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There is this girl that i like.

i have only known her for a week and a half though. we have become pretty good friends and like hanging out together. i asked her out about 3 days ago and she said no and also said that i am to sweet and nice. there is this other guy that is going to ask her out tomorrow and she likes him. i hang with her more than him but don’t flirt much. i really don’t know how to flirt. how can i get her to like me and does anyone have any tips on flirting? thanks for your help.

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jbfanju offline Verified User (3 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 3 months ago (7 minutes after post)

You seem like a great kid. One thing is that we can’t really make anyone like us or love us. We can just be ourselves and show our personalities and let life take its course. There are 3 things all girls love. Maybe you want to try them First, people who are smart, Second people who make them laugh, Third (and this is a secret well kept) boys who can dance. If you want to “flirt” with this girl, smile a lot, not laugh, SMILE!, wink at her once on a while, and compliment her on how she looks and the things she does or her natural abilities. BE HONEST! Girls can pretty much tell when people are lying to them. Good luck!

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Queen Elizatron 4000 offline Verified User (3 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 years, 3 months ago (12 minutes after post)

I know how but I may suck at it so take it and try it and let me know ok.
In my eyes flirting is touching. Like grabbing the back of her neck or waist. Put your hand on her hands while talking. Make eye contact. When she gets up stand up with her and put your hand on her back as she walks away.

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lokiwraith offline Verified User (3 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 3 months ago (13 minutes after post)

honestly if your in the friend category your not likely to get a date with this girl unless the feeling is mutual and in this case im sorry to tell you but it doesnt seem like she interested in in u the same way be her friend dont try and date here just be there for her

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Queen Elizatron 4000 offline Verified User (3 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 years, 3 months ago (2 hours, 41 minutes after post)

http://www.sirc.org/publik/flirt.html
http://www.links2love.com/teens_flirt…
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http://www.ehow.com/how_15903_flirt.html

Here are some great links to help you learn to flirt.
I even found some great advice on how to read flirting, check it out. I think we all need to read these.

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hulett90 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 2 months ago (1 month after post)

say “hey i really want to tell you somethin and don’t get me the wrong way but i liked you since the first time i saw you i want you to know that cause no matter what you will always have a spot in my heart” even if you think thats embarissiin but if you never say it she will never know you ever liked her! then she will go head and like someone else cause you never decided to tell her how much you iked her! but if you tell her she will always start to like you (so you know i’m a girl and i know that stuff)

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