I just broke up with my girlfriend of four years.
I think this time it’s over forever. I’m completely heart broken over it. I’ve no idea what to do except think positive and take each day one at a time. She was my first love. She was very special to me. She was my best friend. We have a baby of ten months. I feel awful that he will have step mums and dads. He means the world to me. I decided to break up with her because over the past few months she’s been really nasty to me. Mostly name calling and put downs though nothing physical. I tried so hard just to make it work. But my strength and energy has abandoned me. I have lost my faith in our relationship. I don’t think she has much respect for me. I lack self confidence now n feel totally lost. I don’t want her back because I know it will happen again. I just can’t be with someone who is meant to love you and treats you like dirt. I will always be around for my son to the best of my ability. I’m worried though that she will affect my bond with my son. I can’t believe this is happening to me. We used to be so close so in love. Please if you reply to this post don’t try to talk me into getting back with her. I just want to know what I can do to move on and be there for my son. Please help.
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