Money help: I’m just letting everyone know that I’m alive and well, I lost myself there for awhile. - Help.com

blackee92114
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I’m just letting everyone know that I’m alive and well, I lost myself there for awhile.

I’m doing good now that I’m back. I have some great news. My daughter that I haven’t spoken to in over 5yrs called me, and she wants to see me. That’s great news. I asked one day for help in finding my daughter’s and look she calls me and not just calls me but she called me Dad. If you want to know how good those word’s made me feel, I’ll tell you what, it almost made me cry. Now I would have to go to Tennessee to see her and meet my grandson who happens to be 5yrs old. Gosh darn my grandson. Just to say that gives me goose bumps. Well I’ve done some research into how much it will cost me, and I don’t think I can afford to go. I will need about $1500 for about a 10 day visit. She needs a car, because she had an accident. She rolled the car twice. Thank whom ever who was watching out for them, yes Christoper was also in the car, both had their seat belts on or else I probably wouldn’t be writing this had they not been wearing them. I would like to send her some money to help her out, so it’s like I won’t go visit them and just send her money. But like my neighbor has said, “see wants to see you” So here I am: Mr.I can’t make a decision. I need some help. What to do, go visit and not have enough money to give her or don’t visit and send her money. I wish I could do both, but my only income is my disability check. Now I wish I would of kept going to school so I could get a good job. I have about $2700 saved up but I also need a new or used wheelchair. For a new one it’s about $1500. My Medicare will not help me with a manual wheelchair only an electric one which I have but I only use the electric wheelchair for when I go to like long distant travel like the zoo or even to the store. I also cannot put the electric wheelchair in the car. That’s why I have a manual chair. I can take the wheels off and put it in the car. So # one or first on the list is a chair then with what I have left I can go to Tennessee or send her what I have after I get the chair. I got to make some derisions. Help. Give me some advice please. I’m out of here. It’s 12:45 am it’s past my bed time. I click you guys tomorrow and see what advice you have. I’m sure it will be good because I have gotten some great help before from Help.com Thanks to whom ever takes the time to read this. Blackee92114

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The King Of Spades offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Medway, MA, US | 1 year, 2 months ago (5 hours, 55 minutes after post)

Well, why are you even asking, your daughter, no matter how many the years, has ask for your help, you should do what ever you can to help her. Remember she called you and ask for your help. Go to Tennessee and see her, meet your grandson. Im sure he would love to meet his grandfather. Your family needs you, Grab the earliest flight and fly down. Not to roll of topic, but where is the Mother in all this?

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blackee92114 offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
San Diego, CA, US | 1 year, 2 months ago (23 hours, 1 minute after post)

This is a shout out to The King Of Spades and beepbeep. Thank you for the the replays. I do appreciate the advice. I started a post and I wrote about 600 words and then I did a spell check and I accidentally hit backspace and it disappeared. Can you tell me if there is so I’ll know what to do if that happens again. Is there a way to retrieve it or is it’s lost never to be seen again. So I’m not going to write everything I lost. But> Yes I need to see them. She called and that was great. Her mom is in Tennessee, and recently got married, and that’s what got her to call me. Her mom is the only family she has in Tennessee and when they got on a fight she felt alone and I guess started to say, hey I have a dad out there some where. So she call me. Hey I’m going to continue this tomorrow. I need to lie down. Get out of this chair. I thank you again for the input. Blackee 92114

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The King Of Spades offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Medway, MA, US | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 day, 6 hours after post)

Well if you ever hit backspace or Delet, you can always hit Control (Ctrl+Z) and that’ll will undo things

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