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you mean he is abusive?

hey there just stay back and she does know how you feel that is all you can do but keep an ear out and wait like man and be there if she needs a shoulder to cry on and if he hits her he will serve time pending the depth of the abuse just do the right thing and call the police dont be stupid and try and take things into your own hands

cause with him out of the picture for being abusive that gives you time to get to know her and let her know the softer side of you

violence is never the answer man. shake a hand instead of a fist

It’s not your problem. It’s not your relationship. If there is some domestic violence or abuse, report it. Once you tell her you suspect he is manipulative and controlling, respect that she has a mind, heart and will of her own (even if it doesn’t appear that way), and back out of the situation. For all you know, he may be doing the 15-20.

humen are not logical, females being the least.

you’re done with her.

go get some chocolate milk

Pauleebray,
Can I be honest with you for a second?

I understand how you feel and I really understand that you are only looking out for her.
But, how would you feel if someone came and mingled in your relationship when they had no right too?

In my opinion, you would be pissed. It happened to me, and I’ll never forgive those that did. I don’t usually hate people, but trust me, I won’t cry if something bad happens to them either.

Be supportive, and be a friend. But you need to stay within your bounderies that she’s drawn.

Be smart about it.
Do onto others as you would have done onto you ;)

Then, please be carefull. Ok.

If you truly love her, stand by her side, but don’t beat her bf up.. ALl that will do is make her have more sympathy for him and hatred directed at you

Oookay.

Yesterday I went to the police to file a report on a man who is insanely protective of the woman I’m dating. He has threatened to hurt me, claiming I’m abusive, controlling and manipulative, despite the fact both this woman and I have made statements clearly indicating that the man’s behavior is psychotic, and his delusions of being her “protector” have nothing to do with reality, and his attentions are unwanted.

Back off that crap, and go see a counselor about it.

Paulee, Don’t worry …
You do what you think is right. Ok?

All we’re here for is to offer some advise. No need to apologize.
Like I said though, just be careful ;)

Good luck