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What are you unhappy about?
happiness is all around but outside of you……the question is what is keeping it out?
I guess my self, I arrived to this country two years ago, I am an emigrant and that has a price. I feel like I’m in jail, my own body, and what it used to be a relief, it isn’t anymore. I can not go to visit my parents or friends, but I knew it was going to happen, when I decided to come. The isolation, now I’m also worried becuase I will take a medical test on this week, and te result could be dangerous, then is the sensation to be lonely, and I know I am strong , I can deal with that……and so what.
why are you feeling isolated? If your spoken english is anywhere near your written English you should be out making friends. What are you getting tested for? If there is recovery time involved, come on here and you won’t feel so isolated. What do you think?
Yeah i can understand how u feel coz i came to a new city for studies.It was awful, I dont know the gains yet but there were more pains. I wish i had stayed back.If u feel like crying, cry aloud in ur room, when u r done ,go outside to a market place, a shopping area, a place whre there is croud so that u dont feel as isolated and lonely. Best of luck!
Sounds to me as if you are feeing loney and isolated because you have yet to make new friends and feel comfortable in your new situation.
Maybe you are shy and lacking a little in self confidence at present.
Feeling lonely and anxious is very very common.
Perhaps you simly need to overcome shyness and start feeling more confident.
I suggest visiting www.overcomeshynessnow.com where you can get a free email course on overcoming shyness and building your self esteem.
The course is short simple and free. You have nothing to lose and maybe it is just what you need to give your self confidence a boost.
Hope you are feeling happier about life soon.
Hey!Sometimes I feel that too.But I aways believe I can,not just I know.Only you can know how to make yourself happy.
I don’t kno why im so unhappy lately ! People have said to me that i have changed !!!
and my friends don’t seem to like me as much as they used to. what should i do ?!
HELP ME PLEASE !
I want to be happy but i cant, i dont want anynone to help me coz i know that no one can help me , god only can help me, sorry for disturbing you when you read this writing but at this moment i feel lonely and i want to express my feeling.
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I wanna be happy but i couldn’t why i don’t know..
There is something missing in my life.. Turant darr jata hoon..
Turant kisi ko apna maan leta hoon.. aur phir chot lagti ho to saham jaata hoon…
main Kya karoon
Well I found this because I don’t have any one to get out of the house with and do something today. I too am sick and hate to hear the doctors say what they need to say especially don’t do this or don’t do that so I hear you and boy can I relate. I love to push myself to get one more thrill or one more wahoo! I am so far away from any one and the public transportation is less than helpful I am here for another 36 days I hope that is all I do have something to look forward to that is for me the best way to find happiness. Go see a local venue and meet at least one person that will be able to go some where do something. Good luck and remember life is too short to wonder what to do next just pick your self up dust your self off and live.
happiness is every where..the problem when darkness come and it feels like everything is bad u go on the baddest mood..but u have many chances to be happy..happiness comes when u feel free with ur friends just think about what makes u happy and do it even if its insane as hell.Everything comes but just think about today not about yesterday or tomorrow..today is something new..keep ur mind away of worries..believe in god :) will make ur soul proud will make ur heart change!God could make anything if today someone broke ur heart believe that god knows where’s the right one that fits exactly with ur soul & heart :).I will talk about someone who broke my heart..he didnt mean it but he loved my best friend :) i used to like him in everything but he used to like her in everything :) after all of this i still love him BUT he’s only close friend its just at first when i knew they’re dating i was shocked..second day i found i have to be with them both..and i pray to god that they will be happy till the day they die..I Only want someone like him to put him in my heart for ever :)..by the way i only came here to tell u guys..no one lives it > Paradise u have to be broken one day..everything goes and comes and nothing stays the same :) dont be sad about what happend one day believe u will be the most happy person in this earth :) everything goes on :) its a life = its a game :) u have to win in it before u lose u have to make the perfect step !! :) happiness is over there no misrable anymore :) believe in everything .. in urself but 1st in GOD :) and yeah life goes on as it never ends =) .. it has an ending but end it in a happiness life,love everything :) i hope that god will stay with me and give me that right one 3 :)
i wants to be happy .. wants to live my life with my inlaws family ,husband new enviornment,s people .. but can’t st5ill not i left my horrible stories .. rude and selfish people but cant’t they break my trust to any one.. still i am feeling i am suffering from mental problem .i never speak my past to any body yet but sorry God i am not living the happiness which given by u .. really i wants to cofesss myself but i don’t have trust to anyone …
my new family is not up of that level to understand my problem … but they are good people .i am a newly married woman and my husband live far away me . he works in western country … he is good . but hardly we spend great time with each other .. now he is on leave … after marrige its being a staying 1 and 1/2 month but still i am not able to make impression to him as well as to my mother in law .. my attitude become childish to make them happy ..
God I wants to live my each and every moment of life happly and as well wants to make my enviornment happy …
Allow me to share my view which could be of use to you:
We all do every action for happiness, even blinking. Perhaps we are not aware why we’re doing it, and if we remembered that, we’d gradually be more selective in our choices. Wouldn’t we choose only the path that leads to happiness? Calm thinking is needed for that. Please see more of this discussion with stories on happiness at:
Thank you for reading!
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