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spiritedsoul
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Sandgate, G5, GB

for some reason I dream of people (mostly people who

I’m close to) see me suffering, and by doing it it gives me satisfaction, but also later feel satisfaction from feeling I am able to fight back and make a scene in front of them. like to tget them to notice me in some extreme way, by seeing me suffer or make some sort of confrontation. I also dream in my mind of impressing people by anything, what I so, do, act…. and it distracts me from doing ordinary day to day things… only now I see it as a problem.

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Adam_J0n3 offline Unverified User #
US | 1 year, 6 months ago (27 minutes after post)

i spend alot of time dreaming. i find it a problem cause it ususaly upsets me. erm.. i find doing stuff helps but if yours makes you happy how is it a problem? =]

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spiritedsoul offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
Sandgate, G5, GB | 1 year, 6 months ago (31 minutes after post)

because it distracts me from doing day to day things… long term I don’t feel it does me any favours.. just it gives me that real satisfaction for a short period of time.

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Hope offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (4 hours, 2 minutes after post)

Are you talking about daydreaming, or dreaming when you are sleeping?

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spiritedsoul offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
Sandgate, G5, GB | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 day, 2 hours after post)

daydreaming

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