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The pain will pass. I have never been through an experience such as this, but I recommend talking to other people about this. Discussing this with others will help you to find a new perspective on the situation.

Learn to ACCEPT that she is not staying anymore as the person you have known her to be. people change and so do feelings.
GO OUT with friends and share with them as expressing problems would eventually help.
JOIN activities or clubs, or be focused with work or in school and GET TO KNOW other people. it will help you move on with your life.
BE HEALED by allowing each day to pass. FACE the pain if it comes back.
REMIND yourself that though it is hurtful, you can still move on and be happy. time will heal.

i wish you peace of mind and i hope things will be better for you.
take care. ~lilies

Wow. had the same thing happen to me. I wasted *years* on post-breakup sadness. Don’t let that happen to you. This happens alot. Really, really, you don’t want to waste away on this sort of thing. I know there is pain and suffering, but you will have to weigh your current options which is either #1 continue your mourning #2 make your time productive and awesome. Obviously #2 is hard to reach because your emotional state is going to be shoddy. Well, the choice is yours. I used to dread going to sleep because i would have dreams where she would be in it, taking care of me. And boom, i’d wake up and feel intense sadness. That kind of stuff will just have to run its course. Capice?

I would say if its gotten to the point that you clung on til she is no longer your friend, your now in danger of being considered a stalker if you dont just simply let go.
I know it hurts & only time will heal but through every relationship we learn & grow & hopefully that will help you in your next relationship when the time comes.

A relationship between 2 people truly works and LASTS when there is reciprocity.. you just can’t give and give and give and not receive back.

Not everybody you love will love you back. But you just have to move on. Life will make things work when the time is right and when the right person for you comes to your life.

If she is undecise.. that’s it.. she doesn’t valorize you for who you are. Find somebody else. Have courage to do that. Toughen up! Your life is not over.