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I need help.

Me and my girlfriend have been going out with eachother for about a year and a half and recently we’ve had major problems. You see, we were fighting the other night and i brought up that this girl, my x-girlfriend whom she hates came to visit me at work just because i had to get it off my chest. That night she wouldn’t talk to me and i was furious. I threw my PS3 controller on the floor and it broke. To get back at me, that same night she texted her x-boyfriend who is a hornball who does anything to get a girl so i have to worry about this guy. So we drove eachother crazy, not to mention i broke my $60 controller and lately i don’t know whether i can stay with her any more. I need an outsiders imput on whether or not you think we can get better or if i should completly break this thing off. She drives me crazy but something keeps me wanting her. HELP!

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codys_girl_0 offline Unverified User #
Branson, MO, US | 2 years, 5 months ago (13 minutes after post)

i think u and ur girl friend should sit down and try to talk things out! but dont expect an apoligy first! trust me as a girl i no!! if the guy starts it he better say sry first or life goes to hell!!! buy her a dozen roses and tell her your sry and if this girl upsets her this much that u wont talk to that girl any more because u love her so much! i think u should stay together!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Nath offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Austin, TX, US | 2 years, 5 months ago (39 minutes after post)

Don’t think about the PS3. Don’t think about the exes. Think about if you really want to be with this girl any more, do you see youself with her and being happy.

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Barbyman offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (1 hour, 37 minutes after post)

i remember i was that mad ,i broke the bathroom door by kicking it,after that i had to fix it i was thinking how stupid i was doing that ,i think you need some space out, just see if you give each other some time to get youre bearings,and see how it works, obviously you cant live with each other ,cant be with out each other….

TIME, DISTANCE,SPACE

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nizar offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
IN | 2 years, 5 months ago (4 hours, 17 minutes after post)

How does the thought of taking the first step and intitiative to make her feel loved and secure sound? If doesnt seem like a good idea…then u probably need to give this some time…

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