life help: This is my rant. - Help.com

Peace? What’s wrong with peace? I say it all the time.

Lol, I think we better leave him alone I think he’s close to the edge.

I never use computers.

I don’t know, you ask him…

Deaflegacy is female, and i’d like to addresss something here. I know Kalaya or deaflegacy.

She’s been through alot in her life. She has lived on the streets and had to panhandle for money. She gets no support from her family and not much from any of our social agencies.

She is deaf and has health issues and some other handicaps. Inspite of this, she has never given up. She does what she can to help herself, and I have gained alot of respect for her. Yes, she may get emotional in her reactions, but while you and I (Splat) have jobs and a bed to lay our heads down at night, many times Kalaya didn’t.

You all need to remember this is not a chat site but a site to help people with their problems. Many people come here with emotional, mental, physical and health issues. Many suffer from depression and take alot of meds. Medications have a wide array of affects on our bodies and minds and emotional, and sometimes a person in depression or just having a bad day will lash out. On this site, though, you have to expect that due to the nature of it as being help.com.

We aren’t helping each other if we don’t find out what is troubling a person or what their problem is about. We don’t help each other if we fight with each other. We aren’t helping each other if we don’t stop and try to understand where a person is coming from or why they are so defensive.

Please, if you don’t want to help or understand Kalaya, then don’t make fun of her or talk openly about her like this unless you have been homeless with no mone or job and dealing with health, emotional issues and handicaps like hers. She only reacts cuz she has been where most of us haven’t been.

So please, all of you, have some compassion, empathy and understanding.

Take care.
Jonetta

I was not making fun at all, I was defending someone elses post.

I know that Splat. I read that post. I didn’t know if I should post this here or in that post. I’m not here to judge anyone. I just know we have to stop sometimes and try to understand why a person is reacting as they do.

Anyway, please don’t think I was judging you or anyone else. I just know many people don’t understand or know Kalaya’s situation. If I felt someone was being unfair to you, I would come to your defense cuz I don’t like that type of behaviour. We just all need to get along.

Take care Splat and nice to make your acquaintance.

I wish you good luck with the future I hope it turns out for best for you. I hope if you have leg pains that maybe you’ll be able top get a seated job.

Again, good luck.

Splat.