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I just lost my girlfriend of 1 year and 5 months.

okay,
So this is true my story and I need help from you guys out there. Okay so the beginning of 2005 my freshman year we started out as good friends. We progressed as friends never mentioning us going out or anything of that nature then things kicked up eventually in March 2006 of my freshman year we started going out. We were amazing. We did everything a couple should do, communicate, have fun, have freedom, talk on the phone, online, hung out twice a week maybe more. Then the fights began about 8 9 months into our relationship. I mean we started fighting every day it seemed. Then in December 2006 my sophmore year we broke up. However we talked on the phone and i was clingy and she wasnt. She went out . I stayed at home. A few days later we started going back out. We started out great I did all the things she wanted me to do and she did the same that I requested. We were good for about two three months then broke up. Talking on the phone again then started going back out maybe a day or so later and have been since then. But now all we did was fight and fight but its not about stupid stuff. Its about she cheated on me, I have a life threatening thing happening to me she thinks when i know its not true but have drug the story on so long I cant tell her the truth. She cries at nigth and I cry. But I want her. I know she is the one!! I am positive. She is just not the same and her friends agree with ehr. I need some advice

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- Fourthings™ - offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Ballinteer, 07, IE | 2 years, 4 months ago (7 minutes after post)

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sully06 offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 4 months ago (40 minutes after post)

ouch. bummer man

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Oster: Gettin' It. offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 2 years, 4 months ago (56 minutes after post)

Oh, sounds like a counseling situation. Head for the school counselor’s office and start talking. I think there’s some expectations you two don’t know you’re carrying, the whole cheating thing and life-threating whatever… control issues, sounds like. If you can’t get over the cheating, then forget it. She’s not the one. Deal with your own issues, and be a better man, whether she’s in your life or not.

Something has to change, and you haven’t been able to figure it out in your own head, or between each other. That’s when it’s a good time to go outside yourself and the relationship to get some perspective and guidance.

Good for you for coming here and asking. You obviously care about this relationship.

In fact, it might help if you two just find that place in your hearts where you love each other, and work from that. You two CAN choose to have a good time, not argue and fight, and make the most the moment — which is all you really have.

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