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i am in love with my best friend jaime and he sorta feels the same way .

we have shared intimate moments where we felt really strong feelings for each ohter but other times we just goof around like were still best friends. we can spend hours on the phone talking bout our future and the most random topics.plus hes hot. is this just the physical im attracted to or his total package. if so should i persue the relationship or should i leave it at a friendship level

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Xeno Dragon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 96 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 4 months ago (2 minutes after post)

Let it become whatever it’s going to be. You don’t need a label for it. If you’re both having fun with the way things are, just lay back and enjoy the ride.

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Harwood, MD, US | 2 years, 4 months ago (3 minutes after post)

i enjoy his ride very much but what if i get hurt in the mix

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Xeno Dragon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 96 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 4 months ago (5 minutes after post)

You can only get hurt if it gets any more serious than it is. It sounds like you two have a really cool mix of friendship and relationship. I wouldn’t want to jeopardize that by pushing for just a relationship or just a friendship.

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samirikin offline Unverified User #
Harwood, MD, US | 2 years, 4 months ago (11 minutes after post)

but what if he wantz to push 4 more and i end up gettin hurt

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Xeno Dragon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 96 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 4 months ago (13 minutes after post)

Well, as soon as it’s brought up, the situation will change. Then, you just go with whichever choice you find the most appealing. You CAN push to keep things the way they are, but if he’s pushing for a deeper relationship, that could hurt his feelings. I can believe I’m going to say this, but follow your heart on this one.

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Xeno Dragon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 96 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 4 months ago (14 minutes after post)

(can’t* believe…)

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Dracut, MA, US | 2 years, 4 months ago (2 hours, 18 minutes after post)

Xeno, ahahahah: “I can believe I’m going to say this, but follow your heart on this one.”

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