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I really need help to get over my ex boyfriend.

we split up about 2 months ago and I still cant help thinking about him all the time. I even tried seeing someone else but I have just been really paranoid with him and clingy and im not normally like this. Please help because I am going mad!!

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- Fourthings™ - offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Ballinteer, 07, IE | 2 years, 4 months ago (1 hour, 4 minutes after post)

Hope this helps somewhat http://www.wikihow.com/Get-over-Your-…

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WantMore offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 4 months ago (2 hours, 28 minutes after post)

Wow fourthings, I never knew there was a wikihow…what an awsome site!

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Ballinteer, 07, IE | 2 years, 4 months ago (2 hours, 29 minutes after post)

Niether did I ;) just found it

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mondosmusic offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 2 years, 4 months ago (3 hours, 8 minutes after post)

Theres alot of things that you can do. I always help people out with these kinds of problems. The best solution is to really look at things in the third perspective. When you do that, you realize alot of things about yourself. But you have to take this seriously. Have someone help you do this. Its always a good way of learning more about how you are and what went wrong and all. Remember one thing…….Love is just a word! Yes its also a feeling, but when you think about it, its just a word. Its what we as people, who from the beginning of time gave it its meaning, make this so hard to live with or without. In my opninion its a definition of two things. Love of the mind and Love of the heart. If you try to really be strong and liberated of the word, always remember to let the mind control the word and not let the heart control your mind. Basically put, dont let your heart feel like love can control your heart. Let your mind control it. When you do that, you will realize that you know how to control your feelings about anything, including love! I never let my heart overrule my mind and i let my mind be the judge of how i feel and what love means. Theres many different feelings and emotions to the word love, but this is in reference to love that you have for another person in the sense of a relationship, not family. So dont get it confused! Remember, things dont happen overnight. It takes time to be strong and understand this. But as they say, with time all pain will heel. Take care of yourself and really digest what i wrote.

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Bristol, B7, GB | 2 years, 4 months ago (4 hours, 3 minutes after post)

I wish I could offer some advice but I’m going through the same thing. My heart goes out to you and I’m hoping you find some peace. I’ve taken comfort from mondomusic’s post. I know (s)he’s right.

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lousracing200 offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Los Angeles, CA, US | 2 years, 4 months ago (12 hours, 41 minutes after post)

Start by sending me your picture and we will let all the other people give you advise. Where u located at? I have a single freind who is an insurance broker want to meet him. He is a little bit of a tightwad but has money.

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