girl help: in ur fantasy what is ur ideal boy/girl? - Help.com

I like a guy taller than me so I can rest my head on his shoulders.
I like a guy who can cry and also laff.
I like a guy who lets me laff and will also let me cry on his shoulder.
I like a guy with big strong arms for those more than perfect hugs!
I like a guy to be spiritual and accept my religion.
I like a guy who is a bit arty. Does not matter how - cooking, painting, music etc …
I like a guy who can put up with me and my wacky moments :o)
I like a guy who is not afraid to grab my round the waist and kiss me in public! and show his affection
I like a guy who is completely open and honest with me no matter what

I could go on - but this gives ya some idea!

heather , ditz you are so demanding or should i say sophisticated ..

you can get your man with the characters you asked from the men store just around the corner :)

anyway .. for me ..

ideal girl ..

physical … simple , cute

characters … non smoker [i hate smoke] , love kids , can understand me and willing to live the rest of her life with me .. coz I’m gonna be there for her

that is how i see my other half .

I take offence to ‘demanding’ Ame - these are little things that mean the world to me.

Also I would have you know that I have found a wonderful guy who ticks all of these boxes. Thank you.

no ditz to take it like that i didn’t mean it that way women always demanding that is the beautiful side of them . and .. that is why men can resist their requests

i know that these 9 lines are the basics of your i deal knight and i didn’t mean to make fun of it ,,I’m sorry if you got the wrong way i do hope for you the best life you deserve and the man you want .. sorry again …

My Ideal women is one that is just the common girl that I can be proud to call her mine that about sums it up for me.

Not sure I understand your use of the word Demanding. Wanna explain wot ya mean in your words. I think demanding is to want want want and in the wrong kinda way like a mean way.

Im not upset - life is too short for that! apology accepted. Thank you Ame :o)

My ideal guy: Jim ;-)

no ,, demanding i meant was being specific like you drew a portrait of that person and that is it ….

after finished with the drawing you are waiting for him/her to come and , no one else

thanks for understanding :o)

Ooooooh - d’oh - dont mind me. I did take that the wrong way. Yeah we know what we like and want - and will wait. Oops ~squidges~ Ame sorry for going all dufus on ya Bro! teeheehee

Hrmmm, my ideal girl is the following:

Cute in that “I can’t stop kissing her” way
Intelligent enough to give me a run for my money in arguments
Has the ability to be right and proper in the right setting
Has the ability to be down and dirty in the right setting (not necessarily sexual)
Knows how to make me smile
Knows how to make me laugh
Knows to hide me when I’m crying
Has a good taste in music
Isn’t afraid of me showing my affection in public (I love doing that, showing off)
Isn’t to demanding, but knows what she wants
Respects my opinion (doesn’t HAVE to agree with it)
Someone I can be honest with, and that can be honest with me
Someone who will share in all my cries, laughs, and joys

But above all, and this is important

Shows me that she loves me

And I too, have a wonderful woman, that checks each box here.

-Shal

Someone who sees me more than how others do,
Who goes beyond intelligence and wit and charm.
Someone who lets me be when i want to cry,
and someone who watches over me.

As a girl, I dreamed up a list and willed it to come to life.
As a woman, I focused on finding someone that didn’t have the qualities I hated but had at least some of the qualities I loved.
As a wife, I was thrilled to have had all my fantasies come true and apprehensive, but excited, about the challenges.
As a widow, I haven’t yet started to dream again.

Any woman who would date me has obviously got some serious issues. So, the whole thing kinda cancels itself out.

But if I could pick and choose, 2 things become important very quickly for me..Beleive me when I say this is all that I am ( please don’t build me too far up) , and don’t be afraid to drive the truck when I ask you to.

i didn’t meant by demanding as i told Ditz before and i know that there is a lot of men that are totally acting fool ..

but tell me what if you found someone .. he has about 68% of what you had in mind for your fantasy man …what will you do ? will you try try to fix him up , or reject him till you find someone better . what will you do ?

I think I agree with Amebaid here and I wonder if you really did leave room for flaws. But that is hardly the point. This is a post for fantasies so fantasize away :) That’s the best part!!

when you don’t even see the flaws…thats the time when you found love right there

When you see the flaws but they don’t disgust you - that is when you’ve found love and kept your eyes open to enjoy it.

Change is a different story. Any man or woman who enters a relationship with the hopes of changing the other person has something coming to them. I don’t want to argue honey, you do what you feel is right. When the time comes that you may want to hear it then I will say what it is I am thinking. Rock on sister :)

i won’t argue too heather ,, i just want to tell something about changing …

it doesn’t matter if all your characters is there in that man or women by 100 % all you need is just LOVE …

I mean if my girl wanted me to wear the red T-shirt[i hate that color] all the time at HOME then its done I’ll wear it just coz she loves so .. or she loves me in red {you got me ?}
I’ll do what ever she wants just doesn’t affect my community or my pic in front of others
after all I’m all her’s and she is mine for ever

so i think .. love first then all other things comes after that

well all has his own way .. good luck in yours

cheers

one question .. isn’t Hamiljockey 4.0 is the help bot .. ….. isn’t it’s a robot ?

anyone that will not cause me to slit my wrist because of the pian i get from them…

Some1 happy positive and can accept me for who I am.

Aaaaaaw Luigi ~squidge~ true love is amazing that person will come and you will never want to kill yaself again!!!

someone who loves me for me!!! and i aldready have that someone!!!!

i have to say “YAY” to that MsBria and i’m happy for you. :o)
not all are given that chance to be loved as much. so go for it
and best wishes girl! ^_^

thank you lilies…….i swear you always put a smile on my face!!!!! :)
ur a great person!!!

awwww thanks and you are always welcome dearie! :o) ~~hugs~~

I like a guy who will dry my tears when I’m depressed, and embrace me when I’m happy. He must accept me for all of who I am. He must also be very trusting and honest; Kind and generous.

yeh, i like expressive guys! guys who show their emotions. i like any1 who does. tis all cool.

A man who knows how to cook (when I want him to), clean, earn or inherit lots of money, and have no doubt that I am his goddess. He must worship me, and every step I take. If he questions any statments or facts I make, he will be punished. And punishment will be based upon my current mood and judgement.

my fantasy boy is one who will earn plenty of money, talk to me, take me shopping, help me when I most need it, buy me lots of jewellery to prove that he loves me. kisses and hugs me.

Someone stable, with a healthy family and self-made goals. Someone driven by their own motivation to get what they want. Someone who not only enjoys being cared for, but gives back just as much. Someone that cares for others as much as she cares for herself. Someone that doesn’t mind me opening car doors for her and allows me to do the small things that come so naturally. Someone that loves themselves for who they are and loves me for who I am. Someone that understands life has its hardships and is willing to make compromises when the times call for them. Someone with a stunning smile and beautiful eyes. Someone that someday wants a family. Someone that loves to hold hands. Someone that I can count on and that doesn’t hesitate to count on me.

She is asian :P

? do I know you

R u asking me Sir James?
If that is the case.. nope not really. If it’s not.. sorry
have a great day!

my fantasy bf is one who’s rich and would give me ALL his money! hahahaha

hey heather!
You will find someone like that :). All of my friends who are guys fit those characteristics, so there are bound to be several in your area too :).

Rather than writing everything down, I’m just going to write the highlights.

My boyfriend’s qualities that I am grateful for:
- similar values: we share similar beliefs on most issues
- open-mind and patience to listen to and relate to various viewpoints, my complaining/venting, and still clearly speaks his mind (and really likes it when I speak my mind :P)
- courageous and adventuresome (to a humourous extent)
- calm, composed and usually stress free (almost all the time!)
- very proactive, focused on problem-solving
- really into commitment
- gets along with everyone including: kids, elderly people, my friends/family/extended family, everybody, and is my partner in comedy at most parties :P
- full of contradictions: a guy who will continue playing soccer immediately after fracturing his foot just to win the game and takes pride in his numerous scars, but then is willing to walk with me through a rose garden and go clothes shopping :)

My ideal girl is cute with eyes that sparkle when she’s sleepy. She likes to run and jump in the rain. She likes to go on adventures by day and watch cartoons by night.

Man, rereading peoples answers, some people are very demanding.

yet another thread that does not help me locate my lost pants.

or does it? hmmm,….

“Adventure of the Lost Pants” actually sounds like a novel. I’m now inspired to write something like that :P.

i don’t know what i want.