friends help: How to Win Friends and Influence People - Help.com

Didn’t know they had guides for this stuff…

Sad thing is, it works on people.

Thats a great link Mitz! Very true!

wow, that is very sad, but very true

Thank you mitzy!!! i printed a copy to my printer and its hanging above my desk. Its what i have been working on myself, and those techniques sound dead-bang-on accurate.

I also like to say its important to practice being social with people who are extremely social, like, some people really love to talk, and its really convenient to talk with them, because they will pick up alot of slack and find the right cues when you dont find them yourself.

hmm.

i think it’d work better if people would, you know, actually become nice and generous people… make the change on the inside rather than trying to force it on a superficial level

That book is so old ~chuckles~. Self help books are the silliest things in the world ~chuckles~.

Yeah I kind of made fun of the book, however I learned the definition of “Interdependce” from him decades ago ~smiles~, so at one time I did read self help books ~chuckles~

I bet I know how you found that…lol :D

Great website!

i would say a very good trait that i look for in individuals is them being themselves. no lieing to get more attention no stories. and being proud of who you are.. proud not cocky.. and care about others be a good person. make sure your always being some u like. dont be shy .. have fun be fun.. people are very addicted to happiness.. they want to be around people who are happy and smiling.. so smile .. its the best thing u can wear

read a book call seven very highly effective ways of highly influsaul people

Mitz those suggestions are great. I think I will use the list in this social skills class I will be teaching this year. Thanks.

true true true lol
quiet interesting x

That’s good stuff, I think it’s beneficial to be reminded how to interact positively with others from time to time. Thanks for the link :)

interesting stuff. but a simple way to make people like you who you dont really know is to say hello to them with a smile. lol. and actualy be welcoming.

Thats so true Mitzzz, I think smiling can do so much :( hehe whoops :)

So i was about to tell you to read Dale Carnegie and then thank you for giving me a reply…but it looks like most people already did all that…but here is what i was going to say….

Read:

How to Win Friends & Influence People by Dale Carnegie.

i couldnt be bothered to read above so dont know if you know all ready but you probably all do…….how to win friends and influence people is a book written by “chopper” read…and hes a total nutcase.
good dvd though and the bonus interviews at his ranch in australia is cool
watch it CHOPPER

wait! i just checked the dvd and he wrote a book called:
how to shoot friends and influence people.
maybe he thought hed write a sequal

If I sent you something that was not for you I appologize. but was in nessacery to be rude about it I obviously didnt know I sent it to the wrong post

I heard that life is easy if you follow instructions.
Agree?