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you are on a rough road. i do not know when things get better in your end. but i just hope it will come soon.hang on tight. it is on it’s way. this time,faith is all we have. my prayers are with you and your family.

It’s really amazing, but when I read your post, I still read a great amount of hope! I’m so proud of you. When in your position so many do become hopeless. So, you impress me. That being said, what are your options of getting into the Aid system. Where I live if you have the minor children with you over 50% of the time, they qualify for aid (welfare). I understand that some people don’t ever want to do that, but the truth of the matter is YOU’VE worked hard and paid into this system, now in your time of need its OK to use it; that is why it is there! Also, where I’m from… the Salvation Army will pay the gas and electric bill for one month, every 6 months. St. Vincet dePaul, is a Catholic organization that gives food, and other things. You can buy cars from St. Vicent dePaul and computers etc…and of course the fee for such things is much less. Can you consolodate your debt? and HEY… if the courts say you get alimony and child support, DON’T look at is as being under his thumb (BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT)… look at it as PAY BACK for everything HE PUT YOU THROUGH!!! Catholic Charities is a good place to start… or if you have your own denomination that you belong to, perhaps they have something similar. If you are not religious… so what, swallow some pride so you can succeed, and go to Catholic Charities.

All that being said, I want let you know about a book I’ve written. It’s called, “Can Someone Please Tell Me Why My Life Sucks”. I wrote it after I went through a very rough time like you are now. My family started calling me Job, and saying if I didn’t have bad luck, I’d have no luck at all. But I got through it… and the other side was so much better than I had thought. I’ve shared how I did it in this book… perhaps it can help you.
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Bright Blessings ~ Richard

to start with life i know is full of trouble we all have one thing or the orther to face to pass through there will all ways be a time when all simce to be too hard than what we can bear but i think am right when i say LIFE without a challenge as not complet at time what we face dittermean how far we could go why because it is the strenght to withstand the hard time that will dittermean how far we could go in life i want you to know that there is no prize without a challenge i mean it is when we finish a thing before a rewared will be given i want you to know that in the miss of all this there is HOPE for you i just want you to see it open your eye to see beyound the problem open your maind to see why is things are the way they are you ask why do i say there is hope frist you are still livenig second you have kids third there is tomomrrow with this i can tell you there is better tomomrrow just hold on to GOD i know he will speak to you.believe me there is better tomomrrow.

Stop focusing on the bad things. Do not put a single second of thought into them. Instead focus on where you want to be. Don’t worry about how you’re going to get there, just imagine everyday where you want to be.