guy help: I recently confronted my girlfriend of 8 months that i think that she has been seeing other guys behind my back.

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I recently confronted my girlfriend of 8 months that i think that she has been seeing other guys behind my back.

I don’t have any solid evidence, but i’m almost sure it is going on. I talked about it on the phone and we didn’t break up but we ended the phone conversation on some pretty bad terms. My question is, when i talk to her next should i pretend that nothing happened or shoud i still be angery? Basically i want to know how i should act with her.

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*yawn* 7 #
Sydney, 02, AU | 5 years, 10 months ago (2 minutes after post)

How did she react when you asked her? Was she defensive? Angry and offended?

Maybe when you talk to her, say “this is what i’m feeling, this feeling led me to thoughts that you may be cheating on me. I’m feeling something isn’t right, if it’s not this, is there anything you be telling me

Help me with: I’m having boundary issues with one of my housemates.

*yawn* 7 #
Sydney, 02, AU | 5 years, 10 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Don’t ignore the elephant in the room.

Help me with: I’m having boundary issues with one of my housemates.

space_moon_sun 1 #
Ashtabula, OH, US | 5 years, 10 months ago (5 minutes after post)

her reaction was kind of angery… she said “I can’t believe you don’t trust me” But she talked in circles the whole time. Her stories made no sence.

Oster: Gettin' It. 1 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 5 years, 10 months ago (5 minutes after post)

How about telling us why you think she’s seeing other guys?

Saggezza 4 #
Vancouver, BC, CA | 5 years, 10 months ago (6 minutes after post)

NO and NO! (re “should act like nothing happened” and “should I still be angry”).

Tell her you’re sorry that you upset her. *period*. And you need to understand what is going on. Be civil and mature, but don’t get angry because very little will be accomplished, except more fighting and hurt feelings.

I know that it sux, I’ve gone through the same experience, and it sux.

Help me with: Is lying necessary?

space_moon_sun 1 #
Ashtabula, OH, US | 5 years, 10 months ago (8 minutes after post)

to oster: she snuk out to “talk” people. her mom also told me she has been up at 2am talking to guys.. and guys tell me she has been seeing them.

Oster: Gettin' It. 1 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 5 years, 10 months ago (17 minutes after post)

Leave her.

*yawn* 7 #
Sydney, 02, AU | 5 years, 10 months ago (20 minutes after post)

You deserve better. You deserve someone who would at least be honest with you.

Help me with: I’m having boundary issues with one of my housemates.

space_moon_sun 1 #
Ashtabula, OH, US | 5 years, 10 months ago (27 minutes after post)

yeah maybe… thanks everyone

Oster: Gettin' It. 1 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 5 years, 10 months ago (30 minutes after post)

What are you going to do? Spank her so she doesn’t do it again?

Richard Cor de Lyon 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 10 months ago (3 hours, 56 minutes after post)

Spanking in a relationship is not a punishment Oster… it’s foreplay!

I gotta echo the latest sediments here though… and Oster hit the nail on the head… leave her! That sounded like pretty solid evidence to me… and the woman first DID it… then LIED about it, THEN tried to make you feel guilty by fighting about it with you! She wouldn’t be worth MY time.

Help me with: Can someone please tell me why my life sucks?

jlo42 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 6 months ago (2 years, 4 months after post)

get rid of the ****

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