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guys i need some help helping a friend.

Her boyfriend and her are going to different high schools next year, idk what to say to cheer her up.. she is convinced she will never see him… and that there gona break up.. what do i tell her? she is a good friend and i hate to see her down like this… plz help.

EDIT: these two were like made for each other, ive seen it.

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guys i need some help helping a friend. Her boyfriend and her are going to different high schools next year, idk what to say to cheer her up.. she is convinced she will never see him… and that there gona break up.. what do i tell her? she is a good friend and i hate to see her down like this… plz help.

downcollegegirl offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (7 minutes after post)

ntalon4… I don’t know thats true. I live an hour and a half away from my boy… and things work just fine!

I’d probably remind your friend that very few people find the love of thier lives in high school. There will be plenty of other people for her as she grows older. And.. if she is one of those few who has found her love already.. then things will work out. If they don’t, it only means that they weren’t meant to be together and that there is someone else out there for her!

goodluck!

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Oster: Gettin' It. offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 1 year, 4 months ago (8 minutes after post)

Hi, Tay!

Give her ideas about how they can stay in touch and see each other. Tell her what you feel — they were made for each other, and he’s going to do his part to stay together, too.

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TheBinsk offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (18 hours, 50 minutes after post)

Long term relationships may be hard, but it isn’t the end of the world. See if she is willing to participate in the long distance relationship. The key question to ask is: Does she really want to continue a relationship if it is long distance? Because no matter what, its going to be that way. But if she says yes, than comes the easy part. Determination. If she really loves him, or him to her, then they will make it work. Call eachother, see eachother after school…there are a myriad of things they can do. But they can’t just sit around and complain, because that will definitely lead to a break up.

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heya! offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (1 day, 12 hours after post)

If they love each other the distance between them and going to different schools will make no difference. She should be happy shes got someone to love. :)

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tay tay offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Lancaster, PA, US | 1 year, 4 months ago (2 days, 1 hour after post)

yeah, ive been trying, thanks for all the help guys.

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Dollard-des-Ormeaux, QC, CA | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 week, 5 days after post)

what about the week-ends, you may have a lot of home work but would you get screwed by you parents and teacher to be able to see your true love? i say YES!

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