Love help: so i’m still in love with my ex boyfriend - Help.com

so he said it and then didn’t say anything else after that? it’s hard with these things, but don’t ask him anymore. if he does in fact love you and wants you back, he’ll come to you. for now, just maintain your distance, go on with life as normal, do things with your friends, keep yourself busy. i’m a firm believer in “if it’s meant to be, it’ll happen.”

those that truly love have no problem in saying it. boys are afraid to respond: men shout it at the top of their lungs. trust me on this.

Take another chance and try to communicate with him again. Don’t put it all on him to come to you and make the opening move. It sounds like both of you are afraid of rejection and don’t want to get hurt again in regards to the whole relationship. That’s a completely normal feeling for people to go through.

Or…You can just wait for him to eventually make the move, which might never happen. A variety of factors might be affecting him right now and he may be in a mindset where he wants to reach out but isn’t going to.

Take a chance.

“those that truly love have no problem in saying it. boys are afraid to respond: men shout it at the top of their lungs. trust me on this.”

Yeah…not. Consider for a second that there are different ways of dealing with and expressing love than the typical American cowboy style.

Sounds like he’s been hurt and used, and maybe gives his heart fully. Try this; tell him, “I know you love me,” and see what he does from there.

I don’t know what happen between you two,but if you love him make sure he knows it then give him time to respond if he’s been hurt it may be a trust issue don;t push the issue just be there when he’s ready to talk to you

The situation kind of sounds messed up. Maybe if you try talking to him openly he might open up about what he said to you. Just don’t be too surprised if he ignores you or denies it. People do that at times. Emotions aren’t always easy to admit even if they are whispered. He may just want to deny it since he is your ex.

If I were to guess, I would say that you broke up with him?

Now, he said that he loved you… and you’ve realised that you love him too?

Then TELL HIM… Don’t ask him to say it again, tell him that you love him as well.

Tell him in an email, letter, face to face, over a phone call, however it may be, but just tell him.
When he said that he loved you, he didn’t want to hear ” can you say that again” or “Excuse me?”.. All he really wanted to hear from you was, “I love you too”

I believe that in this case, you shouldn’t hide your emotions in any situation… not when it comes to love.

Please, just be honest with him. before it’s too late ;)