life help: We wish that our child could walk, and that we can have all the major bills paid off. - Help.com

We wish that our child could walk, and that we can have all the major bills paid off.

So please someone if you can help us to see this dark storm come to pass please help us. In the name of God, please help us with our son & his needs someone please. We are not bad people we have tried helping everyone that we could in the past to this very day.

Many times we have given our time money & 100% efforts to help many people in New Jersey & here in West VA. My husband was a Vol. Firefighter for 18 yr. In New Jersey, & A Vol. EMS Squad, Chaplain / Driver, for 6 yr. In The State of New Jersey, he has done many things to help many people, every year from when he was 15 yr. of age.

My husband also started the first toy drive in Matawan Township, New Jersey, for the children within the system of the local welfare department when he was 16 yr. old as a Vol. member of Bay Shore R.E.C.A.T,.

Which was a emergency radio Org. helping people that were stuck and broke down in their cars on the highways and belt ways. Plus he has done very many food drives & clothing drives to help the poor, & much more to help his community’s and their people within the community for many years.

He has seen much pain blood also death, throughout his life and never asked for anything in return. Now all what my husband sees everyday in his life is our child suffering and having to get around on his hands & knees to get from room to room. Every night my husband sits with our child and says he is sorry that we have to live like this & someday things will get better. But I myself do not see anything getting better because life is a rocky road and we are stuck in a pot hole that we just can not get out of.

Sometime I also feel my husband is building his hopes up to much & he is going to be let down so hard in life by many people. But he just does not seem to want to grasp the truth of it. I have asked myself why is God, letting this happen to my family? When we never hurt anyone or never thought twice to help someone in need. Now we are in need and it seems that not anyone cares, I even had to take this money out of our need to pay for this ad / posting on this site. I have tried posting on other sites but all we get was scams and fake checks from people that just want to hurt us for some unknown reason.

For I do not know what to do right now & I know my husband is not doing so well at this time in life. He is so lost in the mental pains of life, I have noticed that he has become withdrawn from life and sleeps all day something is very much wrong. Now I think that he feels like less of a man not able to help out his family the way that he feels he should. Due to getting hurt and winding up disabled himself from a car accident a few years back leaving him not able to do much for his family. That is another reason why we moved here to West Va. due to the high cost of living in New Jersey, we were pushed out because we just could not afford to live in that state in where we were born.

If my husband knew I was doing this online he would not like it very much because he feels that God, will send help, but if we do not ask someone we will never receive help in any way or form from anyone. We live in a world where not to many people care & all they care about is themselves, & no one else it seems. Plus with this war that is going on & the high prices of gas & food it is getting harder on everyone to want to help someone else. Even now with all the scams and Internet crimes trying to find someone who really care about their fellow man & willing to help another soul is a task. For the last few years I have been praying for Jesus, to return so that our pain and suffering will soon be over & the world will be at peace once & for all.

So if someone has a heart & is a kind soul please “help” our son because he is such a good child & always has a smile on his face & so gentle & meek. In the spirit Jesus, why is this happening to my family & why are we falling apart? They say all the good that you do will be returned unto you, so please Jesus, help my son & husband. Please help us out of this pit of disappear & sorrow by sending forth angels to comfort my family in our hour of need.

My son has a web site that my husband’s church has provided we do not get any donations on it but three people on Digitalchairty.com had given us the total of $11.00 dollars within the months I have been posing a add for help there. Bless their kind souls for willing to help us it may seem so little but that $11.00 dollars is like a $11,000.00 dollars right now. This cost of posting this ad / plea for help that you see here for three months will set us back alot. Because after paying all the bills or part of them for the house cost and buying a little food we only have $48.00 dollars in our free checking banks account to last the rest of the month.

Unless my oldest son of the four children can find a job fast we are going to be lost in this life. The medical bills for my child will have to sit on the back burner because the are well over $350,000.00 dollars to date and the other out standing cost it has cost us to care for our son for the last 13 years is well over $198,000.00 at this point. We do not know what to do we are lost and getting deeper and deeper over our heads.

Sorry for hurting your eyes with all this type but I do need some way to vent my feelings to someone or just maybe everyone. Here is the web site for my son: www.spiritualawakings.com Pastor Thomas R. McCarthy II, said to call it the Frankie’s Special Needs Fund Site. They have placed some type of link to on line shopping where I think a $1.95 of every sale will go to my sons needs. Please I am not here to use my son as away to make money & we are really in need of some type of assistance very soon. Pastor Mcarthy II, and the trustees said if they only had funding they would be more then glad to help my family because my husband helped established the church when we lived in New Jersey and was a founding member & the Pastor for many years. The Church come together within each other’s homes because they can not afford to even get a building at this time. But they get the word out that is all that counts because Jesus, never has a building he had an open-air ministries as the bible tell us.

Thank You

Sincerely

Tina Marie,

PS: To this very day my husband never gave up his hope in God, and he is still helping others before he ever helps himself. As many has done before him under the heavenly Grace of Jesus Christ,.

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