friends and i told her i cant be friends with her cuzz for me is not normal she moved 2 weeks before cristmas i was so down is been 2 months and i stil think of her is not as bad as the first month but i still miss her all u gotta do is be u distract yourself listen to music and go out even if u dont want 2

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wlyd offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (10 months, 1 week after post)

I feel you, my boyfiend of two yrs, went cold last year. I lost my job and i had to go back home and attend other things. He stopped calling or sending messages. I kept communicating. When i insisted much i wanted to know what was wrong he told me we just be fiends coz i will never be happy. After sometime he sent me a message saying he was sory for the silence its only that he wanted to be alone for sometyme and i was still his best friend .I really nagged him to know why all of a sudden but out of anger he wrote and sawas seeing someoneelse. I was really hurt, whether it was true or not its not easy. It been one month but he calls, checks how am doing, updates me on his issues. We went through so much together am sure it is the hardest decision he has to make. I love him so much, i would do anything to get him back. I have kept communication lines open but i miss him so much.

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