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ok so heres my problem.

I am in love with this girl. we work together and were like bestfriends well we call eachother bestfriends. And were really close like we always tell ppl o were off making out and stuff like that and there is so akward tention sometimes like tonight we jus layed in the grass and tlked and we got so close like we would nearly kiss then pull away. Anyway she has a bf shes been wit for a long time wut should i do? should i give up, tell her how i fell, or wut?

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geof offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Murrieta, CA, US | 2 years, 6 months ago (22 minutes after post)

Tell her how you feel, but make sure you are clear with your words. Speak your heart or regret later. If she rejects or doesn’t feel the same you’ll adjust, but if she reciprocates, then hurray!!

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Aqua offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
US | 2 years, 6 months ago (41 minutes after post)

I agree with geof. Just make sure when you tell her that you make it clear you want to still be good friends regardless of her answer.

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yours_dietcoke offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 6 months ago (45 minutes after post)

hmmmm . . . I say go with the flow. When it feels right to talk then talk. I ruined a good friendship by telling him how I felt. Do I regret it? I regret that our friendship was sacrificed, but I feel at ease inside and am no longer suffering with my feelings for him. But, he’s no longer my best friend.

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