Love help: I’m single again.

r0ck4xlife

I’m single again.

The guy I was dating broke my heart but it’s okay I can deal because we’re still friends. I need some help.. Theres this boy and he’s pretty cute right and I was thinking about going for it.
There’s like 3 different problems though..
1. He’s 22 and I’m only 16.
2. He’s got a kid
and 3. My ex boyfriend is always on my mind.
I don’t know what to do.
Please help.

Oh YEAH hi HEATHER!!!! :]

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JoJo 28 #
Fort Collins, CO, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (2 minutes after post)

Yeah, my thought is that you’re too young to be in a relationship with this guy. Date guys more your own age.

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heath23456780 7 #
Fond Du Lac, WI, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (8 minutes after post)

well if you want my opinion i dont think the age thing matters much since your 16 and thats leagle (WITH PARENTAL CONSENT) and you cant wait around forever for your ex, if its ment to be it will happen :)and about the kid it’s up to you i don’t see a problem unless you think it will be to much to deal with. you dont want to be a babysitter insted of a lover!

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (9 minutes after post)

He’s not a boy. He’s a man. You are a girl.

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r0ck4xlife 2 #
Fond Du Lac, WI, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (21 minutes after post)

JoJo - Yeah, but age is just a number.
Heather - Age is just a number, and i definatly don’t think jon’s gonna be faithful even if he did want me back which he acts like he does all the time… like just now at break he was hugging me and ****.. so he gives me mixed signals… idk. i’m not gonna wait for him. it wont be too much i dont think i just dont want baby mama drama. idk.

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r0ck4xlife 2 #
Fond Du Lac, WI, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (22 minutes after post)

My3sons4ever - you got a point too.
idonthaveemai - haha yeah. hell yeah man!

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heath23456780 7 #
Fond Du Lac, WI, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (23 minutes after post)

Okay hes not that much older than you, plus its your choice

atypical_clone 0 #
Livingston, W9, GB | 1 year, 3 months ago (11 hours, 7 minutes after post)

BREATHE! You’re just out of a relationship and already you’re looking to move on to the next one?? Take some time to build your relationship with yourself - it’s an ultimately more important and rewarding one. It will also help with your 3rd problem.

As for the other 2… I would ask what a 22 yr old is doing if he wants to go out with a 16 yr old. You’re on completely different levels of personal development. You’re also too young to have to deal with the baggage of a child. Don’t bother with him - wait for a better option to present itself. It will.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (13 hours, 10 minutes after post)

At 80 age is just a number. At sixteen, it makes a huge difference. In a few more years it would matter really but right now you are going through different things then he is right now. Find somebody closer to your own age that you can enjoy simular interests with & if he’s still available in a few years go recheck him out.

shacar 0 #
US | 1 year, 3 months ago (17 hours, 41 minutes after post)

he’s a child!

r0ck4xlife 2 #
Fond Du Lac, WI, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (23 hours, 8 minutes after post)

HEATHER: get on the chat in 2nd hour. i want to be with jon, i miss him. **** the 22 year old he’s just wanting some action and it’s not gonna happen now.. i made my decision.

atypical-clone: i totally get what your saying. I really still want to be with my ex, the 22 year old is out. so thanks for your help.

my3sons4ever: thanks i’ll keep that in mind.

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robkelle 2 #
Ephrata, PA, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 day, 2 hours after post)

take a break!!! you are 16 go out with friends start a new hobb build on your own life to be a better you people will be drawn to YOU because you have your own life and it is interesting. this boy is already comted (to his child/maybe his ex??) you need to make friends/spend time with family go to college the right guy will find you rob:-)

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♫♪♫If I Could 4 #
US | 1 year, 3 months ago (3 days, 6 hours after post)

I’m sorry, but its for the best!!!!

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Antoinette200 0 #
Woodbridge, NJ, US | 11 months ago (4 months, 1 week after post)

Sweetie..
You have to open your eyes and see that man is not right for you.
Move on.
There are a lot of stunning, amazing, nice, single, teenagers in this world.

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shacar 0 #
US | 11 months ago (4 months, 1 week after post)

You 16 and him 22 is a bad combination, against the law in some states. Stay in your own age bracket, at lease someone wont go to jail for a possible indiscretion.

You are 16 and free to live and enjoy your life. Don’t get hung up on any one. Learn about life. You have plenty of time to be serious.

Take care little one

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