I broke the “chicks before dicks” rule n now all my friends hate me!
This is what happened…
My friends and i were supposed to go out today but i told my friend last night that i couldnt go because i had to go see my boyfriend. Then she goes “so your ditching your mates for your boyfriend!?” and i go “aye its not like i do it all the time and i havent seen him in like 1 month and 2 weeks, its complicated, and i see you everyday at school and i hanged out with you last weekend” and she goes “weve been planning this for the past week why didnt you just tell us before that you wanted to hang out with your boyfriend instead of your mates” and i go “i didnt know what i was going to do and its not like i said that i was definetly going in the first place i said “i dunno” look im really sorry ok but its complicated me and my boyfriend have been having some problems i didnt want to tell you guys cause i didnt know what i should do, i was even thinking of breaking up with him thats why i havent been seeing him for that long but the past week i just really missed him” and she goes “so that still doesnt give you the reason to ditch your mates for your boyfriend, chicks before dicks mel! what happened to that!? im really pissed off right now, i would never do that gosh!” and i go “i have NEVER chosen my boyfriend over my friend i have ALWAYS put my friends first before my boyfriend, its not like i do it all the time, this is pretty much the first time, im really sorry please dont be angry with me” and she goes “even Amy is pissed off about this too” and i go “im really really sorry” and she goes “wateva, have fun with your boyfriend then, dont worry about it me and Amy have something else planned!”
I keep trying to apologize to her but i dont c why i bother, it doesnt seem like its working, ive never grovelled to someone this much before, OMG this is stupid! Shez seriously pissed off at me, ive never fought with her before and as much as i apologize shez not letting it GO! I can’t stop crying… i have school on Monday and i’ll have noone cause they still hate me. No matter how hard… how much! i keep apologizing and trying to explain she just doesnt wanna let it go. This is the conversation we had today…
i go “Hi!… are u still pissed at me?” and she goes “shud i be??” and i go “noo ok maybe but i dont want u to be… im really sorry” and she goes “see u even think that i shud b pissed wTf?? yeh well it bit late now” and i go “wat chu mean?” and she goes “dw” and i go “so watz gonna happen now!?” and she goes “dunno”
What am i supposed to do!? Please help me :(
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