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HELP!

I live with my boyfriend of 3 yrs & we are just about to get a mortgage together. However I just don’t trust him!!! I think he is sleeping with someone else behind my back, I have recently seen that he paid for a travel lodge but he swears it was for his friend. Previously I have also found texts off other girls on his phone. What do you think??

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KT1 offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
San Francisco, CA, US | 2 years, 4 months ago (1 minute after post)

Do not buy real estate with a person you do not trust.

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jib00 offline Unverified User #
Kimberling City, MO, US | 2 years, 4 months ago (2 minutes after post)

I wouldn’t make assumptions this early, maybe you can hold off the mortgage until you get more info.
Maybe when you have more proof of him cheating, you should confront.

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nothx offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 4 months ago (2 minutes after post)

Either he IS cheating, or you’re just paranoid. And KT1 is absolutely right, I wouldn’t do that with someone I didn’t trust.

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natalie69 offline Unverified User #
GB | 2 years, 4 months ago (6 minutes after post)

How would i confront him? As i should not have been checking his things?

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Marc (Sec) offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 4 months ago (34 minutes after post)

If you don’t trust him, don’t deal with him.

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msadberr offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 2 years, 4 months ago (17 hours after post)

I think he is cheating and not covering his tracks me think they slick but if you have gut feelin he’s cheating then he is

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