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i am mary.i am 14 and i feel so lonely.my friends are on holidays,my family is so small and i am lonely…

so lonely…it is a bad feeling..i dont know what i can do whith it, but i am despairing. i think my life hasnt any aim…i think life is only game, and i cant play this hard,funny game…game over

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Anonymous #
2 years, 4 months ago (8 minutes after post)

yeah you’re just bored.
i get that feeling.

lexi161 offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Cappyroe, 23, IE | 2 years, 4 months ago (11 minutes after post)

you just need to find something to do wit yourself

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gerhardt.gregor offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Reinach, 01, CH | 2 years, 4 months ago (12 minutes after post)

dear mary. sometimes life isn’t good at all. Don’t give up on yourself. You’ll find much brighter days ahead. Just go out and find somebody to talk! Cheers Greg

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Richard Cor de Lyon offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 4 months ago (17 minutes after post)

OMG… Mary, get off your a ss and go for a walk… or better yet a bike ride. Get some endorphins flowing child… and you’ll feel better. After that go to the nearest movie theatre, and make some NEW friends.

Either that or sit there, playing your hard, funny game.

Game Over
Richard

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DoubleO offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Sayreville, NJ, US | 2 years, 4 months ago (19 minutes after post)

Hi Mary. I’m sorry you are lonely. Why don’t you go out? Walk, bike, rollerblade. Anything. Is there a park near you? You are only 14. There are going to be plenty of times where you are bored.
When my daughter (she’s 15) tells me she is bored I tell her to go read a book. Then she finds something else to do.
So - Go read a book.

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M.J offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
CA | 2 years, 4 months ago (53 minutes after post)

hey mary
everyone feels lonely sometimes
i know i’ve felt it….
almost everyone has and its a sucky feeling and it makes u feel like nothings worth your time and everything sucks
but really your going to have to overcome it and do something about it: if al your friends are away, then go and walk somewhere. it doesn’t matter where: the best is to just walk to an unknown destination where you’ve never been before and just think for a while
or go and talk to different people you’ve met
my friends are also all on holiday i have 3 friends here…and 2 of them are also leaving for the summer
try to do something with your time and it will probably make u feel better
go try something new~!

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Richard Cor de Lyon offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 4 months ago (2 hours, 8 minutes after post)

Mary… I apologize for the tone of my previous post. I sometimes see the changes that have taken place in our youth and get frustrated. My advise remains the same however. When I was your age, video games were not the big deal they are today. You had go to the arcade to play any decent games… and so you needed money for that. Who has money at 14? Not many. Anyway… bordom is more and more a product of our current “me” generation. And the way I see it, that is a choice.

But your loneliness is causeing you a slight depression, which is not good. Exercise is an EXCELLENT way to counter that. To go out for a nice brisk walk, in the fresh air… your endorphines will start pumping… and I promise you’ll feel better. Again, I apologize for being an a ss.
Bright blessings~
Richard

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jesialva offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Stockton, CA, US | 2 years, 4 months ago (4 hours, 20 minutes after post)

Hi Mary you know reading always helped me, anything from magazines or a good book. You will make new friends soon, dont worry, and, you have internet and there are a lot of cool games you can play online.

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Berwyn, IL, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (6 months after post)

i will sarte with nice people than mean people

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