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fairydragon41
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Gilbert, AZ, US

I need help.

This is my story.
A little over a year ago my family and I packed up and moved from Nebraska to California becasuse my mom asked us for help. We left Neb on May 24 thinking this was a good idea for us. Sold most of our stuff but kept the inportant stuff. Mover took that on May 11. We left Nebraska with about 700 owing the movers 1200 which my mom told me she will help us when the bring the stuff to the house. The car of course broke down on the way and had to repair it which cost us about 300out of the budget we had. We arrived in Cali on May 30th we stopped and spend some time with friends in AZ.
I had a job already lined up working at Vons supermarket in Simi Valley,Ca. Hubby had one lined up as a Security job at the local mall. We thought our future was looking good.
But mom lied to us. The movers came with our stuff and didnt have money for them so they put it into a storage unit in Simi Valley, CA. Unitl we can pay them off.
We thought we can easily do this in a month or two by work our butts off.
I start working that next week at my job and hubby the same.
But i think my mom was kind of jealous of us becasue we were having our lifes straight and she was not. Let me tell you all who lived in the house. There was my mom, sister (16), brother (18), brother (14), brother (12), brother (20), me, my husband and our son who is (12).
Yes the house was crowded but i was willing to let it work. I raised our son to be on a schudle do to his adhd. He knows when to eat sleep and so on. But that house was nothing compared to that . The kids stayed up as long as the wanted eat when they wanted and what they wanted. The fourteen year old cused like a sailor and told lies about people and talked back all the time. And my mom did do anything about it.
Yes i drove me crazy so i tried talking to my mom and she did nothing about it.
So i just tried to worry about my family and stayed in the room when i wasnt working. But my mom decide that it was ok for the boys to walk into the room i had anytime with out knocking or anything. He started to get in my way when i tried making dinner and told me i could not do anything about it because our mom told him not to listen to me at all. He then started running to her telling mom that i hit him when i didnt even touch him. That caused a huge fight and resulted i me having a black and blue eye and scars on my hand from her nails. She called the police on me becasue i pushed her away and said she feared for her life. She kick our whole family out on the street in Cali. We were homeless for about 3 weeks until our friends in AZ invited us to move in with them.
We now have our own appartment we are still struggling. We took our tax return and paid off the movers but our stuff is still in cali.
I need help to get my stuff from Simi Valley ca to Gilber az.
If anyone can help please let me know.
Lynne

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skippi4 offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (11 minutes after post)

My suggestion would be to do what you can to get you, your husband, and your son out of that situation as quickly as possible. I would go to a nearby church and ask the pastor for assistance and guidance to help you with this situation. I wish you the best.

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Mrs. Hasta Pianoman offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 25 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (21 minutes after post)

hey I live in Gilbert!!
sorry…I didn’t read that whole thing…my attention span’s too short…but I do live in gilbert! :D

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gnarlycharlie101 offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (23 minutes after post)

I only wish i could help but unfortunately… I am only 16. i do live in Bakersfield, CA. and i can give u just a bit of my advice. Save up and plan ahead to go get your stuff, and when you do just get n, get your stuff, and get our as quickly as possible. Best of wishes. good luck

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Mrs. Hasta Pianoman offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 25 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (42 minutes after post)

oh man I read it, this time…I’m terribly sorry!! That sounds like a very sad and unfortunate situation :[
I’m also only 16 and so I don’t know how I could help…

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