life help: well im in a bad state of affairs. - Help.com

Do what you need to! Fnd the strength and confront your family, you’re young and have plenty of time to work for the family again. But you won’t have the oportunity to be young and relatively carefree again, I know how much dublin sucks and I know how much it sucks to be working fulltime at our age, just do it! Keep yourself happy!And if your family love you (and I’m sure they do) they’ll be happy with that.

Do you want to continue the same course? If you have a degree you wil be paid more for one thing, and no human will say thats stupid. You don’t have to specify whether you want to be an estate agent or not, It doesnt need to be about that. I’m sure you’ll insult them by saying you dont want to be in the family company, tell them what you do want.
They may not want to go back to supporting you financially so you may have to work part time somwhere or another to support yourself. I can understand that even if you wanted to be an estate agent, why would you want to start what you could be doing for the rest of your life at such a young age, so maybe they’d understand that too. Tell them your gona quit but will come back once you’ve qualified, IF you feel the truth will cause more trouble then good. That way you might protect their feelings.

you said what you are doing is a good start to life right? but you want to party? well, wouldn’t it be better to keep your eye on the prize? why can’t you take a holiday time let your hair down so to speak and then get back on the horse? if what your doing is not exciting, find a way to make it be, and take some time to have a good time every now and then so you don’t get so bitter. Good luck!!

No problem, Best of luck!!

Wow, I think you have taken on a lot. To work and then go to school at night can be extremely exhusting and hardly allows for time to do anything else.

I can understand why you now hate it. I think you need a vacation…a holiday! I don’t know if you can work that out but sometimes for our sanity we have to do what seems impossible if we are to go on.

My advise is to always seek happiness even if that happiness will only be temporary.

*hugs*