marriage help: WIll a husband come back after he has left you and moved 2000 miles away? - Help.com

maybe…i guess it just depedneds

there is hope…have you contacted him?

i think you need to look at this from a different purspective such as his, if you left would you make contact? ask youself that.

i dont think waiting for what you want makes it happen as much as doing something about it would ! x

what still draws you to him if he hurt you so much…do you not feel any resentment towards him for leaving you?

i think you need to know exactly how you feel before contacting him,
you seem to have mixed feeling in the way of anger yet still loving him,

and theres no rush is there?

ps. wow california!

england its rubbish!!
well if you married he must love you, maybe he genuinly needs time, a bit of space

and people do say the most hurt ful things in fights or to get the last word or evn to appear stronger but they dont mean then,

and also he called you, so he hasnt completly cutt you out of his life so there is still hope!!

i wish!! im only 14 but dont let that dicurage you to not taking my advice lol
no not a fool

love has effects on people in all kinds of ways, i think you need to sit down clear your head and picture if it would be the right decision not just for now but for the long run.

lol its ok

question? you are married and you are only 14?

its quite funny how some people will under estimate younger people

no i was giving her advice.

ok i guess i read that wrong. sorry. my advice would be to give him some time to cool off, he’s angry. the best thing you can do with any man is not make them madder. shut up when you need to shut up and don’t push things too far. i’ve learned my lessons the hard way, connecting with a fist when i should’ve shut up when i had the chance. so trust me and just give me a few days or so to cool off. Then, take a good hard look at yourself and your relationship from a different angle. Do you really belong together? Would it be best if you were to be without him? Maybe he doesn’t love you anymore, yes, that might hurt to realize. But I’ve been there. It about killed me when he left. Course, the night before he left I gave him money and helped him pack because I knew it was for the best. Course the next morning I about died when I woke up and he hadn’t come back. But now, today, 3 years later, oh my God, I would kill myself if I had to live like that again. Life is so much more peaceful and quiet. I no longer have bruises, I don’t get talked down to or called horrible names. I KNOW I am loved every minute of every day, not just in the bedroom. Did I love him? Yes, with everything in me, I loved him. It was real for ME, but not for HIM. So, ask yourself, would you be happier in the future, once you are over him of course, and be a better person and have a better life, without him? If so, let him go. Start the process of healing and don’t forget this experience, but learn from it and let it go. Good luck. I’ve been there so if you need me, I’m here to listen.