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Hi this is my first time here…

I guess I should start by saying… I have a great gf who makes me feel like the luckiest guy in the world. I know we’re all heard that before, but that’s how I really feel.

Lately I feel like we’re beginning to get a lot closer than before. At the same time I feel.. what if this one end up just like my past relationship? The one that really took me down 2 years ago. =[ I dont want to go back to the same dark place in my mind again.

I know I shouldn’t be doubting my gf, she has done nothing wrong at all, I think I can say she’s the best gf I’ve ever had. I just find it hard to feel secure without her letting me know how she feels…

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Joy. offline Verified User (3 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (6 minutes after post)

dont dwell on the past. It will hurt your relationship now..Dont penalize her for other girls stupid mistakes.

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (8 minutes after post)

AS hard as it may be, you need to let go of the past girlfriend in every way. You aren’t being fair to your current girlfriend by doing this to her.

When you let past relationships continue to stay alive in you, you are in essence still allowing that ex to control you, your life, your relationships, your thoughts, your emotions, your actions.

This could well be the best relationship you’ll have, but you won’t know if you hang on to the insecurity your ex left in you. Let your ex go and enjoy what you have now and give this girl and this relationship a chance.

Good luck.
Take care.

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Philadelphia, PA, US | 2 years, 1 month ago (4 months, 2 weeks after post)

Then you should treat her like queen never let her go girls like that hard to come across

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