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How do I find out if my boyfriend is married?

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Mï†z¥-superMODel 3 #
Tullahoma, TN, US | 2 years, 4 months ago (2 minutes after post)

Ask him.

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cady 1 #
San Francisco, CA, US | 2 years, 4 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Pretty much what I was going to say.

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rtt06 3 #
US | 2 years, 4 months ago (6 minutes after post)

me too

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cady 1 #
San Francisco, CA, US | 2 years, 4 months ago (7 minutes after post)

And generally it’s a good idea to find out if the guy you are interested in is married BEFORE you start going out. This will prevent the entire problem. Might want to keep that in mind.

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alicebelair 0 #
Showell, MD, US | 2 years, 4 months ago (8 minutes after post)

Yes, I would ask him too, but I would go a little further than that. Ask to meet his family…friends..that will tell you if he is hiding something. If he isn’t married than he will want you to meet his friends and family..
Best of luck to you!

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nIA6 11 #
Homestead, FL, US | 2 years, 4 months ago (19 minutes after post)

How long have you been with him and what would make you think he is married

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tom.the.fis #
Eden Prairie, MN, US | 2 years, 4 months ago (1 hour, 11 minutes after post)

From a married man - some clues might be;

- if he doesn’t hang out with you at his house
- check the phonebook and see who’s listed for his address, or check www.switchboard.com for his address, name, or phone number
- ask his neighbors
- does he wear a wedding ring, or have an indentation where a ring should be, or a tan mark where his wedding ring would be
- ask him if he is
- or if you want to be really sneaky have one of your friends call his phone and ask for Mrs. so and so, and if he says, “no” ask when she’d be available to talk.

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CrackHacky 1 #
Mill Hall, PA, US | 2 years, 4 months ago (1 hour, 27 minutes after post)

first of all, what makes you think that? why instead of asking if he is cheating, you ask if he is maried?

if I thought my guy was married. (not cheating) married. lol. i would sit him down and seriously tell him that i was married. (i would say it was stupid and i was going through the divorce process) then i would see if he said “hey, me too” lol.

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 4 months ago (1 hour, 46 minutes after post)

i agree with tom.the.fis

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OccultPizz 2 #
Spokane, WA, US | 2 years, 4 months ago (1 hour, 53 minutes after post)

Check his wedding finger for a tan line where a wedding band would be ~winks~. And yes ask him ~smiles~, if he lies it is on him, or you could always hire a cheap private detective ~shrugs~.

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 4 months ago (13 hours, 3 minutes after post)

some guys are just soooo good in lying.
hmmm has he introduced u to his friends?
or family?
have u gone to his home?
have u looked at some albums?

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (1 year, 5 months after post)

gosh i really need help with this too
ok
i dont have a house number cause its suposedly a long distance
number for his work in another porvince
ive never been to his place but im suposedly moving this in april when its our 1 yr
anyways i cant ever look at his cell and when i peek for a sec when hes on it
i seen a few girls names he says they are workers from his cafes i know his aunty
or his mom according to friends of mine,,, its just really weird he can talk to me all
day everyday but still i have questions why ask me to marry you and not intruduce me to your family ?? he seems too good to be true except the phone and home thing.. which is big

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maj #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (1 year, 6 months after post)

1)if a guy is not taking you to his house….ITS A RED FLAG
2)if a guy does not answer some calls in front of you because he says I don’t feel like talking to this person right now- ANOTHER RED FLAG
3) also go to a trip together and tell him to pay for hotel with a credit card….My guy didn’t want to -RED FLAG ( statements come home and she can see it) - pays everything with cash
4) scheduled calling time ( after 9 always tired and going to watch some TV and relax) because his spouse is coming home at 9:30pm

I HAVE BEEN THROUGH THIS SITUATION WHERE THE GUY EVEN BROUGHT ME TO HIS PARENT’S HOME TO INTRODUCE ME TO HIS MOM BUT HE NEVER BROUGHT ME TO HIS HOUSE…AT THE END HE WAS MARRIED!!!!!

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An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (1 year, 7 months after post)

Hello, sorry for my bad english (i’m from argentina) i need now the same. i have boyfriend for 1 year but now i knowing diferents things that are not true, ex: his friend woman was his girlfriend for 8 years and the adreess him i have is not the correct now. he say that the phone have 1 adress diferent that the home where he live becouse say that in usa you can move to other house and not change the adress from telephon company. i’ll be glad if someone can help to me with this. i was trinf to see in internet but i have pay for information, i’d like know if you know 1 page or site where i can question about.

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8 months, 3 weeks ago (1 year, 7 months after post)

maybe you could find out from the court house or somethin?!

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