Call help: what am i suppose to do if my dad calls me and gets drunk all the time and Knocks me about ? - Help.com

no i cant

I don’t know where you live so I am not sure what people to say to talk to. the one thing that might be worth doing is speaking to a teacher if you are still at school and have a nice one at your school. it doesn’t have to be your teacher just one you think is ok.

i am 13 i go to a consellor but she doesnt understand

how did you get a counsellor did you go to them or were you sent?

i went to her she said maybe it would be a good idia if we got someone to come in to my family to sort things out but i talked to my mum about it and she went mad at me .. nothing is goin to work

I know that you will probably “love” your dad when he does’nt get drunk and you are probably scared for your mum as well, is it only you who dad gets like this with or mum as well? do you have any brothers or sisters?

sorry I lost my internet for a minuite then did you send a reply? I didn’t get it

i have one brother and one sister my dad is nice to my brother my sister is 16 and stays at her boyfriends all the time my dad says that i am useless and i dont have no life and my mum says my brother is her best they call me all the time i try not to show my feelings but i started crying when he called me he hit me in my arm and then pushed his fingers agenst my face he says i am soft and no wonder i get bullied at school and i am nothing like him

I think that’s awful but what are we going to do about it? firstly I don’t think your dad is coping with things very well and that is probably why he drinks too much. that’s not an excuse cos he shouldn’t be like that. Second why do you think your sister stays out of the way all the time at her boyfriends? perhaps she had the same problems when she was your age. being 13 is tough enough without being bullied at school and at home and that’s what’s happening at the moment so you’ve somehow got to get up the courage to do something about it. I know that sounds hard but you did have the courage to go to the counsellor so you can do it. you need to look at each thing seperatly. first is the school doing anything about the bullying? is it just at school?

my internet is rubbish and I keep losing you are you still there?

yes x

did you send a reply? can you tell me what country you are in I don’t want to know any more

yes i live in england

is the school doing anything about the bullying? is it just at school?

at home to

i will try and get out of the house to a phone box

ok the number Thepp has given is worth a call. Schools are supposed to take bullying seriously but I know they are not always very good at it is your mum very supportive when dads not about?

i will i am going now THANKYOU for your suport x

will be thinking of you.

he was ok last night but this moring when i got up he pushed my head aganist the wall he gets mad i remember when i was a little child he put my head in grass and forced food down me he showed me up in public and now he has took all my confidence away. my mum doesnt do anything its just the looks she bangs doors on me. my dada says its all my folt that he hates his life and when my mum and dad argue.my mum tells my dad things about me and then my dad comes at me. i wont him to stop drinking and to stop being so stressed. because i was ready for running away i packed my bags and wrote a letter, i wonted ride i hate my dad so much but sometimes he can be so nice that is what scares me i cant handle things well. i break down easy. its all my folt if im not happy, its my folt i get bullied ,its my folt im ugly, its my folt that no one likes me.

its ok i will use the websites thanks x