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You could at least try going there and seeing what it is like one time. If you don’t fit in or don’t like it just leave and not go back.

How can you succeed if you never try? If you refuse to try then you automatically fail.

Goth is about inner beauty, and outwardly expressing the inner.

Goth is intelligence and creativity, and seeking the beauty in the world around us, and in others.

Goth does not hate, but avoids selfishness and belligerence.

Goth is not about being accepted, it’s about wanting to be with beautiful souls.

Goth may seem dark, but it is about freely exploring how we can shine light on the world.

Goth is clean in body, mind and soul.

Goth is Geisha in it’s artistry for both men and women, but not subservient or superior in attitude.

Goth is about sincere appreciation.

You say you appreciate “their” this-and-that. What do you want to make yours?

Get yourself in black and pewter (or other white metals). I personally start with unique, well-made shoes, and build up an outfit around that. You can pick one thing that works well for you, and do the same. Care to share a pic of yourself?

It is about “trying.” It is about caring about the details and finding what works for you. If you look better in something tailored, great, go for a sharper, cleaner look. Choose the materials that fit the scene, and the cut that fits you.

If you try to fail and you succeed, have you had success or failure?

IF you want to go to one of those places and you go there and you like it, who cares what other people think. If you see people staring at you, just look at them and wave or something. What does it matter what they think of you? They don’t even know you. You shouldn’t miss out on life because you’re worried what other people are gonna think or you’ll look dumb. What does it really matter? As long as you’re having fun doing what you’re interested in and what you like to do you’re the one that’s benefiting from the experience.

it doesnt matter what you look like as long as you have fun. I have the same situation except with emos(hate to steryotype)