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For the guys out there- My boyfriend and I broke up but I want him back.

What can I do to make him want to get back together with me to?

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lovehim offline Unverified User #
Oshkosh, WI, US | 2 years, 5 months ago (1 minute after post)

What happened in the first place.
why did you too split?

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trespasser7 offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (16 minutes after post)

if u still have feelings for him, let him know that you do and that you will wait for him. In the end, it is his choice whether he will come back to you or not.

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tiffanyc200 offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 Add Friend #
Kansas City, MO, US | 2 years, 5 months ago (35 minutes after post)

Well I have a hard time opening up to people and I guess he got sick of it. We went out for a year and 4 months. I heard that give them space and try to make them jealous, do those things not work? lol

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tiffanyc200 offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 Add Friend #
Kansas City, MO, US | 2 years, 5 months ago (5 hours, 56 minutes after post)

But how should I act around him? Should I act like I’m fine or should I act sad? I don’t want to seem desperet though.

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CocoGirl141 offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 Add Friend #
US | 2 years, 1 month ago (3 months, 3 weeks after post)

Don’t act sad. Just be yourself. Most importantly talk to him, it really is the best thing you can do. I just went through the same thing less then a month ago, and I was hurt and I really just wanted my ex back, but when we finally talked about it, it cured me. Yeah he did reject me, and it hurt, but I’m recovering, and I realize that there are plenty of other fish in the sea. I was sad, but I got better faster knowing the truth, and it helped me to stop pining away for him. Not saying that you do any of that, but I hope in sharing my experiance it has helped you.

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shabir_aspne offline Unverified User #
Bangalore, 19, IN | 2 years, 1 month ago (4 months, 1 week after post)

hi

don’t even think of that girl.well,if you will get her back,then you might loose her in future and it will be untolerable

it is beeter not to approach herlet her come to you

thanks

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