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coolgirljess94
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i fancy my best friend!

i really want to date him. i just fancy him soo much and i cant stoo thinking bout him!! how can i tell him that i fancy him without ruining our friendship!!

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azzafe offline Unverified User #
GB | 2 years, 5 months ago (1 minute after post)

say listen punk go out with me

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lindsey_m_mitchel offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 Add Friend #
CA | 2 years, 5 months ago (3 minutes after post)

how about - “I fancy you and I am not sure how you feel, I am concerned that this might ruin or friendship, but I wanted to let you know where I stand right now.”

and ask him for his thoughts on the matter.

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x-over_my_head- offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (3 months, 1 week after post)

Totally been there! Still there, mine might be a little worse, i’ve got a bf but i’ve liked my best mate for a rele long time. I know that dating him would **** things up so much but i cnt stop thinking about him. I think i’m gonna tell him soon tho and you should do the same, if he’s a real friend he’ll be fine about it. Good luck!

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hana.louis offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (2 years, 3 months after post)

I am in the same situation but i just bring it up in random convosation and see what he thinks. I am really afraid of ruining what we have, hes the only thing i have really got. I am trying to put it off as long as i can just so the feelings die down.

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