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Again, i am bad with coping with change.

How can you adapt to having three people that meant a lot to you, that you really liked, just leaving your life?
How can you adapt knowing that they are not that far away but that you will never see them again?

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Hope offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (9 minutes after post)

How do you know you will never see them again?

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Majicstar offline Unverified User #
Cranston, RI, US | 2 years, 5 months ago (10 minutes after post)

that love should fill you and remind you that you are capable of loving some one and capable of being loved! give your self a hug get some coffee smile at everyone you see , you will meet some one…. some one special it will all be worth while
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shadylane offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (13 minutes after post)

i’m no expert, but i would suggest that if you’re helpless to change the situation, then try and focus on improving yourself - study something, take up a sport, develop a passion.

if for whatever reason, you do come into contact you’re w/ the persons you miss, then you’ll present yourself as a person who can survive and do better for themselves. and even if you don’t come in contact w/ them, you’ll still be a better person.

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redstar offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
GB | 2 years, 5 months ago (20 minutes after post)

change is hard and no one likes changes that involve losing people close to you but like so much it is inevitable. you just have to learn from it. hold the memories of those people close, you will always have them.

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shadylane offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (20 minutes after post)

no problem., s19j88 it’s the only solution i’ve come up with when i’ve found myself drowning in disbelief over life’s unfairnesses…

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