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omg… bj forever is looking for gay men? when you say free, do you mean available or ones that don’t charge?

sweetheart… you need to move to California, or New York… you are wasting away in St. Louis MO.

Second Life or IMVU, if you’re looking online. Great for meeting people regardless of your sexuality.

go to a gay bar!

Ditto.
Ditto.
Ditto.

I was not aware that most gay men came with a price tag, though. Would you consider getting into a relationship with soemone….?

I want to know how to find and date other gay men in my town without going the bar club route how to spot them and subtlely inquire to find out if they’re just as interested in dating me as a gay man

Develop your Gaydar, it rocks.

only once did I ever feel anything like gaydar think it’s a myth so if it’s real teachit to me ok

I’ve got it. Just pay attention to gay guys, and if you see someone else do the things they do, chances are they’re gay too. Don’t worry if you don’t get it right away, it takes time, and gets better the longer you use it.

the only time I felt anything akin to gaydar was a man that came to my house and after talking for a few minutes asked him straight out if he was gay then we dated and came back to my place No other time did I ever get thqat feeling I first met.if that were the case I should have them for frequently then right but I haven’t

It’s by no means foolproof, but it’s a good guide to go by. If you don’t want to use it, or can’t, it’s no big deal. I’m sure there are other ways.

how can I let other gays know then that I’m approachable and get results when I was younger and boyish I got hit on constantly by other men but that was then and I’m not as innocent anymore and don’t get hit on anymore

That is up to you. It depends on what sort you’re looking to attract.

when I asked the only guy out I could feel he woiuld be receptive only because we were both relaxed and receptive to each other so I felt safe enough to ask him but when I’m out I’m not as relaxed as I would be at home

once when we go out together I feel relaxed enough to show affection towards him in public it’s the first contact I get all wound up about that even if I have gaydar it would get snarlrd up in the stress of the moment

Just learn to relax, it shouldn’t be a chore, you should enjoy it.

some people don’t live anywhere near a gay bar and others aren’t into that scene
think your being cynical

the gay bar, the gay bar, the gay bar, the GAY bar!!!!

at the gay bar!

ur a superstar!

at the gay bar gay bar gay bar!