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I need friend help.

I have a friend I have known for years, and now they seem to be uninterested in being my pal. She talks to me, and we go to movies and do other stuff togeather, but if her friends are there, its like I barely exist. Its not really sudden. I have been dealing with it for a year, but I just can’t take it anymore. And its not like she is my only friend. I have many more, but she was a very good friend, and the first one I made when I moved. I am going to have to deal with her for a while (same camp, same school, her mom and mine are best friends). I’m thinking about confronting her. Should I?

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Love to Laugh offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (7 minutes after post)

yes you should getting things out in the open is a big help. just don’t expect her to be happy when you tell her this. but tell her and straighten things out that way

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lukeskywalker27 offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 Add Friend #
Short Hills, NJ, US | 2 years, 5 months ago (2 hours, 48 minutes after post)

I called her but I wasn’t home. Any ideas on how to start the conversation off?

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beauty_full offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 Add Friend #
Georgetown, 12, GY | 2 years, 5 months ago (3 hours, 16 minutes after post)

yes, i think u should ask her y she behaves that way at certain times. Let her know that u r human too & u also have feelings!!

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Hope offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (4 hours, 13 minutes after post)

Just tell her how you feel. Be honest, but don’t be mean. Imagine that you were doing the same thing to someone, what would you want them to say to you?

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North Pole, AK, US | 2 years, 5 months ago (9 hours, 23 minutes after post)

if you were friends for a long time, you dont want that to go to waste, yes i do think you should talk to her about it, but just ease into it, you dont want to scare her off.

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nextstar offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (10 hours, 38 minutes after post)

I think you should talk to her but you need to have many friends not only her .

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Love to Laugh offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (22 hours, 28 minutes after post)

just start it off with a hi how are you. (let her answer) and then go this has been on my mind and i would like to talk to you aobut it

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maryeje202 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 year, 4 months after post)

i need a friend that will be my best friend as in if i am along he will be there for me stick togather share my feeling my problem.

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maryeje202 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 year, 4 months after post)

i need afriend that will be there for me,stick with me and share my problem with hem

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