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Does she really care?

? - Could do with some opinion on this…
Ok so this is kinda dragging on a little :\ But i just don’t know if my gf cares or not. She doesn’t speak much recently. Thing is i asked her about this and she said it was because of the hurricane [which hardly hit miami anyway]. She used that reason for monday as well as tuesday when it didnt hit til tuesday night :| (Ok yeah there was preperation for a hurricane but … 2 days???)
Another thing is that she couldn’t even give me a reason for not chatting before that, and before that still she was saying she was too ill to and now again shes saying shes ill :|
So basically is this just a bad string of events or is it that she really just doesn’t care? I asked her about all this (in the few minutes she was actuly online) and all she could say was sorry shes being a bad gf.

Thanks =)

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DeeJay offline Verified User (3 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 22 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 3 months ago (19 minutes after post)

from my understanding you guys are doing the long distance realtionship thing, correct? If so maybe she gets tired of typing long messages. If you guys are close to each other, sometimes in relationships your mate need a little space. If I were you I’d back off for a while and see what type of response that brings.

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Eddy offline Verified User (3 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 3 years, 3 months ago (20 minutes after post)

Thanks, didn’t really think of that… il try that then.

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DeeJay offline Verified User (3 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 22 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 3 months ago (27 minutes after post)

no problem, I shut down sometimes, and it has nothing to do with my girlfriend. I know its not healthy for the relationship but she handles it well once I let her know its not her.

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Nicosia, 04, CY | 3 years, 3 months ago (1 hour, 4 minutes after post)

Yea, let her go a bit, and see what happens. She’ll come round soon

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