girl help: Would checking her shoutbox a form of stalking?

sinnersandsaints

Would checking her shoutbox a form of stalking?

i like this girl but she does not like me back. she tells me to stop now i feel awful. any suggestion would do guys. wot am i to do.

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KT1 1 #
San Francisco, CA, US | 2 years, 5 months ago (8 minutes after post)

Leave her alone and move on with your life. If you continue to use this site to harass you will be banned.

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♥Finley (JAYS) 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (9 minutes after post)

You probably should’ve posted this anonymous, but oh well. You are being very aggressive. If she’s not into it, leave her alone. Don’t scare her, if she tells you you’re scaring her, take that as a big sign. At this point you shouldn’t be asking about the debatable semantics of what stalking is. If you like her, give her space. Though your intentions may be well aimed, they don’t mean anything if you’re scaring her.

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Mï†z¥-superMODel 3 #
Tullahoma, TN, US | 2 years, 5 months ago (26 minutes after post)

If she doesn’t like you, leave her alone. I don’t think reading shouts is stalking though, they are public.

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Ame 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (1 hour, 27 minutes after post)

i think every one told you what you should do
just move on and continue your life
also i think that would be kind stalking breaking in her privacy to check her shoutbox

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adrianna 1 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 2 years, 5 months ago (1 hour, 47 minutes after post)

Honey, Jen and I have already given you our opinions. Just leave her alone. Take a no when you get one and don’t whine about it. Not everyone wants our help. If you want to talk, I am here and would love to chat :) She doesn’t feel the same way - get over it.

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Ditzy 40 #
Ventura, CA, US | 2 years, 5 months ago (2 hours, 23 minutes after post)

Im Jen - and I agree with every thing that Adria said. Take a no buddy. Seriously. This site is for helping. She is taken and is not happy about what you are doing. To be quite frank its scary. Get over it. Plenty more fish in the sea!

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ndiscatseyes 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (10 hours, 15 minutes after post)

Her lost pimpin! bigger, better fish in the sea! go fishin……I dont think reading her shoutbox is stalking either I read alot of my friends shoutbox out of habbit as well they more than likely read mine its no big deal.. what were you saying sorry for?

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adrianna 1 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 2 years, 5 months ago (10 hours, 21 minutes after post)

Well, he writes “checking” but he means writing “why are you ignoring me?!” etc. I don’t think he is a bad guy but she obviously isn’t interested. So why continue to bother her?

Anyway, you aren’t stupid buddy and you know what is right and what is wrong. Have fun here :)

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Ocelot 1 #
Ventura, CA, US | 2 years, 5 months ago (10 hours, 37 minutes after post)

Two suggestions for you S&S. Stop with this girl, she didnt mean to make you feel awful, but you need to respect her space.

2. Get a new avatar, that one doesn’t exactly scream innocence, or “im here peacefully” in fact, sorry to say, it looks like someone stalking someone.

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adrianna 1 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 2 years, 5 months ago (12 hours, 23 minutes after post)

Whether she does or does not is of no concern to you. You are never going to have that place in her life. I wish I could know why that is so difficult for you to understand? You are making this rejection a helluva lot worse for yourself.

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hotsox42 11 #
Fort Collins, CO, US | 2 years, 5 months ago (15 hours, 34 minutes after post)

Everything I would have said has been covered…read Ditzy and Adria’s posts for mine!

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MSBRIA_0 1 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 2 years, 5 months ago (2 days, 1 hour after post)

take a hint!!! move on with your life!!!

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