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one of my friends just broke up w/ her bf…

and he asked me out…i kinda like him though…wht do i say?

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Love to Laugh offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (2 minutes after post)

sice they just broke up i think you would be the rebound so tell him to wait a week or two and then maybe get together

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madison.ghaffar offline Unverified User #
Denver, CO, US | 2 years, 5 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Well, if she’s the one who broke up with him, that usually means that she wants nothing to do with him anymore. Since they’re not together anymore, does it really matter who he dates now? I say go for it if you really want it!

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friend in the shadow offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Fairport, NY, US | 2 years, 5 months ago (4 minutes after post)

well if you want her as a friend i say 2 months which doesnt mean you cant talk to him … most girls i’ve known get really mad about friends goin after their ex’s to quickly.. just my 2 cents..

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madison.ghaffar offline Unverified User #
Denver, CO, US | 2 years, 5 months ago (6 minutes after post)

thats a good point…wait a while before you ask him out/answer or something

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rjryc offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Chicago, IL, US | 2 years, 5 months ago (7 minutes after post)

i dont kno who broke up w/ who though…

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rjryc offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Chicago, IL, US | 2 years, 5 months ago (8 minutes after post)

i told him i needed to think

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friend in the shadow offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Fairport, NY, US | 2 years, 5 months ago (8 minutes after post)

back when i was in high school that seemed to be the biggest reason chick fights happened…

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rjryc offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Chicago, IL, US | 2 years, 5 months ago (9 minutes after post)

she said to go for it but im not tht kind of friend…but i do like him…im caught in the middle…

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rjryc offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Chicago, IL, US | 2 years, 5 months ago (12 minutes after post)

I g2g but u guys have helped me so much!I think i kno wht to say now…

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coolie19 offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
Scottsdale, AZ, US | 2 years, 5 months ago (1 hour, 52 minutes after post)

Ask him and her if they have feelings for eachother and if they dont wait 2 weeks and ask him out

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Mottville, NY, US | 2 years, 5 months ago (12 hours, 37 minutes after post)

You can tell your friend, if she doesn’t care theres no hard feelings; but if she does then you’ll have to work for it. But if you like him go for it!

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An Unknown Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (1 year, 6 months after post)

i think you have the rite to date him but dont toss away a friend ship if its 4 a guy.

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loveless247 offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (1 year, 10 months after post)

well if she doesnt like him then say i need to think ask her if its ok if she says yer dont believe her just tell him u need so time like a month or 2 so u can reallt see if she likes him or not

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