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I want to be happy, I know I can be happy, but I’m not.

At least peace.

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candp offline Verified User (3 years) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 114 Add Friend #
Las Vegas, NV, US | 2 years, 4 months ago (23 minutes after post)

What are you unhappy about?

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candyraind offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 Add Friend #
NY, US | 2 years, 4 months ago (24 minutes after post)

happiness is all around but outside of you……the question is what is keeping it out?

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hola127 offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 Add Friend #
US | 2 years, 4 months ago (7 hours, 22 minutes after post)

I guess my self, I arrived to this country two years ago, I am an emigrant and that has a price. I feel like I’m in jail, my own body, and what it used to be a relief, it isn’t anymore. I can not go to visit my parents or friends, but I knew it was going to happen, when I decided to come. The isolation, now I’m also worried becuase I will take a medical test on this week, and te result could be dangerous, then is the sensation to be lonely, and I know I am strong , I can deal with that……and so what.

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candp offline Verified User (3 years) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 114 Add Friend #
Las Vegas, NV, US | 2 years, 4 months ago (23 hours, 48 minutes after post)

why are you feeling isolated? If your spoken english is anywhere near your written English you should be out making friends. What are you getting tested for? If there is recovery time involved, come on here and you won’t feel so isolated. What do you think?

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odequia offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (1 year, 11 months after post)

Yeah i can understand how u feel coz i came to a new city for studies.It was awful, I dont know the gains yet but there were more pains. I wish i had stayed back.If u feel like crying, cry aloud in ur room, when u r done ,go outside to a market place, a shopping area, a place whre there is croud so that u dont feel as isolated and lonely. Best of luck!

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Jonatha offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (2 years after post)

Sounds to me as if you are feeing loney and isolated because you have yet to make new friends and feel comfortable in your new situation.
Maybe you are shy and lacking a little in self confidence at present.
Feeling lonely and anxious is very very common.
Perhaps you simly need to overcome shyness and start feeling more confident.
I suggest visiting www.overcomeshynessnow.com where you can get a free email course on overcoming shyness and building your self esteem.
The course is short simple and free. You have nothing to lose and maybe it is just what you need to give your self confidence a boost.
Hope you are feeling happier about life soon.

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