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Queen Elizatron 4000
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One year:

I have been on the site for one year. I have learned a lot, changed a lot, and regressed a lot. I was part of the site pretty actively, and thought I helped, but really, I hate to say it, I wasted one year of my life. I’ve gained weight due to the site. I’ve lost my children and didn’t even see them grow up. I spent one year answering post, instead of doing things with my kids and husband. I gave help.com every second of my life.

I messed up, and wasn’t warned before getting kicked out, but in a way, I’m thankful. Now I have the excuse to give up. I’m saying goodbye, the reason is for close minded people. People that aren’t willing to give warnings, rules, and chances. I’m giving up, I’m closing my account. I’m saying goodbye to the site because it’s really time for me, to get my life back. I need to become myself again.

I’m sorry I let you all down, I’m sorry I broke the rules, I’m sorry I wasn’t warned so I could do better.

I hope you all have a great life. Goodbye.

Elizabeth:)

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Queen Elizatron 4000 changed the tags on this post: they were "marriage, life, reason, Beauty, Excuse, Child, Weight, hope, elizabeth, hate, Mood" 2 years, 6 months ago.

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Jeff changed the tags on this post: they were "marriage, life, reason, Beauty, Excuse, Child, Weight, hope, elizabeth, hate, Mood, nature, Mirror, god, Rain, Wind, Year, Eye, poetry, Abjection, depression, failure, Alive, Today, Help.com, love, computer" 2 years, 6 months ago.

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Sayreville, NJ, US | 2 years, 6 months ago (6 minutes after post)

I understand where you’re coming from. I try not to get on when I’m home, only at work. Sometimes I find myself going on from home and have to stop myself.
I’m sorry to see you go. You have helped lots of people including myself.
Good luck with all you do.

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Richard Cor de Lyon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 6 months ago (15 minutes after post)

What’s going on Elizabeth?? Broke what rules.. kicked out?? You never let me down.. and I’m sure you helped more than you know!

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Queen Elizatron 4000 changed the tags on this post: they were "marriage, life, reason, Beauty, Excuse, Child, Weight, hope, elizabeth, hate, Mood, nature, Mirror, god, Rain, Wind, Year, Eye, poetry, Abjection, failure, Alive, Today, Help.com, love, computer" 2 years, 6 months ago.

tiger ruff offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Delamere, C5, GB | 2 years, 6 months ago (16 minutes after post)

what rule and i for one will miss your funny and great advice you lightened up help com and sorry about the rest

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Bart Shrink Stevens offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Wilsele, 02, BE | 2 years, 6 months ago (20 minutes after post)

If you hadn’t been here, we wouldn’t have gotten to know you. So not coming here would’ve been the real mistake. I truly hope you change your mind. But a man can only hope.

You never let us down. At least, not the people who truly know you.
I hope I’m one of those happy few.

And now the weeping begins.
:’(

Greetz
Bart

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Bethesda, MD, US | 2 years, 6 months ago (22 minutes after post)

Ill miss you Lizzy…

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A.n.y offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Greensburg, PA, US | 2 years, 6 months ago (23 minutes after post)

bye lizzy :( we’ll miss u

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bretnova offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Colorado Springs, CO, US | 2 years, 6 months ago (37 minutes after post)

T_T by liz it was really cool talking to you hope things get better

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ɐʇɐɯɹǝɟ.Suc offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Luton, I1, GB | 2 years, 6 months ago (40 minutes after post)

T_T T_T T_T

Im sad your going
But if you think it is whats best
It most probably is

At least I have your email :)

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Lilly offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Lewisham, B8, GB | 2 years, 6 months ago (1 hour, 5 minutes after post)

I’ll miss you a lot Elizabeth but if you feel you need to go to make a new start then go.

I only want the best for you so do what you think is best =)

And if you ever decide you want to come back, I’ll be the first to welcome you!

Take care and good luck then Elizabeth.

Do bear in mind that you’ve helped a lot of people here, you haven’t been useless to us

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aehtla offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Nassau, 23, BS | 2 years, 6 months ago (1 hour, 9 minutes after post)

Didn’t know you all that well but for some reason it feels like family is leaving. But your blood family is more important kisses and squidges to all of them and you. Have a Great day with your loved ones

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Queen Elizatron 4000 offline Verified User (3 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 6 months ago (1 hour, 21 minutes after post)

I tried emailing you Jeff, so check your email. Everyone knows the reason btw, no need to keep talking about it.

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Queen Elizatron 4000 offline Verified User (3 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 6 months ago (1 hour, 24 minutes after post)

And you revoked me for talking in chat, all I was trying to say in chat was, that I wanted to keep this post for goodbyes, not to attack me.

Thank you.

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Queen Elizatron 4000 offline Verified User (3 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 6 months ago (1 hour, 25 minutes after post)

I need talk to admin (you) but you’re not willing to have a one on one with me, because you like to embarrass me in post.

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Queen Elizatron 4000 offline Verified User (3 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 6 months ago (1 hour, 27 minutes after post)

I’m expressing my thoughts, and trying to seek help. Help is unwelcome here I guess. Bart and I were talking and getting over things. You brought it back up.

Why not step up and be a man, and let me have my pride. Email me, like a admin, please.

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Mï†z¥-superMODel offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Tullahoma, TN, US | 2 years, 6 months ago (1 hour, 51 minutes after post)

Liz I don’t want you to leave! Will we still have our help/myspace group? I don’t want you to leave completely, but maybe cutting back would be necessary to make you happier in your home life. Please don’t cancel your account, just check in with us once in while. We love you and will miss you terribly…
If you do leave, don’t forget about me…
xoxo

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Queen Elizatron 4000 offline Verified User (3 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 6 months ago (1 hour, 55 minutes after post)

Mitsy, I’m giving you the myspace group. You can run it. I won’t be there anymore.

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bretnova offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Colorado Springs, CO, US | 2 years, 6 months ago (1 hour, 56 minutes after post)

you won’t even be on myspace ; ; or just the group???

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Queen Elizatron 4000 offline Verified User (3 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 6 months ago (1 hour, 57 minutes after post)

Jeff can’t have a grown up conversation with me, he also blocked my IM and emails. Wow!

I guess we’ll have to play hardball.

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Queen Elizatron 4000 offline Verified User (3 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 6 months ago (1 hour, 59 minutes after post)

Yup, I was trying to talk to him. I guess he can’t handle me either. Wow, weak…..

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Queen Elizatron 4000 offline Verified User (3 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 6 months ago (2 hours, 3 minutes after post)

I guess it’s time to get myself banned. I want my named removed, and my replies. I’ll close all my post.

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bretnova offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Colorado Springs, CO, US | 2 years, 6 months ago (2 hours, 4 minutes after post)

i think i’m gonna get banned too your still a good friend elizabeth

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 6 months ago (2 hours, 26 minutes after post)

It was nice meeting you. It’s unfortunate that you missed out on the things you said you missed. Perhaps by leaving this site, you can find a balance in your life.

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ndiscatseyes offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 6 months ago (2 hours, 35 minutes after post)

You were one of the first to answer my post, on that sad too early in the morning to even mention! Thank you so much!! you will be missed sooooo much! xoxoxo,s lizzy, you have no idea how you helped me on that day I was at the lowest point I might not still be here if it wasn’t for you my friend your words of encouragement helped me so much I didn’t feel all alone and that was so important to me cause I could have been in a room filled with people and felt all alone(im such a punk im crying) be well friend

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Ephrata, PA, US | 2 years, 6 months ago (2 hours, 56 minutes after post)

lizz i will misss you, i will ry to e mail you if that is ok. i wish you the best and hope we are still friends i will suport you and lift you up any way that i can rob:-)

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Queen Elizatron 4000 offline Verified User (3 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 6 months ago (2 hours, 57 minutes after post)

Thank you for your support!

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Mï†z¥-superMODel offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Tullahoma, TN, US | 2 years, 6 months ago (2 hours, 57 minutes after post)

Ok I am sorry to know you wont be a part of it any longer… :(
How do I take over as moderator?

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Queen Elizatron 4000 offline Verified User (3 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 6 months ago (2 hours, 59 minutes after post)

I’ll put you as admin in there.

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Mï†z¥-superMODel offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Tullahoma, TN, US | 2 years, 6 months ago (3 hours after post)

ok

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AnnA ~ Lady Wolf offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Detroit, MI, US | 2 years, 6 months ago (3 hours, 24 minutes after post)

im really sorry to see you go, we barely met! im gonna miss youuuuuu

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Bart Shrink Stevens offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Wilsele, 02, BE | 2 years, 6 months ago (4 hours, 37 minutes after post)

The problem with mods will allways stay the same. Finding good people isn’t allways the key to finding good mods. I’m sure all of these mods are great people, but some people just change when given power. Elizabeth probably changed as well.
Thing is, it’s easy to shut someone up, when you can delete their opinions, but let your own remain. Just notice how many posts have been deleted in this perticular thread.

Again: I’m sure you’re all good people. Just doing what you think is right … but sometimes people make mistakes. That’s what defines us as people. And if any of the mods truly offended the queen, then this mod should get a warning sign from the big boss. Don’t really know who that might be. But the head mod should make a statement that none of his mods are given the power to insult people searching for help.

We are often dealing with vulnerable people on this site. Perhaps there should be a course obligated to follow before given the mod power.

Just one man’s opinion.

Greetz,
and GOD SAVE THE QUEEN :-p (ok, that might have been a lame joke)

Bart

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apache tear offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Milverton, ON, CA | 2 years, 6 months ago (4 hours, 51 minutes after post)

Awww, well miss you QueenE. If you ever need us we’ll be here. kiss kiss
Hope you have a good life.
-Jessica-

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