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drop out of high school now 32 with one child need

a better job trying to go back to school not sure were to start drop out in 9th grade lost and depress were do i start

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beachgirl offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Atlantic Beach, NC, US | 2 years, 5 months ago (8 minutes after post)

First start out with either an Adult High School Diploma or GED course. Most community colleges offer these courses and can be done at night. I commend you on your desire to continue your education. I am 31 with a 10 yr old and I am finally going back to school (college courses) but I did the GED program when my son was an infant. Good luck!

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techtype offline Verified User (3 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Warren, MI, US | 2 years, 5 months ago (19 hours, 27 minutes after post)

I dropped out of school when I was 16 and in the 11th grade, but unlike you I went immediately to adult ed and after completing my courses graduated with a high school diploma. Most school systems (depending on what state you are at, I am and was when I dropped out a Michigan resident) have a special area for adult learners, such as yourself. I would say it would be kind of hard to for you with only a 9th grade education to get a GED. I would opt for night school or the special adult schools (no baring, on “Special Ed” students, more special needs students like yourself) that as said exist for people such as yourself. See most states are reimbursed for adult ed courses and schools.

Where to start? Start with the school district/parish you are at. If you do not know what school district/parish you live in, then call the city hall. Give them your address, explain why you are giving them your address and ask them what school district/parish you are in. They will give the school district/parish you live in, then ask them for the school district/parish address for that district/parish administration building. If you do not get the information you need next best thing might be to go to the local community college special needs councilor and get the information from them. They are always keen on that kind of thing, helping dropouts because it usually means more money when they help you to graduate, possibly a new student is the way they see it.

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fransisco_pizzar offline Unverified User #
Omaha, NE, US | 2 years, 3 months ago (2 months after post)

An estimated 1.2 million students dropped out of high school in the last year, which means only 70% of students who started high school 4 years go earned a diploma

“These kids are looking at the prospects of earning on average, $13,000 a year, that’s certainly not enough to support a family and thrive in today’s economy.” – Family News in Focus

The implications from dropping out of high school are enormous, including a higher risk of poverty and an abbreviated life-span.

The drop-out rate has remained fairly steady over the past 5 years.

“Drop-outs impact and influence our job market, our universities, and, basically, our entire country. “ – Bill Ziegler with Teachers in Public and Private Schools

Candi Cushman education analyst for Focus on the family action, said the drop-out rate is a reflection of the state of the family.

Top 5 reasons for dropping out:
1. 47% said classes were ‘too boring”
2. 43% said that they missed too many days and could not catch up
3. 42% spent too much time with people who were not interested in school
4. 38% had too much freedom and not enough rules in their life
5. 35% were failing in school

Nearly 90% of students had passing grades when they left school, according to the survey of dropouts by Civic Enterprises . Their major reason for opting out? The classes were too boring.

A testimony of a drop out:

Recently, I have really been considering dropping out of high school in order to focus all of my energy on weight loss and music. I am too afraid to quit due to the fact that my family and friends will look down on me and treat me like another deadbeat loser.
I just think that if I continue on with my school career, it will do nothing but kill time and become nothing. I just think that this year is going to be a huge uphill battle and I will probably fail or perform poorly in a majority of my classes.
So, should I stay or should I go?
I really do appreciate any help or advice you guys and gals can give me.
• Recent dropouts will earn $200,000 less than high school graduates, and over $800,000 less than college graduates, in their lives.
• Dropouts make up nearly half the heads of households on welfare.
• Dropouts make up nearly half the prison population.

• 20% were married, living as married, or divorced, with females more likely than males to be married. Nearly 40% percent had a child or were expecting one.
• Nearly 25% changed schools two or more times, with some changing for disciplinary reasons.
• 12% ran away from home.
• Almost 20% were held back a grade, and almost half failed a course.
• Almost one-half missed at least 10 days of school, one-third cut class at least 10 times, and one-quarter were late at least 10 times.
• One-third were put on in-school suspension, suspended, or put on probation, and more than 15% were either expelled or told they couldn’t return.
• 11% were arrested.
• 8% spent time in a juvenile home or shelter.
• Didn’t like school in general or the school they were attending.
• Were failing, getting poor grades, or couldn’t keep up with school work.
• Didn’t get along with teachers and/or students.
• Had disciplinary problems, were suspended, or expelled.
• Didn’t feel safe in school.
• Got a job, had a family to support, or had trouble managing both school and work.
• Got married, got pregnant, or became a parent.
• Had a drug or alcohol problem.
• Arrange for help with making up missed work, tutoring, placement in a special program, and/or a transfer to another school.
• Help them with personal problems, and/or arrange for professional help.
• Help them schedule work and family obligations so that there is also time to attend school.
• Help them understand that the choices they make–like marrying, becoming parents, falling courses, or behaving badly enough to get suspended–can seriously disrupt their ability to finish school.
• If students do become pregnant or parents, help them find school and social programs that will meet their special needs.
• If all else fails, help them find a GED program and encourage them to stay with it until they get an alternative high school diploma.

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wakondastunso offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (2 years, 2 months after post)

how and where do i go to get help with because i’m 35 with 3 kids but my kids are all teens

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3 months ago (2 years, 2 months after post)

As stated by the people that gave advice. Contact your local school district, community college or college/university. They in all probability can help you to locate a program to help you obtain your educational goals.

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