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OK, here is a question: What age is too old to be young?


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nothx offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (1 minute after post)

what?

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Oster: Gettin' It. offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 2 years, 5 months ago (1 minute after post)

“Young” as in how one feels? Or when do people stop calling you “miss” and start calling you “ma’am”?

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yours_dietcoke offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (2 minutes after post)

LOL I love this question . . . There is no age too old to be young. Silly.

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nothx offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Depends on th person I guess, some people I would call ma’am because it’s a formal address, and some I would call miss. So I don’t think it really matters to me, maybe mid 20s.

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nothx offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (4 minutes after post)

i dunno then, maybe 18

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yours_dietcoke offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (4 minutes after post)

LOL again, this is such a great question. Again . . . there is no age too old to be young.

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nothx offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (5 minutes after post)

i think i’m having a heart attack trying to understand what you’re asking Soul

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yours_dietcoke offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (6 minutes after post)

An empty cup can always be filled. If one keeps their cup empty they can always be filled. What is young?

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nothx offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (6 minutes after post)

too old to be “young”? HOW young?

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nothx offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (6 minutes after post)

I’m thinking “young” as in a kid young

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nothx offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (7 minutes after post)

you did say physically

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nothx offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (8 minutes after post)

lol

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Kiz offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (9 minutes after post)

27 is the limit according to some random source i read one day

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yours_dietcoke offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (9 minutes after post)

I am thinking young as . . . open to growth and experience. . . challenge . . . exploring new things. . . a person is young when ever they are experiencing a new thing. Last summer I went on a river trip with a women who was in her 70’s. It was only the second time she had been camping and the FIRST time she took that inflatable kayak through white water rapids alone! I think she was behaving quite young !

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nothx offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (9 minutes after post)

“duh” lol

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Oster: Gettin' It. offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 2 years, 5 months ago (10 minutes after post)

It must be 30. I know to many generations of women who say their 29.

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Oster: Gettin' It. offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 2 years, 5 months ago (11 minutes after post)

Maybe 40 for men, when the gray hairs start to come out and vision, hearing or knees start to wear out.

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yours_dietcoke offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (11 minutes after post)

Oster, if you buy into that it will happen to YOU. Be careful!!

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nothx offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (11 minutes after post)

I don’t know, I’ve seen some really good looking ladies around 35

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nothx offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (12 minutes after post)

….

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Oster: Gettin' It. offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 2 years, 5 months ago (15 minutes after post)

Speaking from personal experience, YDC :-(

Yeah, soul. We’ll be on it all tonight. Have it on your desk in the morning. Sleep tight!

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yours_dietcoke offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (17 minutes after post)

observation Oster observation

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yours_dietcoke offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (18 minutes after post)

night . . . me too. Bye

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Richard Cor de Lyon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (22 minutes after post)

interestin’…..

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Oster: Gettin' It. offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 2 years, 5 months ago (32 minutes after post)

Hmmm. You might be right, YDC.

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Richard Cor de Lyon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (35 minutes after post)

uuugghhhh YDC?? IDK??? WTF and DILIGAF (ahhh I know those two) gimme a break… I’m too old to be a texter..lol.

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Oster: Gettin' It. offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 2 years, 5 months ago (42 minutes after post)

Rofl
Ydc = yours_dietcok.

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Xeno Dragon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 72 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (45 minutes after post)

Old for a bathing suit, or old for the planet?

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Richard Cor de Lyon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (51 minutes after post)

I was thinking the same thing Xeno…I’m sorry but I saw a 6o year old woman in tight leggin’s… every wrinkle in her A$$ showing, her flowing sheer top was cut so low to show her cleavage, which went down to her knees… and her hot red lipstick was oozing away from her lips via the wrinkles… looking like so many rivlets of lava flowing down the volcano… acckkkkk…. SOMEONE TAKE MY EYES… MY EYESSS… MY EYESSSSS SOMEONE TAKE MY EYES!!!!

If you are 60… NEVER try to look like you are 20! PLEASE!!!!!

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Xeno Dragon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 72 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (54 minutes after post)

On the opposite end of the spectrum, there’s preteens who dress like they’re 20.

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Richard Cor de Lyon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (56 minutes after post)

right… and as a father… that bugs the living hell outta me!

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Xeno Dragon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 72 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (59 minutes after post)

As a 19 year old, it bothers me! I don’t know who’s okay to hit on, it’s creepy.

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Richard Cor de Lyon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (1 hour after post)

yeah… 15 will get you 20… just like always!

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Xeno Dragon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 72 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (1 hour, 1 minute after post)

And you never know who’s watching.

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america offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Houston, TX, US | 2 years, 5 months ago (3 hours, 59 minutes after post)

i’d say that at the ages of 60 to 70 is the life expactancy for my people, so until these ages, everyone os young. hahaha

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Ditzy offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 40 #
Ventura, CA, US | 2 years, 5 months ago (5 hours, 9 minutes after post)

ZOMG I now feel really really old. Im only 22. Just blimey. Im actually scared to turn 23 coz it means I will be an adult and crap. Gulp. I think you are always young at heart just never ever try and look young!

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Roses&Mud offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Rocky Ridge, MD, US | 2 years, 5 months ago (7 hours, 37 minutes after post)

i think you are as young as you feel (but phyisakaly)I think you cant look young a 35

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Marc (Sec) offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (10 hours, 26 minutes after post)

100 is definitifely too old to be young.

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Lifesadance88 offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (14 hours, 7 minutes after post)

Thats a tricky question. I use to think that 20 was old haha, then 40, but at 22 I am realizing it’s not about age, it’s about your inner spirit being happy. People to often equate young with happiness and beauty. I personally think that your better through time. Just because your 40, 50, 80, doesnt mean that you cant stop living. If your happy with your life, then I think you’ve achieved the perfect age.

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Ditzy offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 40 #
Ventura, CA, US | 2 years, 5 months ago (14 hours, 9 minutes after post)

Totally right Lifes!!!! wow … that is good. Thank you. Inner spirit. Never thou of it like that :o)

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Lifesadance88 offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (14 hours, 13 minutes after post)

My Best Friend’s grandma is older, I dont know her exact age, but WOW she has so much more spirit and life in her then a lot of people I know. She is full of energy and always a blast to be around. She doesn’t let anything hold her back. I think it’s harder for younger people to do that because a lot of us are struggling with money, or to focused on bringing home the bigger bacon or finding that trophy husband and wife, that we put our true happiness on hold. Her grandma is soo much fun to be around, just as fun if not more fun then people I know. I def. think it takes time to get to that point though.

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Ima Believer offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 27 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (14 hours, 51 minutes after post)

inside every middle aged man is a young boy wondering “what the hell happened?”

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Houston, TX, US | 2 years, 5 months ago (15 hours, 19 minutes after post)

When you think you’re too old to be young, you’re not young anymore. Young is a state of mind.

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Xeno Dragon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 72 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (15 hours, 34 minutes after post)

I think the general answer is that it depends on your definition.

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lolo_ offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Toronto, ON, CA | 2 years, 5 months ago (16 hours, 5 minutes after post)

i agree with clarinet chick

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (16 hours, 9 minutes after post)

When your spirit makes the same creaking noise as your knees, you are too old to be young.

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Oster: Gettin' It. offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 2 years, 5 months ago (16 hours, 10 minutes after post)

When your new girlfriend accidentally calls you “dad,” you’re too old to be young.

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♥Finley (JAYS) offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (16 hours, 18 minutes after post)

I did that once. awkward much.

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wretch offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Durham, NH, US | 2 years, 5 months ago (16 hours, 24 minutes after post)

my grandfather is 95 and the other day, as he worked on another of his new inventions, he told me he was planning for his future ;)

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spiritedsoul offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Sandgate, G5, GB | 2 years, 5 months ago (16 hours, 35 minutes after post)

what is youth?

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original AKS offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (16 hours, 39 minutes after post)

funny, I am 34 years old, and a retiree of 65 called me “just a kid” today…so, there you go, a non-answer for a non-question.

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Sandgate, G5, GB | 2 years, 5 months ago (16 hours, 42 minutes after post)

i am 20. when i was 17 and i tried to get into a nightclub, a bouncer refused to allow me in as he said i looked like a 12 year old.
a few months ago a 13 year old boy said i looked 14 youngest, 18 oldest. i know i have money saved on plastic surgery when im older.

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original AKS offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (16 hours, 45 minutes after post)

I have looked 35 since i was 15..so i am finally catching up!

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yours_dietcoke offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (19 hours, 27 minutes after post)

I am 46 and people are always suprised when I tell them I have son’s that are 23 and 21. When I was in high school I had no problem getting into the clubs that required you to be 21.

I think if you take life head on, don’t hold in grief and balance inner self maintaining a youthful spirit and appearence is natural.

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Detroit, MI, US | 2 years, 5 months ago (20 hours, 22 minutes after post)

young is a good thing. there is no limmit. it is in your soul.

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CrackHacky offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Mill Hall, PA, US | 2 years, 5 months ago (21 hours, 27 minutes after post)

no matter what, we are all ‘young’ in some aspect of our lives.

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adrianna offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 2 years, 5 months ago (21 hours, 52 minutes after post)

You don’t stop playing because you grow old…you grow old because you stop playing. There is no age that you are not allowed to feel young anymore. There is an age where you are meant to be matured. But mature & old and immature & young don’t always just go hand in hand.

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Mill Hall, PA, US | 2 years, 5 months ago (21 hours, 55 minutes after post)

great response adrianna

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Alexa333 offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 18 #
Yorktown, VA, US | 2 years, 5 months ago (23 hours, 4 minutes after post)

It’s all in your mind. If you feel young, regardless of what anyone thnks, you are are. If you feel old, the same holds true.

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Kings Walden, I9, GB | 2 years, 5 months ago (1 day, 3 hours after post)

This really depends on your attitude to life and yourself. How young you look is often a reflection of how you feel about yourself, or what’s going on inside.
View it like an Iceburg. Only a small percentage is above the water line, with the greater part below the surface. We’re just the same. What we see physically is a representation of what’s going on beneath the surface. The thoughts we have about ourselves. Constant negative thoughts manifest exactly what we don’t want. Constant positive thoughts give us what we do want. The latter is harder for most of us to do, but it does work.
Obviously there are also the ‘physical’ health aspects to consider too such as what you eat, how much you drink etc. and whether or not you take care of yourself physically.

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Sioux Lookout, ON, CA | 2 years, 5 months ago (1 day, 5 hours after post)

I don’t like when ma aunties try to dress like young ones. And i know someone who have not experienced of living “normally” like a child. Like playing with other kids. So naturally, when he got old he’s just playing around.

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Saint Petersburg, 66, RU | 2 years, 5 months ago (1 day, 6 hours after post)

No age is too old, when the person has a young soul and he/she wants to live, to be happy, to help somebody, to improve life - then no age can make the person look or feel old.

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