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The usual things to do, call the police, social services and child protection agancies. If you just let it happen and do nothing about it. It will never stop and will most likely get worse over time.
If you cant do any of the above, can you tell us how we can help you? We would like to if we can.
I don’t know where you live so I am not sure what people to say to talk to. the one thing that might be worth doing is speaking to a teacher if you are still at school and have a nice one at your school. it doesn’t have to be your teacher just one you think is ok.
i am 13 i go to a consellor but she doesnt understand
how did you get a counsellor did you go to them or were you sent?
i went to her she said maybe it would be a good idia if we got someone to come in to my family to sort things out but i talked to my mum about it and she went mad at me .. nothing is goin to work
It is obvious that you need help, but we have to know what you would like us to do. We have to keep to lawfull ways and advise you with that in mind.
I know that you will probably “love” your dad when he does’nt get drunk and you are probably scared for your mum as well, is it only you who dad gets like this with or mum as well? do you have any brothers or sisters?
sorry I lost my internet for a minuite then did you send a reply? I didn’t get it
i have one brother and one sister my dad is nice to my brother my sister is 16 and stays at her boyfriends all the time my dad says that i am useless and i dont have no life and my mum says my brother is her best they call me all the time i try not to show my feelings but i started crying when he called me he hit me in my arm and then pushed his fingers agenst my face he says i am soft and no wonder i get bullied at school and i am nothing like him
You should try to get in touch with social services agencies in your country. They can and will help you and protect you from the bullying from all around you. They have the powers to keep you safe and take into account your own wishes as well.
It is hard to do I know but please do give it a try.
I think that’s awful but what are we going to do about it? firstly I don’t think your dad is coping with things very well and that is probably why he drinks too much. that’s not an excuse cos he shouldn’t be like that. Second why do you think your sister stays out of the way all the time at her boyfriends? perhaps she had the same problems when she was your age. being 13 is tough enough without being bullied at school and at home and that’s what’s happening at the moment so you’ve somehow got to get up the courage to do something about it. I know that sounds hard but you did have the courage to go to the counsellor so you can do it. you need to look at each thing seperatly. first is the school doing anything about the bullying? is it just at school?
my internet is rubbish and I keep losing you are you still there?
did you send a reply? can you tell me what country you are in I don’t want to know any more
I have a free phone number for you to call if you are in england it is Child Helpline 0800 1111. This is the international website http://www.childhelplineinternational…
is the school doing anything about the bullying? is it just at school?
Can you phone or visit the above?
i will try and get out of the house to a phone box
That is brave of you. Please try to do that as soon as you can. Let us know how you get on.
ok the number Thepp has given is worth a call. Schools are supposed to take bullying seriously but I know they are not always very good at it is your mum very supportive when dads not about?
i will i am going now THANKYOU for your suport x
will be thinking of you.
Goodnight Anonymous. I am signing off now but I will check this post in the morning. I hope your problem has now been sorted out.
he was ok last night but this moring when i got up he pushed my head aganist the wall he gets mad i remember when i was a little child he put my head in grass and forced food down me he showed me up in public and now he has took all my confidence away. my mum doesnt do anything its just the looks she bangs doors on me. my dada says its all my folt that he hates his life and when my mum and dad argue.my mum tells my dad things about me and then my dad comes at me. i wont him to stop drinking and to stop being so stressed. because i was ready for running away i packed my bags and wrote a letter, i wonted ride i hate my dad so much but sometimes he can be so nice that is what scares me i cant handle things well. i break down easy. its all my folt if im not happy, its my folt i get bullied ,its my folt im ugly, its my folt that no one likes me.
OK Anonymous, I cant help you any more. If you cant or wont use the above opptions that have been given to you, I have no other advice that I can give.
Go to this website http://www.childhelpline.org/helpline… and scroll down to the UK list. Then try out each one in turn.
its ok i will use the websites thanks x
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