lost help: i’ve lost everything that ever meaned anything to me including i think my faith. - Help.com

Sounds like you’re going through a really hard time? Can I help at all?

You can’t loose your faith… you can’t have your faith taken from you … you turn away from your faith. I’m sorry to hear of your losses, why do you think it happened to you?

How many times have I raised my hand to the sky cursing God for his sick sense of judgement and fairness?! Many!

If you have lost your faith perhaps it is your God/Religion that is messed up. A religion/Faith should help you in times of trouble and be there for you in the good times. It should help you in your marriage, raising children, with the loss of these as well.

I have been so low in my past with nothing but my clothes that I had on. Suicide was a common thought in those days, but many many years later I am glad I didn’t off myself even though it felt like a viable solution at the time.

The good times will come again my friend, just hang in there and maybe try studying up on some new faith ~smiles~.

It’s a good thing that God never loses faith in you. This is when he is carrying you.

why can’t God just be my magic genie,,granting all my wishes?…God is SOO unfair.

buck up little camper, at least your not a 12 year old burn victim, or a quadraplegic..but I guess you have every right to complain,

Most of what we loose is what we give up on. Please remember when you are feeling like giving up that is a probably a good time to simply rest so you can return to your effort fresh and renewed.

boy oh boy, do i know how you feel!
it’s hard, messy, exruciating, and long.but you can work it out and get your life back.

I had “a flow” for many years, then everything went upside down. I lost “everything”, which wasn’t true because I had the most important, my kids. But I had to feed them and dress them, having nothing and I was really low. I saved my mind by “stepping out” of myself, curiously looking from outside. “How can so much sh** happent to one single person? At least from here, all changes could only be for the better!”

But I was wrong, it could be MUCH worse, and it became much worse. Friends and relatives pitied me and asked: “How can you be so happy, with so much sh** happening to you?” But I was not at all happy, I ’survived’ only because I could look at it from a distance. And sometimes I even had to laugh at it, because I was so unbelievable unlucky. It was like watching an exciting reality show. (who needs faked ones?).

And things eventually changed. I have a good job. My kids are feeling well and are doing good. I don’t have to see my ex-wife (I neither risk to meet her in an afterlife, because I don’t think we are going in the same direction…).
My friends are living a long way from here, but I’m not looking for new friends yet. (I will get new friends anyway, I’m not busy in having groupies hanging around, lol…). But I will rather nurse those friends I have, despite the distance.