Feel help: Everytime I see him I want to cry… and yet he makes me happy… help!

aciraelf

Everytime I see him I want to cry…

and yet he makes me happy… help!
everytime I see him I feel tears coming and pains shoot through me… he doesn’t even know I like him but… I can’t help but feel sad when I’m around him… I need help getting over him… or how to tell him…

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*yawn* 7 #
Sydney, 02, AU | 2 years, 5 months ago (6 minutes after post)

Is he in your immediate world? Like a friend, or a brother’s friend? How do you feel after you’ve been around him?

Help me with: I’m having boundary issues with one of my housemates.

aciraelf 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (13 minutes after post)

he’s one of my friends brothers and I love being around him but… I always get shy around him and… after I start to hate myself and I don’t think I’m worth him or anyone else

benten 2 #
Olympia, WA, US | 2 years, 5 months ago (19 minutes after post)

why would you think that? you seem nice and you gave good advice to the accidental bulimia girl. I think you’re worth a lot.

pink_lover_ 2 #
Brampton, ON, CA | 2 years, 5 months ago (20 minutes after post)

it seems like your in love this guy,i think…
well maybe you should avoid him if you raelly want to get over him

Help me with: i have an awfully weird quesion,when i get really mad/angrey…and after a while when I eat,it tastes all sour and bitter,

aciraelf 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (23 minutes after post)

thank you to benten… and to pink_lover_ I really do like him… it’s just… I’ve been made to think that I’m worth nothing by alot of people… family included… so it’s hard for me to think that I am worth it… and he’s a sweet person…

benten 2 #
Olympia, WA, US | 2 years, 5 months ago (27 minutes after post)

you shouldn’t believe anyone who makes you feel like you are worthless, no matter who they are. I understand being shy, but if you are nice and sweet yourself, you will enhance the lives of everyone around you, including him (sorry I feel like I’m being preachy here.. I will stop)

pink_lover_ 2 #
Brampton, ON, CA | 2 years, 5 months ago (28 minutes after post)

i think everybody deserves the person they really like, i dont think your any differnt….you shouldnt let other people’s words and comments get to you like that,belive in yourself,only you can get thru this,its all in the mind really,i hope your geting what im saying lol

Help me with: i have an awfully weird quesion,when i get really mad/angrey…and after a while when I eat,it tastes all sour and bitter,

aciraelf 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (29 minutes after post)

to benten- you don’t have to be sorry… to tell you the truth I’m actually smiling… and if you knew me that’s rare when I’m not around my friends and thanks yous so much *hugs*

aciraelf 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (30 minutes after post)

to pink_lover_- lol I am getting what your saying and you’ve helped me alot next time I hang out with him I’ll keep your advise in mind along with benten *hugs also* everyone likes hugs ^_________^

pink_lover_ 2 #
Brampton, ON, CA | 2 years, 5 months ago (32 minutes after post)

lol no problem,glad to hear your smiling! best of luck with him ;) you can do it!! yaaa!*hugs back*

Help me with: i have an awfully weird quesion,when i get really mad/angrey…and after a while when I eat,it tastes all sour and bitter,

aciraelf 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (34 minutes after post)

hehe thanks yous

benten 2 #
Olympia, WA, US | 2 years, 5 months ago (38 minutes after post)

wow I’m so glad!! *hugs* to you too and all around

aciraelf 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (38 minutes after post)

told you everyone loved hugs ^______^

ixluvxboy 2 #
Hanapepe, HI, US | 2 years, 5 months ago (2 hours, 15 minutes after post)

does ur love strong enough? love him more and more!

Help me with: Can a girl like me from Hawaii become an exchange student to Oklahoma?

aciraelf 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (12 hours, 6 minutes after post)

I’ll do that and I’m talking to him now on myspace hehe

nowheregirl 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (1 day, 10 hours after post)

Sweeeeet! Talking on myspace will help alot, hopefully he’ll be able to see how wonderful you are without you gettting nervous around him….And everytime someone says your worthless, think something that you like about yourself and tell them to go f**k off! hehehe, maybe not those words but you get me ;)

Help me with: How on EARTH does one put oneself first?

aciraelf 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (1 day, 10 hours after post)

lol I think it is helping and the only problem with the last part is I don’t swear I won’t let myself… my dad is always swearing so I won’t let myself be like him but thanks a bunch so yeah I get you ^_________^

[think peace] 2 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 2 years, 4 months ago (3 days, 12 hours after post)

well i was made to not think much of myself when i was yonger and its hard but once you look in the mirror and realize you are just as good as everyone else on the earth and that you deserve just as much you will feel so much better. Take a really good pic of you and put it on your mirror and then everyday look at it and your reflection and say “i am beautiful” soon you’ll start to realize you are amazing and that you are worth so much

Help me with: love doesn’t stop here.

aciraelf 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 4 months ago (3 days, 15 hours after post)

thanks I’ll try that ^_________^

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