friends help: I dont wat to do, I have a huge crush on a 7th grade girl(age 13) and im in the 10th grade guy (age 15). - Help.com

She’s probably just shy as well, especially if you’re a bit older.
Just ask her, I doubt she will make fun of you.
Seriously, you have nothing to lose by asking her!
And everything to gain…

So come on, be brave and go ask that girl out!
Even if she says no, she’ll probably be flattered by the fact that and older guy takes interest in her so she probably won’t make fun of you or put you down.

yeah thanks for the good points but if she dosnt wanna go out with me then she mite tell her sister or her best friends, i now her friends and if they found out they wuold spread it

Even if they do spread it, it can’t really do you much harm.
compared to what you would gain if she said yes, it’s not much really =)

yeah thanks for the good points but if she dosnt wanna go out with me then she mite tell her sister or her best friends, i now her friends and if they found out they wuold spread it. or if we do go out i mite want to go out in secret but she mite want to tell her friends that im goin out with her, help

why go out in secret?
would you be ashamed of going out with her?

Well i like a girl who is in the 8th grade, im in 10th too, and letting everyone know was the worst thing i did, i get bullied for it

noooooooooo its just that her friends also now my friends in my year and if they new, then they would make fun of me non stop

^^^dat was me btw (posting anonymosly is confusing

yea i get bullied by everyone :( i know how you feel, i would say, ask her out

should i go out with her in secret so people would not bully me

Well if she likes you back i dont see the point of keeping it secret, but if she hates you, like the girl i like does, then its alot worse

i really need to think about this

May i ask why you like her ?

i have very deep feelings for her, i really havnt felt this way before, ive had tiny crushes bit this is a big one. theres louds of fit girls out there, but i dont care because i want to go out with her. she is also pretty and a nice person i like to go out with, its like i want to traet her and try to make her happy all the time, and i also want to look after her and get to no her better.

If you like her that much then go for it, you’ll only be unhappy if you don’t.

yea, and when your older and if your in a happy relationship with her then the people who tease you now will be gutted

Write her a letter. I was in a similar situation (10 years ago now, yikes!) I really liked this girl but thought that she didn’t like me and it tore me up for a year. Eventually, I got her address and sent her a Valentine (it was the time for it, nothing weird!) card and present. Nothing came of it and I thought, ah well, nothing ventured yaddah, yaddah, yaddah. Anyway, another year passed (it seems so much shorter now) and we had become friends through other friends and we were all talking about gifts and stuff, and she mentioned this Valentine she’d received but didn’t know who it was from (and why would she? They’re annonymous). I seized my chance, drawing on my flair for the dramatic, I said that it probably had some awfully trite rhyme in it like… and i recited the poem I’d written for her… then walked away.
The next day, after she’s done some asking around, we were together.

Moral of the story, Take a chance, and be patient. If she’s worth it, she’s worth waiting for.

Oh, also, ‘find’ something of hers (get your friend to nick it, in a playful way of course) and give it back - that’ll start a conversation:

You: Hi, I think this is yours.
Her: Oh, wow, yeah, it is. So, um, where did you… how did you get this?
You: We share a friend, (s)he took it as a joke, I took it back. Hey, I like you top, is it new?

You get the picture.

by the way skump valentines day is on my birthday

just tell her that you like her, don’t listen to wat other people!

GOOD LUCK :)

Ask her out. Why would your friends make fun of you? B/c she’s younger? If that’s the reason then you shouldn’t let that bother you. As the old adage goes ‘age is nothing but a number’ and a two-year difference is nothing. One of my friends parents have a 11-year age gap and they’ve been married for 30 years, another friend’s parents have a 13-year age gap and they’ve been married for 20-somehting years.

I’m not saying that you’re gonna marry this girl, but you shouldn’t let age get in the way of a relationship that could actually be the real thing.
Ask her out. You have nothing to lose.

If your ashamed of her and don’t want your friends to know then you must not like her as much as you think you do. Age shouldn’t matter in a relationship, unless the age difference is big.

Is this still an issue?

im reading this because i have a crush on a girl she dont like me but sometimes i make her laugh i practically have nothing to lose but still i dont whant to get embarresed i dont no can someone help me