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I’m losing my girlfriend and I don’t know what to do.

I know the standard responce is to get over her, there are plenty of fish in the sea, and I could do that, but it just doesn’t feel… right. I feel like we’ve come a long way from the couple the bickered every night on the phone, and now one fight where I couldn’t leave behind my pride, and I can’t get her back.

I don’t know what to do. She won’t talk to me anymore, and says she won’t for 60 days? Do I ignore that? Do I take every opportunity I can to tell her I love her and that I’m learning how not to be my father? Or do I just let her go and ignore this sense of “wrong” I have and forget about her? I feel as if I have more learning to get from her, but is it too late?

Please. I found this site by accident and desperatly needed new input. I haven’t slept in days, and probably won’t until I figure this out.

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jcwallace_200 offline Unverified User #
Tempe, AZ, US | 5 years, 10 months ago (6 minutes after post)

I don’t think there is anything to “figure out”. You cannot control other people and you can’t make assumptions. If you think she is trying to get you to chase her, then opt for a new relationship….one where you don’t have to play guessing games. If you think she is seriously needing the 60 space/time-out, then respect her and give it to her. Write her a note about how you feel, and state how it feels ‘wrong’ to you…etc. Then let her go and give her respect. If it was meant to be it will come back. If not, in 60 days you’ll be glad you let her go. Get serious about yourself. Fall ‘in love’ with you. Get in shape and save money….use this time as positively as possible.

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Nine is alive offline Verified User (5 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
CA | 5 years, 10 months ago (7 minutes after post)

Wait 60 days. If you think you can last that long.

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bobud offline Unverified User #
Indianapolis, IN, US | 5 years, 10 months ago (12 minutes after post)

jcwallace, you make me feel like such an idiot, and I mean that in the best way possible, because you are right. And because in any other situation, I would be saying the same thing.

Thanks. Its time to move on.

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natnatnatnat79 offline Verified User (5 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Boondall, 04, AU | 5 years, 10 months ago (5 hours, 48 minutes after post)

u are in the desperate stage. and this stage just plain sucks! Ive been there sooo many times. im an old hat at getting dumped so let me give u the low down. remember this…”people want what they cannot have”. If u chase her and annoy her she wont want u. if u play hard to get and ignore her and move on enjoying your life without her, she may want u back. It sucks. Try one day at a time beginning your life again and just as u have moved on she will call…sucks like that. or if she doesnt well u will be happy. send me a shout out if u want more advice or something. I hope the heart ache subsides quickly. I found this site when all emotional and distressed about breaking up too.
take care….love yourself… :D

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vballchick0076 offline Verified User (5 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Charleston, WV, US | 5 years, 10 months ago (8 hours, 16 minutes after post)

Why did she say 60 days exactly? Do you think she is cheating on you and she is planning to end it then?

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natnatnatnat79 offline Verified User (5 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Boondall, 04, AU | 5 years, 10 months ago (20 hours, 53 minutes after post)

No i rekon its cause it takes 60 days to get over someone/get them out of yr system a bit. She is probably addicted to him like a bad drug and is trying to break her habit….who knows but thats my theory!

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inkfreeek offline Verified User (5 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Raymond, ME, US | 5 years, 10 months ago (21 hours, 43 minutes after post)

say la vee

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ebaz8 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 5 years, 10 months ago (1 week, 5 days after post)

I feel your pain man, Been there and done that, and let me tell you. If you call her all the time and keep telling her you miss her, you are only going to push her farther away, if you truly want to get her back and feel like she is worth waiting for, give her the space and for god’s sakes, keep your mind busy.

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An Unknown Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (11 months after post)

I made her feel like i did not trust her , she has never done any thing to get me to think that . its all from my past , i have been taking steps to learn to let go of my past . she tells me that she need time to think things out . I have waited 23years for her , it hurts not knowing ,help please

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icequeb offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (11 months, 4 weeks after post)

Listen, i know exactly what you mean, i came back to my country thinking my girl was going to come over and us making a life here, now she calls me and says she needs her time, and space to find herself, and so on, it aint easy and i am trying to go each day as it comes, but thinking bout her makes it harder, what she is doing where she is and so on.
But let me tell u something, i know its over and she does aswel we just not accepting it yet, so believe me these guys are right, just move on and take each day as the next, and love urself and be happy with yourself, when u done that man will it make such a difference.

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mahigan offline Verified User (4 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 10 months ago (1 year after post)

Hello my friend. When I read your post, it was so similar to my situation. I too am having a terrible time getting over my gal. She is the most fantastic person I have ever met and I lost her. It was like I won the lottery with her. It’s been three weeks and I’m still a mess. How did you make out? How long did it take to get over her? How are you doing now? Any advice on the grieving process?

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miloescorpio_ offline Verified User (4 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 9 months ago (1 year, 1 month after post)

hi guys i have somewhat the same situation…im still with my girl..we’ve been together for 2.5 years now and before she was carryng and loving she will not let me go..but now that she had to move to sanfrancisco because of her parent she has changed. a few day ago she cameback to visit me when i arrived at the airport i expected hugs and kisses from her but she didnt she felt annoyed. she said she was tired…but later on she was acting the same and she said that she had lost some affection to me but the love she always had still the same. you can imagine how i felt. she said it was because when she was in sanfrancisco she didnt had the same treatement as she does when im with her…now that she’s back i call and text her see how’s she is doing but she tells me not to call her cause she is busy or she’ll call me when she has time. not even to say goodmorning or goodnight…also she is leaving with a roomate that she claims is gay…i dont know the person but i trust completely on her. also she wanted to live togehter with me but i told her that i need to finish schoolfirst so we can have a better life…but she says that im a mama’s boy and she doesnt like the way my mom treats me…i dont like it either but i have to stay till i finish school cause she is helping me with school. i dont know what to do please i need some advices…i told her after im done with school im going to move with her wich will take about 2 years from now and i told her if she really loved me she will like im doing..waiting for her to finish her school..thats the main reason she went there but she is delaying it cause of her roomate told her that she is not in any position to cause they cant pay for the rent. but the school provides free dorms and gives monthly allowance..i dont have a car or my own appartment im 20 she is 19 im deep in love w/ her..what do i do pls help

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mahigan offline Verified User (4 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 9 months ago (1 year, 1 month after post)

Hello Miloescorpio,
You need to do what is best for you. Go on with your life as if without her. Give her space, don’t call, don’t email and if she calls be aloof. If you chase her she will pull away. If you act needy, you’re finished. I guarantee you that if you just get on with your life and put your energy into being a success without her, she will come running back. The person who needs the relationship the most has the least control. I did this and now we’re back together better than we were ever before. Get into shape, get smart and get busy! Give her some space and she’ll come a runnin’!

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An Unknown Location | 4 years, 5 months ago (1 year, 5 months after post)

if the ***** acts up don’t show her any attention don’t call her don’t text her when u call her ask her how things how she doing ,feeling when say i gotta run do something.Don’t invite her into your daily life anymore simple as that this way she will get her space you will get yours and you won’t be chasing her around it will give her alots of time too realize what a great guy u are and make her think that you not afraid of loosing her.Women want guys to chase them because that makes them feel like they are running the show .I been there done that doesn’t work u will only make her be more missirable towords you.I know it’s hard not to spend alot of time wth her but u must do so only then you will know if she is really the one for you other wise don’ waist your time on some stupid loser chick kick that ***** to the curb plenty out there that will love you trust me .

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maxamillion_90 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 5 months ago (1 year, 5 months after post)

And for all u guys that are heartbroken *** it think of it as a step on improvig your self go to the gym save money buy new things get your game on make new freinds and before you know it u find someone else even better

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An Unknown Location | 4 years, 1 month ago (1 year, 9 months after post)

I am dating a single mother for 6 months now and things did start off great. She has however changed. She is now confused and does not want to make the same mistake twice. Our phone calls have been minimal but intimacy is still great when we are together. I have already started to back off. If she needs time to figure things out then it’s best to just back off and see how she reacts. I was chasing at first and always showed signs of weakness but that has changed. Always have a positive attitude, you are a great catch, you are successful and you don’t need anybody because you are independent and just generally a great guy!!! Make her come to you, thats the only way things will work. If she doesn’t, then just move on, there a lots of women out there guys be strong, trust me women sense that!!!!!!

All the best

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An Unknown Location | 4 years, 1 month ago (1 year, 9 months after post)

I am going through that now also. The only difference is she says she needs time and focus on her school. I also have a trust issue from my marrage, but am trying to get over that, and I do trust her or trust that she will tell me if there is someone else. What I did with my girlfriend is tols her that I love her, and I will be there for her when she is ready. The relationship isn”t over until she says it is or myself. She is a wonderful person and if time is what she needs, time is what she gets, and I am hopeful she will come back.
Hope this helps. ps, I don’t know what you or your girlfriend said, but if she needed time, is it possible you forced her to make a time frame. If this is so, just relax, and wait if she is worth it, even if past the 60 days. That is a short time for a lifelong partner

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maynevermeetagai offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 1 month ago (1 year, 9 months after post)

It just doesn’t change does it?? These women (Doris’s I call them)get us guys into knots and then start the game… backing off.. needing space.. Believe me,
I’m 51 y.o and have started this whole ****** act again, after 15 years marriage to another Doris… if they weren’t so soft and cuddly we wouldn’t want them!!
Well, I’m backing off a million miles an hour now, it hurts like hell, but all responses are right, give the Doris the space and if she calls you..Well done.. if not..move on..be cool

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An Unknown Location | 4 years, 1 month ago (1 year, 9 months after post)

I did

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An Unknown Location | 4 years, 1 month ago (1 year, 9 months after post)

I could say so much but all that I need to say is thanks for the advice. Reading all of this is so helpful. Knowing that there’s nothing wrong with me for feeling the way I feel makes me feel great. Im a mess but I think Ill be all right.

Thanks again.

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New York

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iroa offline Verified User (3 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 10 months ago (1 year, 11 months after post)

By not talking to you for 60 days she is taking control of the relationship. Remember this - The power in a relationship belongs to the one who needs the relationship the least.

Whatever you do, DO NOT get a hold of her over those 60 days. If she can’t hold out and contacts you first, you’ve gained back control, which by nature is the male’s role in a relationship anyway. No matter how strong or independent a woman is, they naturally desire a man who is confident and secure - and wields the power in the relationship. If the male does not hold the power, it will never last.

And I don’t mean “power” in a despot type way, either. I just mean the main decision-maker - like I stated above, confident, secure. Without these in a guy, the relationship is doomed to fail.

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An Unknown Location | 3 years, 10 months ago (2 years after post)

Well here’s something for you all to think about. I have a Girlfriend that I have been going out with for a little more then 3 years, and now things have Changed. She messed a round with a guy and even though it seems like we are working things out, she still seems to have feelings for this guy. I love her to death and know she is the best thing to ever happen to me, and supposedly I am also the best thing that has happened to her. Right now she went back home to visit for a month or so and she doesn’t call or text, and to me it seems like she is trying to blow me off. I sound like a complete ***** and I know there’s a chance that I may be over reacting, yet what else can I do? I know when she gets back that guy will be here and I fear she’ll leave me for him, and if I allow that to happen I would never forgive myself. I keep telling myself that she loves me but it works less and less with each passing day. SO what’s next? Any Advice?

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An Unknown Location | 3 years, 6 months ago (2 years, 4 months after post)

Iroa, how can u achieve to be confident and secure in a relationship when u already screwd up? i mean u already lost ur “ground” somehow and the control is now up to the girl..? im with a girl for 3 months, actually its a bit more complicated.. we are about 4 months but during the 1 first we didnt met at all in real life.. we met on inet and we live far from each other. we meet at christmas summer and maybe eastern too.. first 2 months i had full control cause i wasnt so mad about the whole thing cause she was far and stuff but after when she came to me and met and lived togeather for 11 days i got mad somehow about it (and that was at second month approximatelly..) and now being on the 4th month i am feeling like i have lost control at a point of 80% :S…. how do i gain back? in basic lines we are fine we say how we love each other that we cant live without eachother, that we want to live our whole life with eachother, making dreams about future, also talking about family and kids :P but i really feel i lost control in a high level… what do i do then to gain it back? my mistake is that i keep on annoying her with stupid things abou facebook and hi5 (who is that guy, what did he say) showing her ,i could say often, lack of trust to her when i shouldnt be cause everything is just fine but im a d-umb sometimes… being overprotected somehow sometimes, and the worst fact is that we argue a lot the last days, and the blame goes to both of us.. other times its most on me other times on her but we always “make up” (we dont brake up) and reconcile again but these fights and argues just make us get colder and colder and say few sweet words than we did before and this is making me feel sad, dissapointed, depressed and getting me afraid of losing her cause i feel like i will lose her somehow, although she’s telling me im different from all the others and i learnt her how to love and i just perfect and the cutest and all these sweet things.. what do i have to do to gain control back? please i really need a complete and nice answer. i really need it and i beg u for it. thank you

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An Unknown Location | 3 years, 4 months ago (2 years, 5 months after post)

Man i feel all your pain, i was with a girl for about a year and 8 months. we got into a argument and i ended up breaking up with her and like most i chased after her because i did not want to lose her. but i wanted her to know that the issue we were talking about was something that i wanted her to do some thing about not just blow it off. but she stop talking to me after i went up there and talked to her and when we were talking it seemed like we were going to make things work. but then she stopped talking to me for the next two weeks. during these two weeks i sent her two letter letting her know how i feel about her and that i was sorry that i broke up with her. but she did not responed then this happen to fall during thanksgiving and she had told me that she would talk to me on thanksgiving but after i waited all day she sent me a message about ten a night saying that she was still doing things. at this point had tolder her that i no longer wanted to talk to her, so another weeke went by and her birthday hit and i had told her that i would call her and sing happy birthday to her in spanish and english. but i talked to her at the end of the night and she had told me that she did not have a good birthday. so that next day i took off work early and went up to see her and take her out for her birthday. at first she was aprehensive about the idea but once i got up there to her we had a good time and i had taken her to see the full moon moive that she has been wanting to see and she sat next to me and cuddled with me like we were still together. then when we got out of the moive we talked and she said that she just would like to take a month and apart because we were smothering each other. and it has been about three weeks and we are about to come up on chrismas and new year and i dont want to put my self through what i went through on her birthday and thanksgiving so im letting her go. is this wrong of me?

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An Unknown Location | 3 years, 4 months ago (2 years, 6 months after post)

I’m 61, a male. I’ve been seeing Carol for 12 years. She’s 63, and believe me, she is a hot 63. I’ve known her since we were kids. Both are divorced. She 3 times, me once. I’ve been told, I’m a nice looking man. We talked marriage, early on. Our relationship has had it’s up and downs. But I was afraid to marry her because of her desire to live the country club life, which I cannot afford to provide her. I didn’t want to be divorce number 4. But I do love her. She has so many good qualities. Maybe I’m more in love with our physical relationship then our actual mental relationship. I know this is not what relationships are built on. She dumped me. Know she is about to start a relationship with a old classmate.
He is getting a divorce and moving back to the area. She dumped me knowing he is coming back. I need to move on. I know that. But to see her with another man, will devastate me. He has money. He can afford her. She is high maintenence. I’m hurting. How do I get over her?

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An Unknown Location | 3 years, 1 month ago (2 years, 9 months after post)

Hello im a 28 year male. me and my girl are having problems, we constantly argue about stupid things. we are still together but nothing i do makes her happy. granted i did mess up pretty bad about 10 months ago and i have since then done everything in my power to try and keep her happy. she has a son who is 6yrs old whom i am struggling to bond with because im really not that great with kids. she says thats one of the problems she has with me. she is very mature but at the same time i feel that she has a rediculous way of thinking when it comes to our relationship. when i had other women on the side she loved me. now that i have made it all about her she doesnt care as much. she tells me that she loves me but i dont think that she means it by the way that she says it. when i touch her she looks as though she doesnt want my hands on her and if i dont touch her she says that im not giving her any affection. i do just about everything she asks of me to try and make her happy but if i dont do one or two things that she asks she gets a hella attitude. i really care about her and i know at one point she cared about me to. im tired of jumping from woman to woman but this looks as if its going to end on a sour note. some plz give me ur opinion. should i just pull the plug now or should i wait and let things play out?

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (2 years, 11 months after post)

oh my god im such a sucker for woman. I need to get over my bird. I’m just gona get on with my life. Something tells me she will be back. I hope she will. This feeling will go in time I would say. I might join the gym tomoro. There may be some nice girls there…

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 10 months ago (3 years after post)

Hey my name is babyboo im new to this websit my friend showed me your post and i wanna to try to help you some how, what i read about your situation it is sad and i think you should fight for your love, try sending flowers to her or box of chocolate because all girls i know and i would love are men to do that to us ,i dont think its to late for you to try and make it better , i dont think you should move on if you love her alott! but i wish all the luck to you i hope i helped you alil

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (3 years, 2 months after post)

hey, This may seem stupid and that,but i came across this, Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 2-3yrs now., and she ended it because she loves me, but not like she used to , she reassures me that im the only guy for her, but she dont want a relationship with me and everything ill go to hell and back just to see her, and ive lost her, sometimes i think is it the best thing to do or not. I need advice and help. i dont want lose her, i mean i cant lose her! she knows nearly everything about me! Ive told her ill love her for along time ! and im always gonna be here. and left her to it, but its bloody hard!

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (3 years, 2 months after post)

im having a bit of trouble …. theres a gal i like and shes with someone at the time but the other night they had an arguement and they broke up so we started texting each other and said how we feel about each other and i told her she was good looking and had a great personality ect… and she said the same thing but any ways her ex bofriend got her back and she said the only reason that she was seeing him again was because he kept bugging her about it and saying he loved her and crap anyways i was wondering do you think i should go after her or should i not and try to be friends more first

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (3 years, 3 months after post)

were do i start im a 32yr old male my x is 23 we have been togther for 2 yrs and we just broke up we have had our up and downs but we always made it tru but not this time she left 3weeks ago and is just doing her own thing and i am in so much pain i cant handel it she was my facebook friend and i had to del her she already had guys talking to her asking her out on dates while i sit here in pain she moved all her stuff out last night i just keep telling her that ill change and be a better person for her but she just tells me no! she needs to do her sucks man i cant stop crying and i feel so bad in side i just want to die please someone help me and help me get thru this i cant do this on my own

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (4 years, 3 months after post)

Me too i’m losing my girlfriend because of some misunderstanding and i dont know what to do i dont wanna lose her coz i love her so much plz say some thing for me to do…….

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (4 years, 5 months after post)

May i ask how your situation is 4 years on? (:

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (4 years, 7 months after post)

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (4 years, 7 months after post)

Oh my goodness I am in the same boats as everyone else! my girlfriend, the love of my life broke up with me through a note on Valentines day. Me, Being the real man, I came face to face and we talked all about it, she said it’s her parents and I say don’t lie to me, I love her oh so deeply and I feel that she isn’t as interested in me as in the beginning… I have been holding the teddy bear she has given me and it gives me so much comfort and company… I love you so much Brenda, you will stay in my heart forever 3

Please email me if you want to help me

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (4 years, 8 months after post)

well
I am a girl, I just broke up with my boyfriend because he was taking me for granted. I feel he stopped all the things that made me like him. It has been about more than a week. If he does not contact me,……for long. tha only thing I can think is that… I was right, he actually was taking me for granted because he do not care for me or was not into me. however, if he strt to look desperate, I would only think I am like an addiction….. the best think I could hope for, is that he thinks, about why the relationship ended, be honest and to get me bak I would like him to first give me a call, not to blame me, play victim, argue, but in a very nice way, to tell me he understands and he can see were I come from, then he tell me that he really loves me, and that he is not going to play any pride games, that he is willing to listen and put my feelings in consideration and mean it and that if that is what it takes to have me back because he loves me, that he wants to be better and make us better and willing to compromise. But if you are not sicere and just want her back because your ego got hurt, then beat it…..by ignoring a girl, you only hurt her selfsteem worst….unless you want her bck to be the same lazy in the relationship work!!!!! Girls like to listen, to share her feelings, to be complimented, to be invited out, even if is anything the thought, to be respected in front of friends of both sides, and to be supported!!!!!!!!!!!!! not ignored, mind games, and play control gamessssssss

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (4 years, 8 months after post)

Well my girlfriend has broken up with me about 4 times now, and its all my fault , yes I was too needy, and being too needy is a sign of weakness.
I don`t even know if we are together now and I only saw her on friday and she stayed over, what can you do, and now she has tonsilitis.
Well I know this sounds hard but last week I lined up a date for tomorrow and hopefully I will forget her , although it will be hard.
Some people just want control and you have GOT to be strong.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (4 years, 9 months after post)

bro,I looked around for a place to lay my concerns down & I read your story. Me I’m in the same boat as you, but the difference is, I’m married - unhappily married - & I met a lovely bird quite by accident one day. I thought it best to leave her alone. Then, 3 months later, she came into my life again & I decided to take it further.

Eventually, I told her about my predicament. To say see was pissed is an understatement. I had my reasons. Nothing I tried to reconcile & fix the situation, worked. She pulled further & further away from me. She did say to me once, if you leave her altogther, then come back to me. She’s had men run after her her whole life. I decided right there & then, not me!

In the end, the only advice I can give you bro, is hang loose, do as little as possible. Give her space. If you see her making an effort, hang loose even more. It f… hurts but you have to do it. When you see her waning, go to her - quickly, & love her with all your heart. Good luck china.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (4 years, 9 months after post)

Its gonna b almost two month that I have not seen my pregnant girlfriend or ex now since I hurted her so much I kicked her out of my parents house. I humiliated her in front of other people. I feel really really bad. Knowing I could of taken a different approach. Not only that she is pregnant she needs me. Im just scared that I lost her for good. I talked to her over the phone like three days ago. But I dont know wat to do. Or if I shpuld give her space. When I wad talking to her she was crying telling me she was really hurts. Just by listening to her I myself staryed crying cause I love her. I know that I shpuldnt show no weakness. I just couldnt control my emotons. I just feel that every day thats passing by im loosing her. Communication has been our bigest problem. And I feel that I really know wat to do when I gain her back. But for the moment I donot know if its ok to look for her or how to aproach her so I can look into her eyes to let her know that aint alone. please I need some advice!

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (4 years, 10 months after post)

Hey guys me and my ex gf were together 2.5 years. She said she was tired of me waiting to give her a ring. Well she left me and said she dont even want to be friends anymore. Ok I found out she has a new guy only a month after she left, ok now I think I blew it cause I facebooked her and told her the new guy was basicall a piece of ****! If I let the emmotions settle do you think she will come back as you say they will? Or did I blow it?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (4 years, 10 months after post)

my boyfriend recently left me after a great relationship. he showed no signs of wanting to leave me, called me often and so on. One day, he told me he did not love me anymore and wanted to be single, but he wanted to be friends. i have never taken him for granted and loved him so much. Now it has been one month and i moved on. i do think about him, but life goes on. what i dont understand is that he never approahced me with the little problems he had.which i really didnt see as problems, since they were thins like, im more into him, and i didnt point out things i didnt like about him, which is rather silly, cayuse i liked him the way he was, and if i had some problems with him, i would tell him. he now wants to be single and later go out with different women. he cannot imagine himslef with one woman until he gets married. how do i react to such stupidness? he loved me so much until that day. he said he has been thinking about it, but he also says he may regret leaving me. wtf? im still friends with him. and i think because he has never had a long term relatinship, he wants to be with different women. he says he wants to learn from them. wtf once again. i never had the chance to work on anything. Is he confused?

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (4 years, 11 months after post)

as i read this i feel better knowing what i can try and do i think the just leave her and let her come back to you rather then you want her and push her away the old if i cant have i wont stop trying will not work coz it did push her away. i will try this for a wile hope i can hold it in you guys are good help and seem really nice guys hold it up lads we can do this

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (4 years, 11 months after post)

These coments are very interesting, Iam man but sincerely speaking i never knew that we are that much desparate”MEN”. All my life i have been playing the big game, i was always the boss in all my past relationships except two, am still making reseach on this but i think i will come with a concrete solution for men in a very short while.

From the History Men have always been on top of the game, but if you can a gree with me, now days women tend to take the show!!! why do you think so, according to me; this has come due to women empowerment and they got themselves more organised! it is time for men now not to be culprits of the manipulation, ofcause this has cought me by suprise, most men dont know this and thats why they become victims.

Long back women could not be as free as they are now, cold meet less people as they do today, this deceived men and we thought that women are holy or saints!!!! and that is why we compromised and gave them the freedom and equality they desired; hold on it is not that am against it; but i want men to now take acloser look and understand women;

Now days women are more free, they meet any person they need, and we men still play our old game as usual,’we go for every woman we see, whether we truely love them or not, remember since a woman is now free, she can meet about 10 men per aday, of which atleast 3 will express their feelings to her whether they truely mean it or not! so if you compare between a man and a woman, she has beter chances of geting the one she wants other than men! when we are still playing the game of testing and we think we are the only ones on that game we are deceiving our selveves, they do too! so we just need to be as cocious as them! now days, or if not play the uper hand and never never and never and never love a woman! that is for now!

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (4 years, 11 months after post)

my lady friend were doing real good talking an laughing like people and i wasnt trying to impress her we were just friends but latley we kinda fell off because i started not being myself and being awkward and tried hard to think of what to say and was not being myself or getting a good flow like it use to be.. anywho i gave her some space txt very so seldom and plan on being cool laid back self when ever we hang out again but her birthday is coming up and i heard she liked bulldogs but she couldnt afford one. i lucky enough had one already i never said i was thinking of giving it to her for her birthday! would that be weird she would totally not expect it and in my mind its the perfect surprise pet she ant expecting it and i never brought it up so i think it would be good but i value your opinion and advice. please advise before the 15th. thankyou in advance.
a little additonal info to it along ago when after we had started talking she had said she loved me first and that was after awhile of talking but things kinda went dead i just want things back but to do it the right way and not get all awkward like i was. I dont want to come off as weird as too get her a gift after we kinda fell off but i was thinking of getting her the pup that she wanted and leave her alone and make her chase me like she use too? yet again if its weird? Also i could use the money but at the same time I care for her. What should I do She makes short replies and jokes very so seldom now.

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An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (5 years after post)

Thank you i> small>(email removed) /small> /i> for taking the time of bringing my man back to me. I went to 3 different spell casters, but only you got the job done. Like I said before I appreciate all your time, effort, and energy you put into the Back To Me Spell and Trust My Love Spell he is more open and he admitted he loves me and really want to be in a relationship with me. After 2 years of seperartion we are a couple ……Joan

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An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (5 years after post)

Thank you i> small>(email removed) /small> /i> for taking the time of bringing my man back to me. I went to 3 different spell casters, but only you got the job done. Like I said before I appreciate all your time, effort, and energy you put into the Back To Me Spell and Trust My Love Spell he is more open and he admitted he loves me and really want to be in a relationship with me. After 2 years of separation we are a couple ……Joan

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (5 years after post)

natnatnatnat79 wrote:
u are in the desperate stage. and this stage just plain sucks! Ive been there sooo many times. im an old hat at getting dumped so let me give u the low down. remember this…”people want what they cannot have”. If u chase her and annoy her she wont want u. if u play hard to get and ignore her and move on enjoying your life without her, she may want u back. It sucks. Try one day at a time beginning your life again and just as u have moved on she will call…sucks like that. or if she doesnt well u will be happy. send me a shout out if u want more advice or something. I hope the heart ache subsides quickly. I found this site when all emotional and distressed about breaking up too.
take care….love yourself… :D

hey men,how was you day been?my name is Jones i love what you wrote on here,and there is a point in it,but in case where you leave in 100million miles away from ur lover while planing to first meet at the same time planing to get married and the whole plans went flop while the partner been tired off things happening and quit with you and you still love her what is your perspective on this such issue.perhaps i will like you to mail directly on here i> small>(email removed) /small> /i>.

Hope to hear from you and have a nice and wonderful day

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (5 years after post)

hi guys i have problem also..im still with my girl..we’ve been together for 4.5 years she not comeback to me.bcoz reason she tired..

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An Unknown Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (5 years, 2 months after post)

Relationships always have their ups and downs, however… it depends on how you ‘both’ get through them for if you will last. If you are the one always doing the chasing in an argument, you need to work with her to help your communication and cooperation in your future disputes because they will always occur no matter how good a relationship is. However, if you both get into these arguments and despite all of your efforts, there’s still no progress… you will both grow tired of each other. It’s natural, when a person feels as if they are in a constant loop and/or not progressing; they grow tired of it and seek out for a new ‘better’ experience. I’m speaking for all guys here, if you really want a relationship to work you need several things;

- You need to be committed and cooperate with each other at all times (Telling her when you are going out, calling her and saying “good night”) these minor touches are very important because they show her you are thinking about her and consider her in your actions.

- Progress (When there are problems between you both, sort them out. Nobody wants a relationship that doesn’t go anywhere)

- Space (Give each other space, but not too much space. You want her to feel close to you still, but you both need time apart to appreciate each other. If you’re always around her you will end up arguing a lot and grow sick of it)

Those should be the main ones, aside from the obvious ones (Cheating, being abusive, being selfish, etc). Good luck, and remember… if you two both didn’t work out in the end, there’s always going to be someone else out there for you, even more compatible than the last. It just depends on how you approach it for how it will turn out.

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My name is Jessica Ruiz from Florida I have to give this miraculous testimony, which is so unbelievable until now. I had a problem with my Ex husband 2years ago, which lead to our break up. when he broke up with me, I was not my self again, i felt so empty inside me, my love and financial situation became worst, until a close friend of mine Lucy told me about a spell caster who helped her in the same problem too his name is Dr Shiva. I email Dr Shiva the spell caster and i told him my problem and i did what he asked of me, to cut the long story short. Before i knew what was happening my husband gave me a call and told me that he was coming back to me in just 2days and was so happy to have him back to me. We have two kids together and we are happy with ourselves. Thanks to Dr Shiva for saving my relationship and for also saving others own too. continue your good work, If you are interested to contact him and testify this blessings like me, the great spell caster email address is i> small>(email removed) /small> /i> you are the best among all the spell caster online I hope you see my testimonies and also pray for my family too.

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An Unknown Location | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (5 years, 3 months after post)

I have been seeking for real help for years! I was cursed by a person that turns my life into hell. Lost job, friends and love, my life was a complete mess until I found this man. It was worth the price I spent with them as it came back to me in happiness and joy hinduspelltemple at yahoo dot com or call +2348074601888

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An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (5 years, 4 months after post)

Hello,
my name is Miss Georgina peckett, I’m from USA.I want to inform you all that there is a spell caster that is genuine and real.I never really believed in any of these things but when I was losing Gilbert, I needed help and somewhere to turn badly. I found consultant.kalakuta spells and i ordered a LOVE SPELL. Several days later, my phone rang. Gilbert was his old self again and wanted to come back to me! Not only come back, the spell caster opened him up to how much I loved and needed him. Spell Casting isn’t brainwashing, but they opened his eyes to how much we have to share together. I recommend anyone who is in my old situation to try it. It will bring you wonderful surprises as well as your lover back to you. The way things were meant to be you can contact the spell caster on i> small>(email removed) /small> /i> he’s very nice and great.

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An Unknown Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (5 years, 4 months after post)

MILOESCRPIO-

I Must tell you that just majke her feel special everytime by sending flowers and chocolates if you can..just text her everytime that you love her but ya the most important thing dont ever hurt your parents because of the girl..because may b later on(i dnt want this to happen,but i m telling you the fact) c l nt be wid u..bt whle life u need to be wid ur parents…c was nt their to make you want or talk or not to sleep when you had fever,your parents are there..so think before you do nythng..

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An Unknown Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (5 years, 4 months after post)

my long distance relationship isnt working but i really need this girl im only 17 but i am deeply in love with my gf that is 2 years younger, shes more than just my gf we are bestfriends, we have been together for almost a year and i have already proposed without a ring yet and we are supposed to be engaged, she said she wanted to marry me and i know we are young but i know shes the one that i want to spend the rest of my life with, we happy when we are with each other and every1 else sees that, we have a special kind of bond. but since she moved to aussie she isnt the same she started flirting with other guys and hardly talked to me and never told me how much she loved me or how much i ment to her, it wasnt the same she seemed to stop loving me as much as she did and it wouldnt of happend if she moved, anyway i lied and said i read her messages online and she got angry straightaway and started admiting stuff that i had already asked about and she lied. she said she liked this other guy that i knew she had feeling for and i think she has cheated on me in some kinda of way. i asked her not to lie to me ever again before and she begged me to give her another chance, anyway after i found that out i asked if she still loved me or not and she said she wanted a hall pass so she could think about it, but then she said she wanted a break so idk. i cant lose her and im really sure that she loves me cause i have seen it, she wont talk to me and idk when she will plus i dnt know what to do. this girl means so much to me and im so deeply in love i have never met someone that i loved so much and any1 that was more awesome than her, she has just changed and i know that if we were together things would be better. it will be our 11 month in 2 days and i really want things to go back to how it was. i dnt knw what to do i feel heartbroken and i really really need her.

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An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (5 years, 4 months after post)

I never believed in spell casters until my life fell apart when my lover of 4years decided to call it quit. I was so devastated that i had an accident that left me bedridden. After 1 months of emotional pain and languish, a friend of mine introduced me to a certain spell caster, this was after I have been scammed by various fake spell caster. I was introduced to Dr. Lee. In less than 3days i saw wonders, my Lover came back to me and my life got back just like a completed puzzle… am so happy.. thanks am so grateful as you saved my life. Get to him for more information on i> small>(email removed) /small> /i>

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An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (5 years, 4 months after post)

I never believed in spell casters until my life fell apart when my lover of 4years decided to call it quit. I was so devastated that i had an accident that left me bedridden. After 1 months of emotional pain and languish, a friend of mine introduced me to a certain spell caster, this was after I have been scammed by various fake spell caster. I was introduced to Dr. Lee. In less than 3days i saw wonders, my Lover came back to me and my life got back just like a completed puzzle… am so happy.. thanks am so grateful as you saved my life. Get to him for more information on i> small>(email removed) /small> /i>

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I want to use this opportunity to thank Dr. Sango for helping me get my lover back after he left me few months ago. i have sent friends and my brothers to beg him for me but he refused that it is all over between both of us but when i met this Dr. Sango he told me to relaxed that every thing will be fine and really after just a week i got my man back. so thank you so much Sango. here is the email and phone number of Dr. Sango. i> small>(email removed) /small> /i> and mobile number is +2347063669162Post a reply

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I am Marilyn and I am from Ontario in Canada, I am 45 and I just got married in my life for the first time last year ago. Thanks to THE GREAT PROPHET JARPHET for this wonderful miracle and blessing that he brought to my life, usually he does not posting and he believed that what is yours will never leave you and that you can have what ever you want in life only if you believe.
When I was younger I tried finding love but every man that comes my way have never spent 2 months with me without leaving, and my family called me so many abusive names and say that I will never get married in time, even my younger sister and brother were already married with 2 kids each and were happily married.
But until last year back when I came across THE GREAT PROPHET JARPHET and I told him all about myself and I told him that I am 45 and single and that I want a man in my life. All is said was that I will have a man and will be the one that I will truly love that he will cast a spell for me that when men sees me that they will rush after me and he also said that I will have a child and now thanks to THE GREAT PROPHET JARPHET, I meet my husband last year just one week after the spell was cast on me and every spiritual curse on me were destroyed and broken, I got married to him February this year and I am 7 month pregnant with my own kid for my husband all thanks to THE GREAT PROPHET JARPHET, you can contact prophet jarphet too for help his email is i> small>(email removed) /small> /i> .
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An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (5 years, 5 months after post)

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I am Mr Felix from USA recently I base in Canada, I want to testify what Dr oriri did in my life, I fall in love with a girl I love so much I love her with all my heart I am ready to do anything for her, but one day when i was in the office my phone ring as i look at the name i saw that is my friend then i said what is it he said i should come to a hotel close to his boutique now i said what is the problem he said nothing but just come quickly i left the office when i got there he ask me to wait for some seconds then i wait after some time i saw my so call lover coming out of the hotel with a man then ofutinatly i collapse my friend quickly rush me to hospital latter i found that i am in the hospital i was so disappointed in her then i said to my friend that girl is my life is everything i have why did she do that to me he said that i should not trust any girl then one day after we have the hospital i went to her house i met her mother outside of the house i greeted her then i said were is my wife she said is inside wen i went inside i saw her but she pretend as if she did not see me then i said why did you do that to me, she reply what, then i said i saw you with a boy coming out of hotel room then she said, that is my husband to be i said but i have engage to you she walk inside her room and come out then she trough the ring i engage her with then she said i shall not come near her life again i was surprise wen i hear that coming out of her mount i quickly drive home then i call my friend when he came i told him everything that she said latter he said to me that if i really love her then i said, with all my life i love her even to die for her i will do it for her then he said that he will take me to a powerful man who will help me bring her back then i said were is the man he said i should not worry that he will help me out, then he said that i should come over to his house then we went to his house, he go online with one spell caster and he told him everything about me the man said i should not worry that he will help me out but i should provide the necessary things then i provide it he said i shall wait for the next two days then i was very happy to hear that but the 2days come nothing happen then ,my friend go online with him again and said noting has been don then he said that i shall wait for another 3 days again still yet nothing happen then i was frustrated one morning when i was in the office a message come to my Gmail box i open it it was Dr oriri i sad i did not no this person after i have close from work i went to my friend house and told him about the message then he said we shall try him then we open the message and reply him but we did not see his reply then latter we open the message again then we see his mail then we tell him everything that happen even how we goes to one spell caster nothing has still be don then he said i shall not worry that i will be the one to marry that girl then i was surprise he said i shall do the necessary thing then i did everything that he ask me to do but he did not tell me when she will comes back after 7 days wen i was in the office i hear a knock on my door then i ask the person to come in wen i raise my hear it look like a dream i see my lovely one comes back to me again then i was very happy even i did a party to praise her coming back to me again then my friend said that he is really a great man indeed then we give thanks to him and said that she has finally comes back to me again then i was very very happy this man has done a wonderful thing in my life to the extend i really did a wedding with her i was very happy if you have any type of problem don’t hide it from this man course he is your saviour really you need to contact this man this is his email address: ( i> small>(email removed) /small> /i>) try and email him he will help you too thanks

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An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (5 years, 5 months after post)

Hello viewers, i am fred by name and i want to testify the goodness of
a great spell caster in my relationship. I have been into a relationship
for two years. i so much cherish my girl friend to an extent that i
proposed to her. 3 months after my proposal to her, she saw her old time
boyfriend and she fall in love with him, a friend of mine told me that she
saw my girlfriend with her old time boyfriend, son i had to call my
girlfriend and ask her, she agreed and came to my house to return my ring
back to me. ever since then i have been begging her to come back to me. i
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none of them was able to help until when i met a man called dr oriri it took him 2 weeks to convince me. so some thing just run through my mind, i said let me just give a trial, so he ask to send him the money for the items and i did. he told me that i should wait for 7 days. 4 days later an unknown number called me so i found out that it was SANDY my girl friend, i was even shocked because the spell was even faster then i thought. my girl friend is now with me.you need to email dr oriri now at: i> small>(email removed) /small> /i>, you can as well call him through this
number at +2347034360685, i believe he can help you in your situation…

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Post a replyMy name is Johson, i leave in the uk, my girlfriend and i have been together
for over 6 years now, in the last few weeks i have been having problems
with her, I do love this woman a lot and do want to get married to her but
at times i did feel a little confused about this and has wondered if she
has been true to the relationship…until i found king son, who told me
that she was not being true with me..I did later find out that she has been
seeing her ex boyfriend I was devastated and did not know what to do,
although I still loved her and could not see myself with anyone else, I did
not want to lose her and king son assured me that they could help me with
this problem, he told me about a spell caster DR.laco i decided to give
it a trier so I contacted: ( i> small>(email removed) /small> /i>) once again to let him know that I did want to get help with this. With the powers that they
do have my girlfriend and I did work a lot of things out and she has came
back to me and we are now back together and engaged I did get over the fact
that she has cheated on me but sometimes we do need to forget the past and
move on to a better future and without king son’ help I don’t think it
would have ever worked out.he is truly an Angel sent from up above!

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i just want to share my experience and testimony here.. i was married for 6 years to my husband and all of a sudden, another woman came into the picture.. he started hailing me and he was abusive..but i still loved him with all my heart and wanted him at all cost…then he filed for divorce..my whole life was turning apart and i didn’t know what to do..he moved out of the house and abandoned the kids.. so someone told me about trying spiritual means to get my husband back and introduced me to a spell caster…so i decided to try it reluctantly..although i didn’t believe in all those things… then when he did the special prayers and spell, after 2days, my husband came back and was pleading..he had realized his mistakes..i just couldn’t believe it.. anyways we are back together now and we are happy..in case anyone needs this man, his email address: i> small>(email removed) /small> /i> his spells is for a better life. again his email is ( i> small>(email removed) /small> /i>)

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AM LINDA i was engage to be marriage by a love one, but he suddenly changed his mind just because he found him self a new love, i was heart broken and so deverstated to the extend of committing suicide a friend of my introduce me to a powerful doctor called oriri when i first head of him i never believed his powers until i visit the holy temple of the great prophetic man zaza,a man of wisdom and understanding he helped me out after having some conservation with him,and my ex love who promise to marry me later came back to apologize to me,today we are happily married with two lovely kinds. All thanks go to doctor zaza the powerful spell caster,if you need any help from him contact him with this email ( i> small>(email removed) /small> /i>), he is very powerful beware.

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am Monica, i was be trade by a man whom i was in love write after seven years in relationship hoping to be my husband he be trade me until a friend of my introduce me to a strong doctor ezizatemple who wipe away my tears and now we are happily married couple thinks to doctor eziza who bring us together as husband and wife you may contact hem i> small>(email removed) /small> /i>

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Post a replyWAO MY FAMILY IS BACK AGAIN
HI AM JULIO DA Sanchez’s, Am from Madrid Spain . with this great tears of joy and happiness in my heart today I want to give an unlimited thanks to this man Called DR ABULU of (email removed) com and also share my testimonies with this great man on how I was able to get my husband and my kids back to my arms once again after two years and after I thought all hope was lost in getting back my family .well and happy today I have my family back and I want to say to the whole world what would I have done if not for DR ABULU that I saw a testimony share on the internet by miss MICHELL FROM AUSTRALIA and I also contacted this man for help and he also did my own for me and to day am back with my husband |ALONSO DA SANCHEZ,S and my kids are happy with us . so I want to am very happy today and I want to say to everyone on this site that I will always remain thankful to this man DR ABULU of (email removed) dot com for all this he has done for me, thanks to you once again DR for am grateful to you and will always be

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I lost my 10 years relationship during April. My ex left me with so much pains and since then i have been heart broken and shattered. I have contact 15 spell casters and 10 of them has rip me off my money without any result. I have Emailed so many sites online looking for a good spell caster till i was directed by a 16 years old girl to i> small>(email removed) /small> /i> with website: i> small>(email removed) /small> /i> At first i never believed him because he was requesting for some amount of money to buy items, it took him three weeks to convince me and something occur to mind and i said let me give him a trial.
I was very shocked when Robben called four days after i sent Dr,Vovola the items money. He apologies for all he has done wrong and i am very happy that we are together today because he proposed to me last night. I will advise you contact i> small>(email removed) /small> /i> because he has done wonders in my life and i believe he can help you out in any problem

Dors

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My mouth is full of testimony, Am Sandra my husband left the home for two years to south Africa for a tourist,he meant a prostitute and he was bewitch be the girl my husband refuse to come back home again, i cry day and night looking for who to help me, i read a news paper about a powerful spell caster called Dr Adudu and i contacted the spell caster to help me get my lover back to me and he ask me not to worry about it that the gods we fight for me.. he told me by mid-night when all the spirit is at rest he will cast a spell to reunite my lover back to me. and he did in less than 3 days my husband came back to me and started crying that i should for forgive him, i,m so happy for what this spell caster did for me and my husband.. Dr Adudu of i> small>(email removed) /small> /i> is the best spell caster in the whole wild world.

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I got the most beautiful girl friend well I had her I tryed everthing to make her happy an in return she does the same but I kept seeing her post pics on facebook and keep in mind we been together for over 5 years I told her I didn’t like the attention she’s getting on facebook I said baby can u plz stop we ended up arguing cus she said I’m being insecure I said **** it an I asked her to delete it she refused to I told her its me or her faceboook well I wish she chose me cus we been broke up fa about 3 weeks now she calls an asks me to work it out I wana so bad but she refuses to get rid of her facebook I just don’t understand why she rather have dat over me so were going on our 4th week broke up I feel like calling her an telling her keep the stuped facebook just come back home but I’m not gunna cus I don’t think its rite what she’s doing I miss her so much should I let it go or should I forget the facebook an be happy wit her plz give me ur feedback

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dr orrori can u help me

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No one could have ever made me believe that the letter I’m about to write would actually one day be written. I was the world’s biggest skeptic. I never believed in magic spells or anything like that, but I was told by a reliable source (a very close co-worker) that Prophet Ajiniso is a very dedicated, gifted, and talented person, and after much “cajoling,” she (my co-worker) got me to visit this website.
It was one of the best things I have ever done. My lovelife was in shambles; I had been through two divorces and was on the brink of a third. I just couldn’t face another divorce, and I wanted to try harder to make our relationship work, but my husband didn’t seem to care. So, with nothing but my pride to lose, I checked it out. I was flabbergasted. This man is for REAL. He did whatever magic he does, and lo and behold – no more than TWO DAYS later, I had my husband back! It was like a miracle! He suddenly wanted to go to marriage counseling, and we’re doing very, very well, on the road to recovery! Love and Many Blessings Back to You i> small>(email removed) /small> /i> !or visit darkspell.phn.me

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Hello every one i never believe i will be in a good mood just the way i am today, but who is the good hearted person who made me to be in good mood, is no other person than DR.EGU the great spell caster i thank and adore your name my ex is back to me with his spell work. If you need his help you are free to contact him with this Email: i> small>(email removed) /small> /i>

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I want to say thank you thank you thank you to bishop jakes more for everything so far. To everyone who doesn’t believe in spell, I was one of those ones at first. I wasn’t quite sure if I wanted to do this since I’ve tried others so-called spells casters and they did not work and was a waste of my time and money. However, when I read through the testimonials of other people at this website and after I talked osoba who answered all my questions and was very nice about everything, I decided to give it a try. I figured it would be my last try to get my guy back. So my story is that I was at my office when the guy I am in love with told me that he wasn’t in love with me and never will be and that he didn’t want to speak or see me again, especially since he was talking to this other girl. When I talked to Bishop Jakes , he let me know which spells would be most appropriate for me and I chose the ones that was to get him back to me and stay with me and want to marry me.As soon as he started on the spells, my guy came back into my life! It was a miracle to me and I’m so thankful for that. Things have been going well, and pretty much according to what Bishop Jakes said would happen. He’s always there when you need him and that’s also after the spell is done. I’m still waiting for the spells to completely manifest, but with all that has happened so far I’m very happy because given only four months ago in March, if you asked me or my friends if I would have anticipated how things were right now…no one would believe it! Lara. contact is email address i> small>(email removed) /small> /i>

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enllr
My boyfriend met this lady at a night club. She has a mental illness. He told me that he loves me, he does not know what happened to him, and he felt lost without me. He does not love or want to be with this woman but for some reason he said to me he could not leave her house. Someone told me that she had put something on him to keep him away from me. then i contacted this i> small>(email removed) /small> /i> who then reverse the whole thing back, and showed my boyfriend the door to escape out of her house. Our relationship is stronger than ever. He is here with me, and she moved to Jacksonville, FL. Thanks to you wizard for bringing my life back. i> small>(email removed) /small> /i> or vist http://templeoflove1.webs.com/

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (5 years, 7 months after post)

You’re lucky. I wish I could lose my fiancé. She’s a great person but has hurt me so badly over the years that everyday with her is miserable. Problem is even though her issues cause me to get hurt every day and she makes me miserable I still love her and can’t bare to leave her. I wish she would do the leaving. I could let her and that wouldn’t be quite so hard.

If any stumbles on this never get in a serious relationship with the first person you sleep with.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (5 years, 7 months after post)

hello i am very happy i can’t hide my feelings,,, for i have never seen a
great spellcaster like the great dr otuma,,, he is so real truthful
and faithful to his words,,, i am kelly reus am from hamburg in germany i
had a happy family and i was married for 15years of happy marriage life
blessed with two kids and we were so happy,,, and unfortunately my home and
marriage started to crumble it first started with me losing my job and then
my wife and i started having problems and she broke up with me and weeks later
she started asking for a divorce and i was so devastated because i loved
her so much and then i decided to contact spellcasters i contacted
spellcasters and none were able to work it for me and then i lost hope in
everything and i was almost giving up when i met a friend who came back
from a business trip in Africa and he told me about a great spellcaster who
helped him win a contract worth 50000$ and he gave me his mail as [
i> small>(email removed) /small> /i>],,, and i decided to contact him and
try him out and after narrating my ordeal to him he told me that everything
will return to as it were before and then he casted a spell and my wife
returned to me and i was once again recalled back to work and was even
promoted from a sales rep to a marketing director so guys once again here
is his mail i> small>(email removed) /small> /i> contact him on all your
problems he can help you out…
regards

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (5 years, 8 months after post)

Hey,
It’s a very sad full any person who will loosing our girl friend, I hope you are now happy. God Bless You Dear……….

Vinay Trivedi
Faceboo A/C- i> small>(email removed) /small> /i>

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Hey,
It’s a very sad full any person who will loosing our girl friend, I hope you are now happy. God Bless You Dear……….

Vinay Trivedi
Faceboo A/C- i> small>(email removed) /small> /i>

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My Name is Rita Nene I want to give thanks to a great man Dr.Shaka ( a spell caster) who has brought back happiness to my life. Dr.Shaka is really a great Man after my lover left me for 2years,i was so frustrated i almost killed myself until i got in contact with Dr.Shaka who told me that my ex will be back to me within 48Hours.At first i taught Dr.Shaka was a scam until the second day when my lover called me on phone and started begging me that he was sorry that i should forgive him and he bought me a Gold ring and wrist watch i was so happy and really believed that Dr.Shaka is really a great spell caster and not a scam like other fake spell caster who are online to add pain to your pain,Please people that need help i will love you people to contact Dr.Shaka because i can swear with my life that Dr.Shaka is a man to trust.You can contact him on his private mail i> small>(email removed) /small> /i> Name: Rita Nene

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My Name is Rita Nene I want to give thanks to a great man Dr.Shaka ( a spell caster) who has brought back happiness to my life. Dr.Shaka is really a great Man after my lover left me for 2years,i was so frustrated i almost killed myself until i got in contact with Dr.Shaka who told me that my ex will be back to me within 48Hours.At first i taught Dr.Shaka was a scam until the second day when my lover called me on phone and started begging me that he was sorry that i should forgive him and he bought me a Gold ring and wrist watch i was so happy and really believed that Dr.Shaka is really a great spell caster and not a scam like other fake spell caster who are online to add pain to your pain,Please people that need help i will love you people to contact Dr.Shaka because i can swear with my life that Dr.Shaka is a man to trust.You can contact him on his private mail i> small>(email removed) /small> /i> Name: Rita Nene

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An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (5 years, 9 months after post)

i know it’s hard but here’s what i would do: call her every week (but only once)and see how shes doing. but that’s what I’d do any ways.

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